Definitely a work in progress, but I'm seeing a change in mindset just from reading the red pill network. Two weeks ago, I met a girl at a bar, had my way with her at her place. Last night, I was again in her neighbourhood and she started complaining when I texted her that she was tired.

I ended up telling her, "come if you want, if you don't want, no big deal". She then said, "I'll change into something nicer and come, I'm in my PJs right now LOL".

I sat there, eating, and reading a magazine. She showed, apologised for being late, ordered a glass of wine, paid for my bruschetta and drove me home after the night was over. So, thanks for giving me the ability to fake being outcome-independent.