Suicidal lonely guy is frustrated by women, reaches out for help. R/AskMen decides the REAL problem is that he's a shitlord misogynist!

Subs like AskMen and OneY are just mirror subs of askwomen and twoxc. Instead of just standing up to just how ridiculous and sexist, and anti-male, these places were to begin with, they just decided that the best solution was to mirror their formats for women's convenience(instead of standing up for themselves or demanding an end to sexist subs, they just allowed themselves to be segregated and annexed into mirror subs). It's pretty sad.

no, the problem is that he calls women "females".

Not only is that a ridiculous thing to bring up, because that would literally never actually come into play when he's actually interacting with women directly, but this is clearly an example of her projecting her insecurities and fucked up issues with an apt word onto this guy's situation(or basically, taking an opportunity to use his insecurities and his failures with women to, as a woman, dictate his language).

Seriously though, if you have a problem with the word "female" or "male", as they apply to men and women, you either have some major mental issues or you need to read the dictionary a few more times. Stop projecting some kind of patriarchal oppression whenever someone refers to a woman as a "female". Secondly, stop presenting your personal issues with that word as if was some kind of sacrilege that all women have unanimously chosen to deem offensive. Not all women are so needlessly "triggered" by the word "female".

Also, if that guy was hot as fuck, he could be calling women "females" left and right, and women would be loving it because it's coming from a hot guy(or, at the very worse, he would still be doing well in spite of it). Using the word "female" is not the issue, and it's intellectually dishonest for you to claim that it is(not only does it show that you have absolutely no understanding of the issue and that you clearly have a major lapse in empathy towards that guy, but it shows that you are willing to use his particular misery to push your own agenda instead of actually addressing the issues at hand).

Alternatively, if every woman you meet smells like shit, maybe that's because... every woman you meet smells like shit. Sometimes it is that simple.

That argument always makes me laugh. "If the greater majority of women treat men like shit, then clearly there is no problem because the majority of women say so". That's like saying there was no racism problem in the early days of american history, because the majority of the population didn't think there was a problem. The reality is that women do get away with bad behaviour, and that no one actually holds them accountable for that behaviour because they are women. The fact that there are enough men out there who will just bend over backwards to accommodate them, or to subjugate themselves for their benefit, doesn't change that fact.