I've read recently a post about how attraction is not negotiable which reminds me of a time I tried dating a cute-faced fat girl. She was nice, did a lot of favors and was fun to talk to. The problem was I simply wasn't attracted to her. My penis would NOT get hard. As nice as she was, as good of a person she was, I simply could not fuck her. As cruel as ir sounds I couldn't imagine myself touching that huge belly and all that fat. Maybe that's how women operate with beta males. The guy might be nice to her, buy her a lot of shit and be fun to talk to but her pussy simply does NOT get wet around him. It all comes down to attraction. Men like skinny women, big boobs, big ass etc etc. Women like muscular dudes, big arms, masculine face, etc. Attraction isn't rocket science, take care of your face, dress nicely and lift. Don't worry about alpha beta bullshit right now, try looking your best as possible. Confidence will automatically come once you look at yourself in the mirror and actually LIKE YOURSELF. Its obvious that you will have a pretty hard time attracting ladies if you're an obese neckbeard. Same goes for a fat girl, a cute face sometimes isn't enough. A good haircut, some muscles and a nice wardrobe will do wonders for a man. The rest will pretty much fall into place.