I know that my post doesn't seem suitable for this subreddit because of the title, but I'd love if someone would offer me some piece of advice. [I'm also not a native speaker so I apologize if I made any language mistakes]

I(18f) started to get more attuned with my femininity and I'm trying to become a high value woman, my first step was to stop chasing men and be more receptive instead.

About a year ago, I had serious feelings for someone and I did everything I could to get his attention, which only made him distance himself from me and he basically thought I was crazy at one point.

I came to realize that there was nothing I could do to make him love me back and I grew tired of acting in a masculine way, I decided to unfollow his socials and stop contacting him. Quarantine has helped tremendously, I haven't seen him in months and I felt like I've moved on from him once and for all.

That's when I had to pass my finals and we crossed each other for the first time in ages, it was really embarrassing, I did act like I had no care in the world at that moment, but then I started constantly thinking about him.

How can I move on from a guy who has hurt me? How do I stop the need for taking control in dating? I want to learn how to fall back and let higher quality men who are interested in me take the lead.