I'm 29yo and had my first threesome last night with and so many things happened.

Met this girl on Tinder we exchanged some messages, photos etc.. her and her best friend were down for fun and came over like a couple of hours later. One of the girls was a stripper like 23yo (lets say 9) and was way hotter than the other 24yo (lets call her 6).

I am usually a pretty dominant guy in the bed, but I felt a fair bit out of my league. I kept frame as best as I could and these girls were super super cool, but I felt like I could have done way better. The ugly chick 6 did a lot of leading and it worked okay. Is the guy meant to lead dominantly in a threesome or is it more of a like 'team effort'?

I found it really tough getting and staying hard. The adrenaline/situation got to me a bit and it just took ages to get hard and stay hard especially because they forced condoms and I really wasn't into the 6. How do I get hard and stay hard for longer?

Also, the 9 stripper was way hotter than the 6, and I couldn't get turned on by the 6. When I would go and fuck the 6 I would go soft and she would get upset and insecure saying I know she is way hotter than me (this turned me off even more). How do you fuck the uglier chick and split your time between the girls without one of them getting insecure?

Even though over the two hours I didn't cum and barely did any fucking because I was soft 90% of the time (literally only did like 10 minutes of fucking) they both want to meet up again when I am in town and have been messaging me since. How do I organize another threesome? Do I message both, just one?

Even though I would have liked to do way more fucking, overall it was lots of fun and the girls were super cool. Any other tips would be awesome. Thanks.