A FWB/potential LTR that I've known for 3.5 months (I'm still vetting, don't worry) spent the entire weekend with me. Because she was attending a party I was throwing Friday, our date Saturday, and a modeling shoot on Sunday her friend was having that she invited me to be in, it made sense for there to spend the nights.
To make a long story short, we had a good time. I was hesitant at first because it's a massive step, but the entire weekend felt normal, nothing felt forced or awkward. Well, the morning came for her to leave and she was very moody and quiet. I tried to make a few jokes/comments but they fell flat so I shrugged and thought "well shit, we'll be quiet together then."
That night, she texted me along the lines of what's the bed like without her there. I mentioned how it felt different and joked saying how she should come back ASAP. The following message is where I fucked up
Her: Oh wow, I thought you'd be happy to have your space back to yourself. (Shit test? Comfort test?)
Me: happy is an understatement, I started dancing as soon as you dropped me off at the station.
Her: wow. Yeah, I bet.
Ever since then, she's been distant. She asked a very loaded question and I went for the A&A approach, but I think I fucked up. So my questions are: was this a shit test or a comfort test? Is there a way to recover?
Thanks in advance 🙏🏾
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