In Gnosticism, there are certain different types of people who are separated based on their abilities to connect to the spiritual world. Whether you are religious or not, this passage should help to illuminate female nature to those of you who see them as beautiful precious flowers.

The four types of people are:

Sarkic - creatures of flesh
Hylic - people only capable of material thinking and "rationality" based on that, these people have a tough time individuating or going against the grain
Psychic - people who are awaked in matters of the soul, the place where morality exists
Pneumatics - people awakened spiritually

While being redpill aware doesn't make you Pneumatic, we can try and put the true redpills at least in the Psychic category, you are now aware of the nature of women and the world, and reject it. We can place Bluepilled men in the Hylic category. These men are consumerist, are weary of anything controversial, often get the majority of their personality and ethos from either media or which politician of the week is speaking, and are sexually frustrated. Women, and I mean ALL women, are Sarkic, or creatures of the flesh.

What does this mean? Women are, in total, incapable of having a true moral compass. This isn't willful, this is simply the creature they are, women are unable to become 'redpilled' or spiritually aware. They are unable to become immortal in spirit, they are unable to form an ethos that isn't societally enforced (hence the sudden amoral choices they make in private), and are incapable of true sympathy.

I can hear the 'but my girl' replies already so I will break it down further. Men are not usually purely Sarkic creatures, most of the time you will at the very least be Hylic. This is because even the bluepilled man feels as if his life has no meaning, because in the Hylic state you do not have a spirit. Men in the psychic state try and transcend the societal bonds because they restrict freedom, which women cannot comprehend because they are unable to think in terms beyond pure flesh, meaning base emotions. Often the perceived virtue you see a woman have is either a put-on so she isn't ostracized from the community and dropped when she is alone, or something you have projected onto her because of your own biases.

Men are often shocked that a woman will cheat so easily, especially after she decries it in public. Believe it or not, the woman doesn't even see that she has done anything wrong. Women are purely amoral. She speaks out against cheating because we as a society are against cheating on your significant other. When approached by a man she sees as attractive, she may reject him whilst in a relationship not because she values the relationship but because she either sees no extra value in this male compared to her own, or because she is worried that if caught, she will be ostracized. The relationship as a nebulous concept aka 'love' is never considered. This is because the 'love' as men know it is not an emotion women can feel in any sort of ethereal way. There is no love that transcends bonds to women. The reason media that caters to them is so full of it is because they want that higher spirituality innately, as we all do, and yet the love they feel is entirely base emotions, nothing approaching the sort of unconditional love preached by western society as the ideal.

A lot of men want a return to the loving nuclear family of the 40's and 50's, but even then they fail to realize that the white-picket fence ideal did not and will not ever exist. Suburban 50's housewives fucked and sucked just like the women of today, but put forward the societal ideal in public that all women were expected to have. This means that women will adopt in public that which MEN want her to be, in hopes of being well-thought of and desired.

This means that when you become a Chad your relationship problems won't disappear. You are essentially dealing with something entirely different from you, some Gnostics consider women different species entirely. Anything below the level of Psychic cannot love, they can only mimic it. When you fall in love with a woman, she falls in 'love' with the emotions you make her have. When those disappear, she will seek them elsewhere. Too much familiarity with a woman causes her to grow bored easily, and since they act entirely on base emotions, she will usually cheat with a man who makes her feel those things. A woman's loyalty is based on what she feels in that moment and the societal pressure aka, will she be slut-shamed if she sleeps with another man? If the answer is no, and the man she is with makes her feel excited and aroused, she will sleep with him.

Many men will talk of philosophy and be confused when they are bored out of their mind. When men beyond a Hylic level talk of philosophy they are often extremely excited to exchange ideas, as improving their Ego with new ideas and developing their own is a noble pursuit. Women are unable to do this and as such are bored with it. This extends to the schools of thought most women join with by their own choice, their version of Christianity is whatever makes you feel good or is societally acceptable, things that are also apart of the church like the condemnation of homosexuals which is seen as a hot topic are conveniently abandoned by the more liberal among them when pressed by society. This isn't to say women feel empathy for a marginalized group as you would believe if you saw white women and their political rallying today. Women are incapable of actual empathy which is a higher spiritual concept that can only be felt for someone on a lower or equal spiritual tier. Women feel bad for marginalized groups and ideas because they gain social status and approval for doing so, their empathy is calculated and Machiavellian, but also entirely instinctual. The other schools of thought that can extend to higher spirituality like Buddhism are entirely superficial as well. The concept of Karma is easy to understand and adopted as well as aesthetic things like the art and yoga and sometimes the clothes, as well as a very basic form of meditation. Ask a female Buddhist about her view on Noble Eightfold Path or how she practices Right Mindfulness and she will struggle to explain it. Indeed, Buddhists as well agree that for women it is nearly impossible to achieve enlightenment unless they are reborn as a man or move onto the next plane of existence.

What does this mean for you? In short, most of your failure with women is that you think you are dealing with someone who you have much in common with. This is not true. Your perfect virtuous girl is actually unable to comprehend this idea. She operates entirely on emotion. When you are attractive, you make her feel positive emotion, which is why we encourage things like lifting on this sub (exercise also has a key role in some forms of Gnosticism, which I may make a post on at some point). That is it. There isn't a secret pickup line to getting laid because it implies that simple words will make her feel anything. It is emotion, feelings, which get you laid. Women will often get annoyed at a guy who takes his disciplines seriously because she is not able to understand discipline as a spiritual and improvement concept. A man in the gym is becoming one with his ego and improving his state, which she does not consider when she works out. She only works out to become attractive, which to be fair to her, is often what drives young men to the gym as well. Once you see beyond that, which most men tend to do, you become something alien to her. This is why women will claim not to like guys with huge muscles, because her first impression is not the way the muscles when placed in front of her make her feel which is always a form of arousal, but the idea of the gymrat as a sort of modern day monk.

For women, everything is entirely aesthetic. This does not mean entirely superficial, although you could easily interpret it as that. A woman's bedroom often looks cluttered even when it is organized. Although everything is technically 'in a row' there is a disconnect between that and what is ideal in a space. Some women interior designers talk about the ancient Chinese geometry of Feng Shui, which is maximization of energy in a space. They of course neglect the energy aspect as it is beyond them and unable to be felt in anyway other than a discomfort from time to time. This is why most women are fine in cluttered spaces, as unlike most men, even those in a low state, they do not feel the need for much space to move. Most men when caged in such a space will grow weary and tired, as if their energy is being sapped by unknown forces. This is because they are aware that they are in a place with low energy innately. This is also a reason a lot of women are unable to really appreciate nature and natural spaces, because although the energy in such places is much higher than it could ever be in a manmade space, they do not recognize it.

Many men are also confused as to why you should not open up to women with your emotions. This is because although she is a creature of emotion, she is not able to understand yours at all, and will almost always interpret it as weakness. A man in emotional pain looks like a weak male to her because your mental anguish is something she can only feel a simplified version of. This is why psychopaths get along well with women, they often operate on a similar emotional plane. The 'dark triad' that men try and emulate works well because most women act that way regardless. Chivalry is dead because although it is a nice idea which women will publicly applaud, the idea of gallantry and being beholden to a code like that is foreign to them.

I will finish this post up before it gets too long, and I may expand on this more later, but I will leave you with this. She is not like you. Your concept of women that was pushed on you was a fabrication. They do not understand you, and they cannot understand you on anything beyond emotional instinct. Failure to accept this leads to your problems and your failings with women. When you begin to place your own philosophy and ideals on women, you will find very quickly that she will not measure up. This is not something that only takes place in the west, despite what the asianophiles will have you believe. Japanese women, American women, European women are all the same creature in their base state. Amoral. Does it hurt that you will never really be loved in the way you desire by a woman, yes, but you must accept it or forever live in agony.