Was an orbiter to a girl for 4 years . I cringe every time I remember what a doormat I was , but thanks to her rejecting me I found TRP , went down the rabbit hole . I cut contact with her, started lifting , had improved confidence. No more mr. Nice guy was the book most suggested on TRP threads , if you haven't read it so far , do so soon. That book changed my life . I can safely now say that I'm in charge of my life , it feels so different and I can't tell you how this new confidence feels like. I even started dating successfully again without giving out the power in the relationship. Thank you TRP.