Do women really like older guys? Whats your experience like?

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February 14, 2020
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They say the older a man gets the more his smv rises. Still I'm a little hesitant because i don't want some girl who's half my age (over 18 of course) to be creeped out because I'm way older than her. Nor do i want to get called out by others. Maybe I'm making too big a deal out of this. I don't know because i don't have much experience talking to girls a lot younger than me. Can y'all give me some thoughts on this?


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Title Do women really like older guys? Whats your experience like?
Author bayfarm
Upvotes 82
Comments 103
Date 14 February 2020 12:47 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]TRPCops[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (1 child) | Copy

If only /u/VasiliyZaitzev had written a definitive multi part post on the subject

Older Men, Younger Women -

http://archive.is/teHRM.

Part 2

http://archive.is/MUjgH

[–]sowhattwenty2090 points91 points  (13 children) | Copy

I'm nearing 40 and I've found that women primarily get attracted to you by how you make them feel. If you're doing online dating (not my pick-up method of choice), the fact that your age is displayed will usually have a negative effect on your ability to attract women based on their social programming.

When women don't know your age, at least initially, you have a power advantage. After you've driven up her interest enough, she'll be more likely to hamster-up a rationale for dating/hooking up with you.

I can't emphasize the importance of staying in shape and trying to look and be as healthy and as strong as possible. Females seek security and men who appear able to protect your hypothetical children.

[–]2319Skew27 points28 points  (6 children) | Copy

^ This.

Take care of yourself and you'll look 10 years younger. I look like I'm in my mid 20s but I am in my mid 30s. Only you are more mature, better career, prospects, and style than your younger "peers".

Women want a reason to hook up. Then they find out your age and 90% stay. Most enjoy it and give into a daddy Dom kink in the bedroom. I've only had one woman be put off after fucking.

[–]OPs_Real_Mom2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

How do you take care of yourself?

[–]ovrload16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good genes

[–]_Ulan_7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

moisturise & SPF

[–]2319Skew4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

If you smoke then stop. I know it's hard but it's amazing how much that ages you. Same with booze. Limit drinking to OCCASIONALLY and if you have to, try to go for red wines. Although, removing alcohol is best.

Limit or eliminate processed foods and eating out. It saves you more money and helps with your gym (which you should be doing). It also gets panties off so quickly when you invite a woman over and she's eating a 5 star meal you've made.

Get sleep. I aim for 7 hours.

Introduce yourself to meditation and set up a routine where you do it daily. I try to do it for at least 3 times a day. Morning (when I wake up), mid day (during a break) and before bed or after a workout. I aim for at least 15 minutes.

Good sex. I don't mean you sit back and get BJ. Picute HIT. Also panty peeler with only major downside is lot of insecure plates.

Recognize stress and minimize it. Don't avoid it since it's impossible to live stress free but don't fixate on it. If you are late for work then you are late. Thinking about all the excuses and reasons doesn't help.

Finally, your body needs TLC. Cold showers, getting vitamins and using moisturizer and spf goes a long way.

Good genes help too but it's not something everyone has. Best to work on what you can change.

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Recognize stress and minimize it.

As an older dude, I'd add to this. Learn to process stress. Learn to live in it.

You need to learn to step back and ask yourself, "Is this in my control or out of it?"

"Can I affect what the outcome is if it is in my control?"

"If I can't, then what can I do to embrace the suck?"

Stress is your brain telling you "I don't know what the fuck is going on and uncertainty freaks me the fuck out."

So give your brain as much certainty as possible, even if that outcome could possibly be bad.

[–]madcook10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

TLC?

[–]TitsAndWhiskey4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

100% agree.

Over 40 online = not so great. You’ll find a few girls with daddy issues who are specifically looking for that, but overall not as many matches once you cross that threshold. Because the age filters force them to specifically admit that they’re looking for an older man.

Over 40 in bars = shooting fish in a barrel. As long as you’re in shape and reasonably attractive, and give off an air of being financially settled, they can rationalize it as something that “just happened.” They are, as you said, absolutely attracted to the perceived power and stability of an older man.

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[–]1atticusfinch197374 points75 points  (0 children) | Copy

Being older can be an asset for sure. You typically have money, fun hobbies or cool assets and stability, things that are important to a lot of women.

But just like any other man, if you have nothing going for you and have low SMV you'll still have trouble.

I got laid in my 40s WAY more than in my 20s when I was single, anywhere from 25 year olds to 50 year olds.

[–]RedSkeller67 points68 points  (7 children) | Copy

It's not an issue if you don't bring it up or are openly bragging to others. Yes, everyone around will judge you but that's life. Personally rather bang a hot, eager 22 year old then attend my HS reunion. And much rather date a 20 year old who is fun than a jaded 30 year old cat lady with baggage.

[–]Mescalean14 points15 points  (4 children) | Copy

This. Most of those judging will be post wall female classmates and the simps who settled for them.

I’m literally witnessing the change of guard right now at age 28. Ex fat shit simp who got his ducks in a row and I have fo say, shit like the smv/wall dynamic really make me believe in some universal order or truth.

[–]cuteman5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

Check out the ask women over 30 subreddit. Extreme hamstering

[–]Mescalean1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

After a fat joint lol 👍🏼

[–]cuteman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No sweetie, don't worry about wanting children, a husband or a family. Your extreme biological need and urges are wrong.

I am 49, deeply unhappy, I don't have a family and see how great I tell people my life is going!??

[–]RedSkeller0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah not to trash my friends but they're pretty much all that way. They wifed up obvious whores who add nothing to their lives and live off their resources. My one friend finished his medical doctorate and is wrapping residencies meanwhile his obese girlfriend just barely finished her decade long BS in nursing. Other friend has a mean spirited insecure GF who dropped out of the corporate rat race to be a secretary since life got too hard and has a body count of at least 30+. She doesn't cook or clean at his house, but she makes all the important decisions.

[–]thrwy754794 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

And much rather date a 20 year old who is fun than a jaded 30 year old cat lady with baggage.

You can see it in their eyes.

Young girls have a youthful vibrancy, while older women look completely dead irrespective of the level of Botox, or surgery.

[–]RedSkeller0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah I don't get the botox thing, makes them look even worse. Bunch of puffer fish.

[–]Lateralanouncer30 points31 points  (1 child) | Copy

38m. Before my current ltr. 26 different woman in 2 months. From the 26. 3 over thirty. 21 youngest. The big issue is so many want ltrs.

[–]mrheh5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn, those are some solid numbers. Good shit dude.

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

If your smv is high the girl will be into it.

If you're unattractive then you'll just be a creepy older guy.

It's the same no matter the ages. If you're hot, she's into it. If you're not, she's turned off by you.

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T25 points26 points  (2 children) | Copy

Depends. Are you fun? Do you like fucking women's emotions?. Are you good at eating pussy?

because i don't want some girl who's half my age (over 18 of course) to be creeped out

Already you're eager to fit yourself into her frame like another one of her sad orbiters, and you haven't even met her.

because I'm way older than her. Nor do i want to get called out by others.

BORING......

When are you going to say something fun?

[–]SolarTortality4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmao got em

[–]MisterMarbles19880 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When are you going to say something fun?

This is all it comes down to. Everything else is secondary.

[–]alphakari45 points46 points  (1 child) | Copy

If it was a problem before, it ain't now. Daddy kink hittin hard.

[–]MisterMarbles19880 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

True. More often than not, girls are into calling me daddy both in and out of the bedroom.

[–]muricanwerewolf18 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Been with multiple 18/19 year olds in my late 20s, and hooked up with a 22 year old at 34 a couple months ago, just to show off the extremes. I generally play within the early to middle 20s girls now. I dunno about people giving you a hard time, since I own it completely. Hard to be shamed about something you feel there's nothing to be ashamed of. Older women will of course be the most critical, since they hate the idea of being phased out of the dating market for their peer group.

I've found dating chicks in their early 20's to be impossible online (but that may just be my face lol) at my age, but attainable in bars and coffee shops. A little social proof is golden.

[–]JohnnyOmm6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women in miami love older guys normally 19-21 yo with daddy issues

[–]FinancialThanks13 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

It because a man typically acquired more resources, achievements and social status over time. This is not always the case and most women are not interested in men that are significantly older than them

[–]downvotesanimals3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'd say you should worry about this after you get some girls lined up.

[–]EdvardMunch2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha if youre in your 30s you shouldnt give a fuck about what others think. You got hot young wet girls craving you for sex and 30s wanna know if youre ready to settle down with her and the lube by comparison.

Im being a bit harsh here for effect but it gets so easy if youve kept your body and looks in shape. Its just the red pill reinforced.

You should worry about giving up hot young tail to settle down with an older woman who matches your ideals. I think the mid 20s is ideal personally when you get older.,

[–]teabagabeartrap2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

the 19 year old cashier at a supermarket here is hitting hard on me...

I just found out she is the daughter of someone I knew... didn't recognize her and keep my fingers away now...

This is the only issue I see. Otherwise... since Iam 30 there is a constant stream of girls... in my 20s I was struggeling as hell... I would say the 10 years difference are even perfect. You stand for something in your life and can have a little playful thing in it.,..

just imagine them as like a canary... nice to look at and fun to have around. but useful for nothing.

[–]MrAgamemnon13 points14 points  (22 children) | Copy

Nor do i want to get called out by others. Maybe I'm making too big a deal out of this.

If you're in your 30s, dating an 18 year old, everyone will call you out and you will be labeled a creep. Just because its legal doesn't mean it doesn't have social consequences. I am sure there will be plenty of people here who say it isn't a problem, just remember your reputation means everything - it takes a lifetime to build and a second to destroy, once it's gone - it's gone forever.

Personally, I stick to 22 and over. The only people who call you a creep at this point are people who are jealous (male and female).

[–]alittletoosmooth16 points17 points  (7 children) | Copy

It depends on your location. In the USA, what you said is generally true. Stick to 21+ if you give a shit. But let's be realistic here. If you are 35 and getting pussy from a 25 year old, you better believe that your buddys' wives and or female friends are going to bust your balls about it. This is where cocky arrogance will help. I just tell them that I'm a vampire and I'm stealing her youth. It helps that I look very young (read: good) for my age.

[–]Treatscatscrave0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

I'm not sure about this: 25 year old girl with 35 year old man isn't really any cause for raised eyebrows in normal people but, yeah, if a 35 year old woman wants you then it could be a cause for bitching for sure.

That said, the ten years between a 25 girl and 35 man is totally socially acceptable.

25 year old dude and 15 year old girl on the other hand is not.

[–]BusterVadge0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

For sure man... I sleep with 20-somethings all the time and I'm in my mid-forties. I get death stares from women, and even other men frown upon it.

You would not believe the amount of young guys right here on TRP that resent that some older guys have such an easy time getting pussy while they're struggling.

[–]askmrcia0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

I'm not sure about this: 25 year old girl with 35 year old man isn't really any cause for raised eyebrows in normal people

It is. Go to a corporate holiday party or some social event where all the wives are in their mid 33+ and your girl is 25 years old. 25 with a 35 year old will rub people the wrong way. Its not as bad as if she was college age, but they will still consider the 25 year old young because she is only a few years removed from college and considered to have very little life experience compared to a 35 year old

[–]Sylvester_Sterone0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I'm 32 and my girl is 25. At first I pondered if it would raise eyebrows... but the girl is from a small town of 600 people and I haven't had any problems from people. Not even the parents.

[–]Treatscatscrave0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This is interesting. Again I am guessing you are from USA? See I'm from UK and like that 7 year gap at your ages is not noteworthy.

[–]Sylvester_Sterone0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly

[–]Treatscatscrave0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I've got to say that while I appreciate that women of that age might care be bitter but I don't think anyone else would. I am guessing you are in the states? I am in UK and I can honestly say nobody would think anything of a 25 year old dating a 35 year old man. Certainly not immoral or any of that kind of thing.

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[–]MrAgamemnon1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy

Let them talk, they cant ruin your rep as it's two consenting adults.

How old are you?

How old are the people you associate and work with?

Anyone who is in their mid 30s will be surrounded by other men who have teenage daughters. And every single one of them will picture your (in their mind) predatory ass with their daughters. People don't take that shit lightly.

What happens at the Strip Club, stays at the strip club; but what happens in public eye will be judged and it will be judged harshly.

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[–]Sylvester_Sterone1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha I like your style brother. Fuck people who like to social police.

[–]alittletoosmooth1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I respect the IDGAF attitude, but in my line of work it's a bad look to be fucking a 18 year old for the exact reasons the other commentator pointed out. It's not that you ARE fucking your bosses teenage daughter, it's that he knows you're capable of it. That changes the way he interacts with you. Maybe he doesn't invite you to his dinner party. Maybe you don't give a shit- and that's awesome that you don't- but OP is just saying be aware of the possibilities of negative publicity. I'm more of a "don't rock the boat unnecessarily" kind of guy. I'll fuck the 21 year old college chick on the weekends, but I'm not bringing her to a gdamn work function if she's going to make me look bad.

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[–]alittletoosmooth10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with you 100%. "Shut the fuck up" solves a lot of problems.

[–]MrAgamemnon-4 points-3 points  (2 children) | Copy

If they're so closed minded that they can't figure out what the concept of "legal age" is, then fuck 'em.

The age of consent is 16 in most of the world, do you think any of your associates your age who have teenage daughters would be OK with your 43 year old ass parading a 16 year old around them?

If you do, you and I live in very different societies.

Edit: I see you are black, different society - different rules I suppose.

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[–]MrAgamemnon3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

you're not talking about here in the US. And in that instance, the marriage is most likely arranged

Most of Europe is 16 and below, which is what I was referring to.

Contrary to popular belief countries with arranged marriage systems actually have a fairly high [legal] age of consent, not so much in practice though.

[–]Sylvester_Sterone0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

... yet I've seen 30 year olds with girls in their 20s. Come on now.

Same rule for don't shit where you eat applies.

[–]burn-all-bridges4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dating maybe. But if you're DATING an 18 year old and you're over 30 there is something very wrong happening with your development.

Fucking them? Hop on that shit and ride into the sunset.

[–]second-last-mohican4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

This.. why op is looking at dating an 18 year old, taking her out to dinner and movies is weird and stupid bp shit. Getting balls deep on the other hand I see no issues.

[–]IvyExcess0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 34, keep girls around of all ages. My favorite was going camping and having a clerk say "your daughter is very beautiful." "That's not my daughter, that's one of my girlfriends." They were shocked but the older wife kinda smiled and wished us well.

[–]DeathByToilet2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have a female coworker who just turned 19 going out with a 42 year old man. Its all good my dude.

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[–]geo_gan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Where the fuck do you meet girls on Reddit? I must be in the wrong groups 😄

[–]Haki_User1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 28 and was chatting this 18yo, and she tells me can you be my daddy <3 <3 !!
I'm not from the US and we don't have the daddy reference here yet she used it. Girls like older men because they want someone to fuck them and raise them at the same time I suppose ...

[–]loox14900 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Honestly, it seems like a lie certain “redpill” places tell us. I hardly ever see it in reality and most “glowful” women aren’t into older dudes. It’s a cope.

Sucks because I like younger women too and believed it for a while

[–]TeemoSatan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It depends on your SMV. It's not like you turn 30 and chicks suddenly start flocking to you. If youre an ugly, skinny/fat, autistic, unemployed neckbeard good fucking luck. Young, hot chicks won't even touch a guy like that.

I'm 34 and it's never been easier. In the last few years i've been plating girls in the 19-24 age bracket. In fact it's so fucking easy I don't even have to try anymore.

[–]Casanova-Quinn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You don't see it much in reality because most older guys have dad bods, no style, and act like nice guys. Being older doesn't automatically make you more attractive. An older guy with his shit together can get a fair share of girls.

[–]BetaCuckSimp1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The older I get, the younger and hotter they get. Currently 38 and fucking two 25 yo’s. I don’t think it’s just because I’m older. It’s because my game (and looks) gets better with practice (and time in the gym). I approach more, in person. I get a ton of numbers. Some ghost, some fuck.

[–]courtesy_flush_plz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

can concur at age 30, definitely seeing a shift.

But I do have some grey on the sides & in my short-trimmed (1/8" - 1/4") beard.

I would be considered having more boyish good looks, & I've been told the greys & grey beard adds the "rugged" element to it without taking away from the boyish part

Thank cheezus krust girls dig it & it's damn near in style right now

[–]sebastianconcept0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

As long as you are decently looking and shape (6 packs specially), abso fucking lutely.

[–]WiterS20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So, you don't believe that women love the cock carousel? You think that it is RP bullshit?

You still think that women see all men as LTR/potential husbands?

You still don't believe that women like to taste different flavors in men?

If she never had a man your age, you are a new and exotic sexual experience, with the extra spice that most men your age don't approach her.

If she already had it, you match her tastes.

You know something, most men don't know about her angelic face: she's a whore, and craves your dick.

[–]themummypersonified0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're going to be a creepy motherfucker regardless.

[–]RIchardjCranium0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Women like older guys because they have their shit together the older they get. They're more of a catch. A 42 year old is much more likely to have an established career and more disposable income than a 28 year old. He can offer her more resources. A lot of chicks have daddy issues too.

But is it a rule? Nope. There's no chicks in their 20's and 30's chasing after my broke ass just because I'm in my 50's.

[–]Kabuki4310 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

18 to 23 are dumb af in my experience. Book smart, but street dumb

24 to 28 they are in exploring mode, so never expect them to be more than a plate. Cause they are seeing 5 to 6 guys too

29 and up are straight bitter, fat, and prude. Although there are tons of hot ones too. But u better bring your A game

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Women are generally attracted to the traits that older guys possess, not necessarily older guys themselves from a physical standpoint.

Women like guys who are experienced, can lead, have good careers, have nice apartments/houses/cars, etc.

Not many guys in their early to mid 20s possess those traits.

[–]yumyumgivemesome0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Most young girls probably aren't that attracted to older guys, or they won't let themselves be attracted in fear of shame from their friends/families/selves. But for the ones willing to date older men, it's either a non-issue or something that they specifically desire. And even with some where it's a non-issue, it doesn't take long for them to relish in the idea of the age gap.

It really doesn't make that much difference to me. Sometimes I prefer women in their 20s simply because they're less likely to be anxious about marriage.

As you implied in your OP, don't make a big deal out of it. If anything it becomes fodder for teasing her to the extent you can do so tactfully and not creepily.

[–]second-last-mohican0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

OP, you dont dont young girls, you plate them and nothing more. And you dont need to tell other people about your plates anyway so it's a non issue.

[–]BusterVadge0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. I'm 46 and in the past year I have dated nothing but women in their 20's with the exception of a couple in their early 30's. Just 2 days ago, I tied up and fucked a 23 year old, and she wants me to do it again this weekend.

Men's SMV peaks at a much higher age, while women's peaks in their early-mid 20's.

I've not come across any LTR-worthy women in this age range lately, but I don't want a LTR either.

[–]GrognardTheUnbathed-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

I always thought the Sacred rule was 1/2 age + 7, but maybe TRP doesn’t give a shit about all that.

[–]alittletoosmooth8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

"Legal" or "Not Legal", my friend. I personally don't like to go under 21 but only because I don't want to be restricted on where I can or cannot go. That being said, I also find most girls who are <23y.o. a bit annoying.

[–]geo_gan0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This is another American thing. In countries like mine drinking alcohol and going to pubs and clubs is legal at 18. Only America has that stupid 21 rule.

[–]alittletoosmooth0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It is what it is. You win some, you lose some, but we each have to play by the rules of the game we are in. Better to know where the hazards are beforehand in either case.

[–]Alchemist_XP-4 points-3 points  (17 children) | Copy

Maybe not girls 18-25, they would likely be a bit creeped out by dudes who are say, 10 years older. But once a girl is about 25-35 a 10-15 year age gap wouldn’t be out of the question imo.

[–]MrAgamemnon14 points15 points  (12 children) | Copy

Maybe not girls 18-25, they would likely be a bit creeped out by dudes who are say

Not at all.

There's a difference between that hot older guy who sees her for "the woman she is and not a child" vs "that creepy 34 year old loser who flips burgers, who can't get women his age".

[–]bayfarm[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I guess there's just a lot of factors.

[–]MrAgamemnon7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's only one factor - are you awesome or not?

[–]Alchemist_XP-1 points0 points  (9 children) | Copy

Oddly I’ve found women in their 30s and 40s much easier to get rather than girls in their early 20s.

[–]MrAgamemnon7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

30s are definitely easier than early 20s.

[–]alittletoosmooth12 points13 points  (7 children) | Copy

... And in other news, water is wet.

[–]Alchemist_XP-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy

Sigh. Read it again, maybe you’ll get it.

[–]alittletoosmooth1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

I get it. Are you sure you do?

[–]SolarTortality0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol I get it, tone of voice doesn’t translate well through the internet and everyone wants to believe they are right haha

[–]Alchemist_XP-2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy

Comment I was replying too said 34 year old tries for younger girls cause he can’t get girls his age. I found it odd since girls his own age would be much easier to get than the younger girls.

It’s very well known that girls 30+ are much easier.

Your comment makes it obvious you did not get that.

[–]alittletoosmooth1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

You said "oddly". Nothing odd about your observation.

[–]Alchemist_XP0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

That was a bit of sarcasm my friend.

[–]alittletoosmooth1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Okie dokie 👌

[–]xX_bullitt_Xx1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

This is definitely not correct. I'm 37 and married and STILL regularly plate 22-25 year old girls.

[–]Alchemist_XP0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well the opposite is true for me. 31 and I don’t do the best with girls in the early 20s, but if I talk to women even in their 40s I do pretty good.

[–]xX_bullitt_Xx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fair enough, I guess we've all got our wheelhouses. 35+ yo women see right through my bullshit and have no interest in me unless it's a situation like a cruise or clear ons deal.

[–]Alchemist_XP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well the opposite is true for me. 31 and I don’t do the best with girls in the early 20s, but if I talk to women even in their 40s I do pretty good.

[–]gbnz87-5 points-4 points  (1 child) | Copy

If they are under 25 I find that they have an issue if you are over 30, if they are over 25 it doesn't really matter. Anything within 5-8 years is pretty good imo. Anything more and you will have to be really on top of your game to attract and keep that girl around.

[–]PossiblyBreathing4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 34 and most of the girls I'm with are 19-23. There is the odd one that won't go for it but I find that being really good looking helps.



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