How To Go On Your Own Hero’s Journey And Get Whatever You Want

Whenever we hit a major roadblock in life, whether it’s girls, or professionally, it’s very tempting to leave that path behind and try a different path instead of doubling down and focusing on overcoming the obstacle.

  • You may be an absolute beginner with girls. And after your best attempt at creating an online dating profile you could only get a couple dates - both of which didn’t go anywhere - so instead of trying other things like social circle game or cold approach you decide fuck it I’m just not attractive enough for girls and decide to escape reality with video games or other addictions instead of working on yourself
  • Maybe you’re not getting the results at the gym that you want. Your lifts just stay the exact same while you see everyone else skyrocketing past you. So eventually you stop going and focus on your career instead of figuring out how your body works and getting your nutrition right.
  • Or maybe you started a new business. But you just can’t seem to get people to buy your product no matter how hard you try to sell it. So instead of learning more about what your customer wants or learning sales skills, you decide fuck it, 95% of new businesses fail, I’ll just go back to my career

Not only does this prevent you from reaching your goal, it robs you of the BEST opportunity to learn and grow by overcoming a difficult problem

You wanna stop giving a fuck what people think?

You wanna be able to walk into a room and instantly have respect?

You wanna stop being a nervous little fake alpha bitch who just reads article after article on the red pill instead of taking action?

Then stop pussying out at the first sign of difficulty, or the second sign, or the third, or the 100th...

It’s not over until I win.

Commit that phrase to memory. 

As long as it’s something worth doing, “IT'S NOT OVER UNTIL I WIN.” (Unless your goal is to get into the NBA at age 40)

If you want something badly whether it’s girls or money then you should thank the Lord that he put so many obstacles and roadblocks for you to overcome. 

How else can you grow into the man you want to be other than doing hard shit?

Okay, so you finally ready to go on your hero’s journey to get whatever the fuck it is you want? Good. Here are the steps. 

You’ll find these steps in just about every movie you ever liked as a kid. Star Wars, The Matrix, Lion King, you name it.

Every movie you ever liked as a kid used this exact formula for their hero because it’s the one most consistent with real life and the one audiences can relate to.

THE ORDINARY WORLD

This is the ordinary little world you currently exist in. It’s not good. You’re not happy because you’re lacking something, or maybe something is taken from you...

For me, this was my life after college. Just work in an accounting job. Play video games with friends. No girls interested in me. Rinse and repeat.

THE CALL TO ADVENTURE

This is where you are given a challenge, problem, or adventure. Often it appears as a blunder, or chance. This stage establishes the goal of the hero.

For me, this is when I first discovered RedPill on the internet and devoured every single article I could every night. I felt a deep sense of curiosity, like a part of me knew that there was an answer to my problems out there, waiting to be found.

THE REFUSAL OF THE CALL

This is where you’re initially hesitant to go on your journey. You’re like is this really for me?

For me, it was just this feeling that I didn’t know enough. So instead of taking action I just kept reading and reading.

MEETING WITH THE MENTOR

This is where you encounter a wise figure who prepares you for the journey. This figure (or item) gives advice, guidance, or an item, but cannot go with you.

For me, this was an article posted here on How To Get Laid Like A Warlord. The main idea of that article is that looks don’t matter and your frame is everything. So I decided to do everything the author said and focus only on game and unshakeable frame!

CROSSING THE THRESHOLD

And now you’ve finally committed to the task! You decide to go out and approach girls, or actually fill in the paperwork to start your own business!

For me, this was going out with a friend and hitting on girls together at the club. I remember falling flat on my face at this point. Girls would give me one word answers and ignore me, even though I was confident as fuck and thought I was king of the world. None of that mattered.

TESTS, ALLIES, TEACHERS, AND ENEMIES

And now you the hero have discovered that you’ve bitten off more than you can chew. This isn’t going to be as easy as you thought it was going to be, so 3 things can happen. 

1) you give up, crawling back to your beta bitch ways

2) you keep trying, but refuse to accept advice from anyone else because your ego is too high

3) you recognize that you can’t do it alone so you go out to make allies and find mentors to guide you. Like Luke did when he looked for Yoda for training.

I decided to choose option 3 in my journey but unfortunately, I picked the wrong mentor - RSD... and lost $2997 on a boot camp while still getting no results with girls.

That’s right, not everyone you meet on your journey will be helpful. Some will unintentionally hurt you on your journey by giving you bad advice while others will straight up try to destroy you before you can succeed.

But it’s very important to remain open minded and continue meeting new people and absorbing new ideas in order to find the ones that will work for you. If you decide fuck it, I can figure this out by myself, you’ll end up like those guys on the black pill forums that say they’ve approached 100 girls with zero results or those business owners that have been struggling to make it for 15 years with mediocre results

APPROACH TO THE INNERMOST CAVE

This is where you’ve finally come to the edge of the dangerous place where the "object of the quest" is hidden. Maybe you finally met the right teacher and acquired all the knowledge to succeed that you were missing before

For me this was meeting a good mentor online who fixed all of the mistakes I was making, like not talking loud enough or not dressing up and doing my hair before going out. Or doing the wrong weird HIIT workouts in the gym instead of doing heavy compound lifts...

Unfortunately, most guys never get this far. Because they think they can do it by themselves like a real hero. Notice how none of the heroes from your favorite movies as a kid ever did it alone. They all had substantial help. And this is because in real life, behind every successful man is an entire network of allies and mentors who helped him along the way. There can never be great success without other people to aid you on your journey.

And this is why you see so many guys doing the exact same things year after year. Running their own version of game, sleeping with girls they’re not interested in, playing it safe with their business and copying the competition instead of learning how to scale.

THE SUPREME ORDEAL

And now the moment of truth! You have all the tools and knowledge to succeed now. All your previous delusions about what it would take to succeed have been shattered by the cold measuring stick of results.

So what do you do when it’s time to finally apply your new knowledge on a date to get your first lay?

Or launch your first pay per click traffic campaign for your business?

Are you gonna seize the moment and finally win or succumb to the pressure and fail yet again?

For me this was going out to the clubs again with my newfound knowledge of what it takes to succeed - focusing on looks, tonality, and body language instead of pickup lines.

REWARD, OR SEIZING THE SWORD

If you failed, it’s time to take a step back and reassess where you went wrong. Now is not the time to give up. Now is the time to double down and keep fighting for what’s yours.

Go back to the tests, allies, teachers, and enemies step and search for new mentors to aid you in your path.

If you succeeded in defeating Scar or Agent Smith, or The Death Star, then it’s time to take your reward.

With girls its losing your virginity

Or securing your first lay with a 9/10 or getting your first threesome if you’re more advanced

With business it’s finally hitting that first huge campaign that scales and makes you hundreds of thousands of dollars in a single month.

For me, this is banging 15 girls in the span of half a year. Made me realize that this new knowledge really works.

THE ROAD BACK

And now that you got what you want, you must deal with the consequences of your actions. You may be pursued by remaining enemy forces. Or maybe new enemies pop up that you didn't see coming.

Life doesn't just end in happily ever after once you get what you want. The demons often continue to haunt you, even with your new powers.

For me, this was going on a dry spell after a few plates fell off after COVID hit. And thus, the journey continues.

RESURRECTION

One final test is required for the purification and rebirth of the hero. Alternatively, it may be a miraculous transformation.

Think Neo dying before becoming "The One."

There are no allies or mentors here to aid you here because you've progressed too far on your journey, and you already know the basics, so now you must learn to use everything you learned to give birth to something new.

For me, this was rethinking everything I thought I knew about game and adapting to the new virtual world by learning how to build a high value Instagram to hook girls in my sleep after having a good initial approach in person and swapping numbers.

THE RETURN

This is where you return to the ordinary world bearing the elixir. Common elixirs are treasure, love, freedom, wisdom, or knowledge. A defeated hero is doomed to repeat the hero's journey again until he succeeds.

For me, this was returning to my normal world, with the knowledge that I can consistently get laid whenever I go out to approach now. It’s not such a big deal anymore and now I can focus on bigger and better things, like becoming a multi-millionaire.

Oftentimes, this hero will then go on to inspire other heroes, thus continuing the cycle because as we all know:

Through action, a Man becomes a Hero

Through death, a Hero becomes a Legend

Through time, a Legend becomes a Myth

And by learning from the Myth, a Man takes action

SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

You may think that this road isn’t for you, that you’re too weak to be FAILING over and over again and to pick yourself back up after falling flat on your face...

But I’ve seen it time and time again.

There’s a hero in every man if you're just willing to go all in and not surrender.

Here is something for you to consider. All of us, the whole of humanity, are remarkable. Unlike almost all souls – which remain locked in unconsciousness – our souls have achieved consciousness.

In a war between infinite souls, we are the ones who made it. We have beaten astounding odds to be where we are today. You may not realize this, but you are already the most stupendous of miracles.

You are so miraculous that it is astounding that you are here at all. You may be one in 600 million! Male ejaculate can contain as many as 600 million sperm. Only one of those was you (or, actually, half of you; your father provided the sperm half of you and your mother the egg half of you).

All 600 million might have failed to impregnate your mother’s egg. Or any of the others – hypothetical brothers or sisters – might have made it instead of you. But, no, you were the one who ventured through the ultimate assault course – because a woman’s body regards male sperm as an alien entity that must be destroyed, just like some virulent infection – and you succeeded where all the others failed.

You are one in six hundred million! You have beaten lottery odds. So why are you so humble, so beaten down by life, so cowardly, so willing to accept the shit treatment you get? You are already a remarkable warrior, you are already a god who has achieved greater feats than any of the most legendary heroes.

Achilles was nothing compared with you! Your sperm’s feats would make Alexander The Great shudder in fear. 

Stop cowering and live up to what you have already achieved. Make your life the reflection of the supreme struggle you endured and over which you have triumphed.

Remember, one in six hundred million!!! Can you achieve the same heroic success in the real world? Why not? Who’s holding you back except yourself?

You have already beaten staggering odds just to make it into this world. Remember that the next time you’re too much of a pussy to approach that girl, the next time you’re too scared to start a business, the next time you decide to play it safe instead of going after what you really want.

Thank you very much and Happy Motherfucking Thanksgiving!