Many women proclaim that only loser men care about N-count. It's not true. If the women themselves believed it was true, they would be freely advertising their N-count to scare away the loser men.

I'll expand on the general trend of which groups of men cares and which don't. Note that there are many exceptions to the trend.

It is true that the Chads, the men who never had dating issues, generally don't care as much (although there are many exceptions). They've always been dating, having sex with random women with little effort, and think it's normal for women to be doing the same. This group of men is tiny. This group of men also usually do not have the marriageable traits that average women want: conscientious, dependable, good career, respectful. These men can also suffer from typical female ailments like having their ability to appreciate long term partners ruined from easily sleeping with too many Stacies.

The majority of men do not have the ease in dating that would let them excuse high N-count. If a man (the majority of men) has ever had to work hard to get sex, the chances are low that he doesn't care about N-count at all.

This is especially true for the marriageable men with marriageable traits. A large percentage of people who went to good schools and have good careers were nerds growing up and had struggled with dating at some point even if they don't now. They still have the "struggle imprint" from their experiences in high school or college even if they've matured into Chads in their mid to late 20s.

Yes, a majority of marriageable men care about N-count. Yes, sleeping with many men will reduce your ability to marry a marriageable man.

Anti-slut shaming groups have been doing a disservice to women by brainwashing women into thinking men don't care and by shaming men for caring, so that the men are more covert about caring which leads women to not be informed about it.

Women would benefit from thinking about how their (potentially loose) dating habits and experiences can affect their ability to have serious relationships in the future.