Girl messaged me “hey I know we had fun but don’t push girls heads down like that when you hookup w em. It made me uncomfortable and my friends said I should tell you.” What do I do?

Ivabighairy1 · 2020-10-07T18:31:35+00:00

Don’t respond. You would then be admitting the behavior and if she makes false charges against you, you’re screwed.

BetaCuckSimp · 2020-10-07T18:13:04+00:00

“Lmao 10-4”

redhawkes · 2020-10-07T18:13:48+00:00

This is post hoc hamstering.

Ignore or just "noted". You ghosted her, so she's pinging you now.

Asktrp4427 · 2020-10-07T17:00:01+00:00

Bro it’s a shit test. Quick maintain frame call her a fat bitch.

rockyp32 · 2020-10-07T16:45:16+00:00

[removed]

dsch190675 · 2020-10-07T18:16:39+00:00

[removed]

Atomz00 · 2020-10-08T02:17:25+00:00

"noted. i have updated your file"

Psychological_Radish · 2020-10-07T17:03:49+00:00

More details. Why is this chick messaging you months later about a hookup? Is this a plate or a ONS? Never had something like this happen, but if I did, I would send something like /u/bluefingerblue just said.

I've had girls complain about me pulling their hair, which is the first step for me in the dom/sub ladder. When that happens I say "ok no problem, we don't have to do that," but I know in my head it's over. Done-zo. We definitely won't be hooking up again.

Gotta learn to read the room, man. Shoving a girl's mouth onto your cock isn't always appropriate.

asabasa · 2020-10-07T17:01:59+00:00

lmao she probably liked it and felt dirty. Then she told her friends it made her uncomfortable to feel better and they were all like “yeah omg that’s gross”. Just say “you’re the first one who’s complained” or find some other way to insinuate that you do it to other girls and they love it.

PachoHerrera0 · 2020-10-07T18:15:01+00:00

“Ok”

brianmcg321 · 2020-10-08T01:16:12+00:00

Say "New phone, who dis?"

-ThePathIsTheGoal- · 2020-10-07T20:16:01+00:00

I think you went with a fine response to neutralize it. But don’t let it snowball into anything at all whatsoever. NOTHING more.

She is indeed hamstering and pissed that you nexted her, and now her ego is trying to save itself. If you give her one of those snarky responses like a thumbs up emoji or “got it”, “noted”, this might piss her off further by you coming off as a smart ass and not giving her the reaction she wanted.

Just leave it at “ok, thanks for letting me know. Didn’t want to make you feel uncomfortable.” The end.

onpuzzle · 2020-10-07T17:51:03+00:00

Just dumb women stuff. Deflect.

sixseven89 · 2020-10-07T17:52:41+00:00

"Roger that"

AngloWolf · 2020-10-07T18:18:58+00:00

[deleted]