My 17 year ltr is imploding and besides my concerns about the kids I feel ok. Not happy about it but I need to grow and change many of the bad habits and patterns I have developed. She doesn't seem to like it and that's ok. I've been to dependent on her approval. If not for trp I think I would be in a much worse state of mind. Thanks to those who contribute quality posts and this sub in general. I have a lot more work to do but hope to contribute something helpful to give back in the future. Lifting has really helped my mind as well as my body during this challenging time of my life. Thanks again if this applies to you.