How to go to a restaurant as a sex god/red pill alpha male breeder

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Well that's a good point, and I think that really comes down to what we really want in life right?

I mean, when I was in my redpill phase, it was because I felt girls were not giving me any attention. I felt invisible. And so I wanted attention from girls, I wanted to feel wanted.

It's assumed that the goal of the redpill (in my opinion) is to reach a point where you can have regular sex without the need for relationships (because relationships are fake!).

Now when we change the goal to just being happy with yourself, the means change too. Now it's not about getting laid but about being happy in yourself and enjoying life to the max. If that's the goal, the redpill points us away from it by enforcing how we should think and behave, thereby taking us away from our real spontaneous creative selves which we are underneath the cloud of insecure thoughts.

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We'd have to define what success means to avoid confusion. I was referring to what I've seen in clubs, which wasn't a lot but seemed ok if the baseline is drunk dude in a club (most "normal" men seem to be cringey or too afraid). If we define success as anything more like sex or relationships then I also have my doubts about everything, especially influence of their teachings on mental health. I certainly didn't follow them to see if they "pulled" or whatever beyond making out with drunk girls.

However I was in those circles for some time and truth be told some people I've met went from cringey virgins to actually juggling multiple women... they've also suffered from having really shitty idea about world and women and it was kinda unhealthy. I don't know if it was RSD's achievement though, maybe if someone told them just to approach they'd be even better off without unhealthy ideas. I just couldn't "push through" in a rapy/stalky/cringy way and had no success but at least also very few fucked up views about women.

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I don't mean introverts because that's not the same as being shy or awkward, nor do I mean physically unattractive people. You can be an extra extrovert and still shy, suppresed. However an unconfident try-hard making people uncomfortable (I think it's called neediness in pua/redpill lingo). Physical attraciveness might influence this but that's not what I meant, especially if being attractive gives confidence boost.

Some people I met were literal virgins and literally cringey when around women, they weren't necessarily very bad looking, just had absolutely no social skills when around women and no idea how to flirt at all. Therefore the harder they tried the more "cringey" it was. Been there, done that. Not that pua advice did my much good, and if it did it also did as much bad.

I probably shouldn't have used that term in the first place because it says nothing except describing my feelings and it's also used as a selling point for "dating coaches".

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Honestly, I'm in awe of the mental gymnastics you've done here to justify his behaviour. He was rude by shooing her away like she was an annoying pigeon. There is no justification for moving her by the hips. That's outright boundary pushing creepy behaviour. He has a voice and all he had to say was "excuse me, can I pass by please?".

I would break down all of what he has done here like you have but quite honestly in not going to do something most people can see for themselves anyway. What concerns me is your thought process in justifying him by using language like " he was vulnerable". He wasn't, the only one that was was her because he was a rude and angry man which 99% of women know is a sign of unpredictability and a massive risk to her.

I doubt this story is real. Her going to his place that evening after he was clearly rude and pushed boundaries... Nah. If she did she needs therapy just as much as this lying SOB.

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Well being vulnerable isn’t necessarily being emotional, there’s all different types of vulnerability. I guess it looks like I’m justifying his actions, and I don’t mean to be doing that. Placating and faking a persona, and acting like a dick is not the way to go. In fact it’s pretty bad, and treating people like shit is bad. My message was simple, he acted needy so he attracted someone needy. What attracted her to him originally was his original intentions, but what got her to stick around was his neediness as she too was needy.

I’m also not endorsing to grab people on the hips, or touch people like that, I’m just saying he did what he wanted with no fear of any repercussion that may come his way, which is again stupid (stupid) as there could have been. He did what he wanted an acted in a way he wanted which was true to himself to some degree, but “faked” the rest.

Edit: deleted the original comment, my message didn’t come across correctly. I also agree with with what you are saying, you depicted it a lot better.

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I deleted my original comment because it came across in the wrong context. He was being vulnerable in the beginning, but the irony was that he attracted the girl with his no needy behaviour because she was needy. That’s my intention, that I wanted to get across in the beginning. Not the fact that he touched her and that I was telling people to touch her. I was saying that he moved her hips with his hands to get her out of the way because he wanted to. Which is incredibly risky move, because the Outcome from that could been bad.

And no, I’m not gonna apologise to Someone who accuses me of something, when I specifically said multiple times I don’t endorse it. thanks but no thanks I think if you’re gonna act like this maybe the pink pill is the answer for you. You jump down my throat with allegations that are absolutely disgusting, and you want me to apologise? you have some sense of entitlement that I will never understand but all the best to you

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His friends are acting somewhat needy by the sound of it.

I'd say they were acting... normal? I'm always nice to waiters and waitresses whether I want to fuck them or not. I'd also apologise for my friend if I somehow missed that (supposed) sexual tension between them.

he acted non needy and vulnerable by behaving in a manner that was true to himself in some respect, He wanted to watch the game he was more interested in the game

He faked it all by repeating to himself "her opinion doesn't matter". There is not a hint of vulnerability by being a dick removing himself from emotion and compassion. He was so vulnerable he noticed all the signs and calculated all his moves which he's done for the first time ever. He literally states he "suppresse his beta behaviour". That's the opposite of vulnerability.

If it's true dude got laid by acting like a complete arsehole, faking what he thinks is cool and attractive. IT probably is to some, but that was a role play at best. He even viewed this as a competition as if everyone else wanted to fuck her because they acted nice. If it happened that says more about her than about him (except for being fake), maybe he just was her type and she'd fuck him no matter what, maybe she just liked arseholes for her (possibly unhealthy) reasons, it definitely wasn't because he was vulnerable and true to himself.

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Title	How to go to a restaurant as a sex god/red pill alpha male breeder
Author	imbecile_keshig
Upvotes	42
Comments	54
Date	November 4, 2020 5:59 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/jnrcte/how_to_go_to_a_restaurant_as_a_sex_godred_pill/
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