Enough time has passed, no doxxing for me.
Location/Context & "Object": Irrelevant
Characters:
Girl (Jane)
- She's fat, unattractive, loud, and obnoxious. I have overheard her many times casually discussing her thoughts on sex out loud in public (with pride).
- "Just because a woman's vagina is wide, doesn't make her a slut. Some girls are born with wider vaginas than others" (she said this to a hot, young girl who cringed afterwards)
- "I like sex and not I'm ashamed of it"
- ~"I'm fine with just fucking"
- She once verbally declared she won't obey her supervisor to her supervisor
- Discusses her online dating prospects and her 'standards'
Beta (Bob)
- Kinda short, timid, not very assertive.
Event (I'm in the vicinity with others)
Jane and two betas are standing in a corner. She's discussing her online dating prospects in the unfeminine fashion stated above as if she's trying to impress them with her pre-selection. At some point, Jane throws an object (light and large) at Bob's face while he's talking to her, seems like she's just playing at first, and this doesn't faze him. Then she decided to throw another object at his face, Bob has a slight 'why are you doing that' look on his face, but continues to talk. Again, Jane throws the same object at Bob's face and he sets it aside where she can't reach it, unfazed. She laughs at him.
Eventually Bob says something Jane doesn't agree with and demands that Bob recants his statement with an apology. Bob asks "why?" Jane tells him to apology or else she will "beat him up". Bob laughs and again, asks, "why?". Jane then decides to walk towards him, grab a fist full of his hair, manhandling him, and continues to demand an apology. Bob says, "ow! ow! Why are you doing that?" Jane repeats her command, "say you're sorry or I won't let go". Bob struggles a bit and makes no attempt to escape, just retreating his head into his chest. Jane laughs and says, "say you're sorry, now". Bob says, "okay okay, I'm sorry". Jane laughs, tosses his head aside and walks back to her original position chuckling with a hint of superiority.
Analysis
1) Many women below a 7/10 attempt to compensate for their lack of attractiveness with direct as opposed to indirect communication, increase in speech volume, showing off their prospects (pre-selection), and stepping on others.
2) Both men and women despise weakness, but women take it a step further; they're disgusted on a sexual level. In this situation, she couldn't use Bob for economic resources or sexual validation, so she used him to demonstrate her dominance because she wants to raise her self in the social hierarchy, and because in women's minds, betas deserve to be used or die.
3) If a woman believes this to be an acceptable action, there are usually one of two things at play (or both). Either the woman believes she can get away with it with no social or legal consequences, or you have consistently presented yourself to have no self-respect.
Conclusion
Don't be Bob. Bob's a pussy. Like predators in the wild, women seek out the weak to prey upon when they want/need something. If you carry yourself correctly, people will usually treat you with respect or at least indifference.
Edit 1: no, Bob did not refrain from retaliating because he was worrying about being fired, this is his typical behavior -- not assertive.
Edit 2: The question isn't what could have Bob done about the situation, it's what should he have done to have prevented it from occurring in the first place. He should have carried himself better to not look like a target. Yes, it's unfair, you shouldn't have to worry about stupid bitches doing this to you but it's a fact of life that there are people that prey on what they perceive to be weak for no other reason than their personal pleasure, adapt accordingly.
Walk with head up, shoulders back, cock out. Don't be afraid to stick up for yourself like this guy was. He should have told her to stop the first time she threw something at his face, stating that it was unacceptable. Then again, he shouldn't have been hanging out with that trash in the first place.
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