I think it does because you can continue to love someone weather romantically or not without conditions, but not be in a relationship with them. I think to many people confused the “conditions” of a relationship with love, then those people go on to say the love doesn’t exist because their are conditions. There examples would be something like “if someone cheats on you, you stop loving them and leave”.

I believe this to be false because you still love that person, your just hurt by their actions. You didn’t leave the relationship because you don’t love them anymore, you left because you and that person weren’t what was best for each other, and when you think about it like that you realize that was the most selfless thing that you could of had did.

I think the real definition of unconditional love is to be loving/ love someone despite their flaws and misteps. And want the best for another person, and actively try to help them (not enable them) to become better. That’s why Mother still loves her child after what year she has done but they do not like what there child has done. I think it similar to what Christian say “ hate the sin, not the sinner”. I don’t understand people say they don’t believe in love, but they believe in things like something being bad or the idea of hate. You can’t believe a light without believing in darkness. You don’t know something is good without knowing something was bad. Also anytime they talk about the reason for why love doesn’t exist They always bring up the examples in their personal life then base the bad experience they had on to everybody else, therefore because they don’t believe love exists that means everybody else is faking it.

It is with my definition of unconditional love, that I believe you can unconditional love someone while being in a relationship. I believe this because what exactly are these conditions in this relationship? Because people say to in a relationship there are conditions like loyalty, honesty and stability. But do we necessarily ask our partners to be this do we just hope that they are. I think being in a relationship and it being unconditional is one of the greatest things ever. Because imagine Knowing the possibility if you want to go with it let your partner will not be honest, will not be faithful or be stable. But still behaving is all those things above regardless you don’t expect your partner to be all these things you hope they are because if they don’t they don’t love you unconditionally.

Two unconditional people in a relationship is the most loving of relationships in terms of friendship/and romantic. Because these treat their partners how they hope their partners behave like also. “Treat me how you would want to be treated” to put it simpler. And they hope for this without any necessarily proof, Assuming that they trust their partner to be these things, without them having to watch their every move. I think this is what redpillers don’t understand, also love is nuance their are many definitions.