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[–]justthetips062997 points98 points99 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Black women saved my life. When I first came into recovery, it was a close knit group that took me under their wing and taught me the steps. They didn't care that I was a different color, young, and a total mess. They didn't care about my awful past. They helped me look forward and loved me until I could love myself.
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[–]misszazieFDS Newbie191 points192 points193 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I would get so frustrated as a black woman trying to date. Everything they do seems contextualized around men. If she's with a black man it's about how great he is. If she isn't then it's about being fed up with them. It's never about an individual person making independent decisions.
[–][deleted] 92 points93 points94 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agree 100%. I get pissed off about this. Never date a black man that talks shit about his own women.
[–]MgrofChaosFDS Newbie[S] 94 points95 points96 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep.
For all that we do, treating us like queens is the BARE MINIMUM. Empresses is more like it (whichever rules over the largest amount of ground, lol)!!
[–]cantstopthemachine77FDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think the proper upgrade from Queen would be Goddess.
[–][deleted] 282 points283 points284 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I know you saw the good side of that post...but see how it's always "feed me, give me a ride, fight for me"... So a black woman that's not hard to deal with is one that will allow you too mooch off of her? 🤔
[–]_moonessFDS Newbie180 points181 points182 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is what I saw as well....
“see black women aren’t difficult! they’re willing to be my maid, sex slave, therapist, chauffeur, and personal cook!”
I say be difficult sis 💁🏻♀️
[–]Lemon_bars_addictionFDS Newbie61 points62 points63 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes exactly, his post seems equally offensive
[–]MgrofChaosFDS Newbie[S] 93 points94 points95 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep! I saw that too... This guy's admits that we are the ones who are there for them, and how stupid they are to trash us!
(Now, if they could just be there for other males, so that males could take care of their own shit instead of us, but.... 🤷🏿♀️)
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple117 points118 points119 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay but how do you supposedly get 20 women strung along like that at your beck and call, if not through false pretenses? He somehow doesn't think he's part of the problem of black women being used and abused. 🤔
[–]verusckaFDS Disciple87 points88 points89 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And what is he doing for those 20 women that would “pull up right now with a smile” and feed him? If you care about the women in your life, don’t be a fucking burden on them.
[–]FodderFigureIllushunFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men will call you difficult if you don't answer his text in 5 minutes. Don't trust what men say.
And if they decide to drop you because you aren't being a Chatty Kathy, they'll say they dropped a bullet. Umm...I think she's the one who dropped the bullet because sir you sound needy AF.
[–]localgirlcultFDS Apprentice42 points43 points44 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How does this man have 20 women willing to mother him at the drop of a hat? This is such an interesting post in so many ways. Twenty.
[–]EarthKveikFDS Apprentice18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More like 2. And one's his mum.
[–]Skittleschild02FDS Newbie100 points101 points102 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
This!! I got called “difficult” because I don’t wanna do what someone wants to do. There’s a pandemic going on, sir. I’m not risking my life for somebody who’s not consistent & got “concubines” in stock. Gone somewhere with that chaos.
[–]JustMe2008FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Say that! Same here!
[–]monatsiyaFDS Newbie83 points84 points85 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
this dude ain’t slick either, tf is this??
i know 20 black women who will pull up on me right now with a smile if i need it. feed me, give me a ride, pray for me.
ayo?? unless you’re in a gigantic poly relationship, stfu. so the only time black women aren’t hard to deal with is when they’re subservient to you and your conniving ways? good god.
[–]oscine23FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I didn't think he meant he knows 20 women that would wait on him hand and foot. I took it as him saying he knows many loving Black women who are contrary to this angry Black woman stereotype that ashies try and perpetuate. At least I hope that's what he meant. lol
[–]dancedance_83FDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s how I read it as well. Despite being labeled as “difficult” or “angry” I do know Black women who have standards and uphold them but are also loving, generous, caring, FEMININE (despite the fact that we are often compared to dogs) and the like. It’s taken a long time to accept and realize but when people say asinine things about Black women, it’s has nothing to do with us as women but it does say everything about the people making those comments. Easy weed out method if ya ask me.
[–]ChocolateBiscuit96FDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So as long as we are doing something for you, that makes us easier to deal with. Hm ok
[–]anotherdamnloserFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hard to deal with? Translation has standards and won’t put up with your shit!
[–]purziveplaxyFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
'I know 20 black women who will...'
😂 Woops not anymore! One of those backhanded compliments he'll be paying for later.
I have to admit at first I was like awww... But then why do they need to do that? If they didn't would the still be difficult?
[–]-sIm0n3FDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Throughout adolescence & my early 20s, I can’t tell you how many times I heard from black and brown men, “I’d never date a black woman” or “I don’t date black women because they have too much attitude”, or some other bullshit reason that is a common trait in all women. And to be honest, I never dated a black or brown man so I never understood why they’d tell me things like this. Of course they were low value men who weren’t the slightest bit attractive. I’m good looking so I always imagined they said this because I’m out of their league. Sadly I was never really interested in these men for this exact reason and to this day have never dated a black or brown man.
[–]souredskittlesFDS Disciple12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ashy antics! 😂💀
[–]hilariouslystatedFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I want to see the 20 black women he is referring to pull up to FDS.
[–]PharmaPuppyFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“She was rooting for you, we were all rooting for you, how dare you?” as Tyra put it
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[–]Skittleschild02FDS Newbie100 points101 points102 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]monatsiyaFDS Newbie83 points84 points85 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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