Of late i've been seeing more references of this word......"Normie" Way to many comments from "non-normies" about how boring normies are and how interaction with them is a pain.

Here's a "formal" definition for normie

"Normie" refers to people who use popular social media and believes the popular opinion. They don't think for themselves, if something is considered "ok" they'll do it, even if it makes them monsters- they care more about the opinion of the projected "standard" of society than any actual values or beliefs.

"Doesn't this guy know our websites culture? Nah, hes just a normie."

As for what i think a "non-normie" is ....probably someone with aspergers/autism , social anxiety, maybe a bit asocial or just someone who's generally way too into "internet culture" (4chan/9gag/ weird parts of reddit).

These are the types of guys who look at what normal guys do to get women ...you know : working out, dressing well, talking and flirting with them ...and see it as being a "dancing monkey" or "simping" for pussy

It never occurs to them that maybe normal guys like chasing women. Maybe normies like talking to new women and trying to flirt. Maybe rejection doesn't bother normie men as much as they think.

But maybe it's asking too much to ask "non-normies" to look at life from any other perspective than theirs.

There were so good answers in this post ..."Q4M: So...tell me about this dancing monkey." ..but i'll just quote this comment

I think a lot of men either have to choose between being someone they're not or being alone and this is where the frustration comes from.

The thing is ..if they got a "normie" woman they wouldn't like her anyway ...she'd probably bore him to tears. That super hot Stacy who's only past-times are social media, reality tv, make-up tutorials and yoga .....would bore him to death. Of course Stacy is a completely made up caricature ... much like Chad (and they're perfect for each other)

Then he'd resent her because the relationship depends on him pretending to be "someone he's not" (because that's the version she fell in love with) .

Maybe "Non- Normies" should stick to dating "Non- Normies"