Fat Lazy Bums who happen to be female get VIP treatment. Once the genders are reversed, it's a very different situation

I knew a lady who was thirty, short, morbidly obese, and worked at a Haunted House during Halloween season but otherwise wasn't employed.

Because when someone is fat, every other part of them is fat too, she had fat fucking tits. Shocker, right?

She didn't invent a cure for cancer. She didn't walk on the moon. She consumed so many calories that her body couldn't use them for energy anymore and she got fat, and that applied to her tits as well, so she had fat fucking tits.

Well, all she had to do was put vampire face paint, wear a low cut T-Shirt and there she had it: Instant approval! Instant gratification. She's now an awesome person!

Right....

Let's go down the list in our REALITY CHECK:

She is....

-Fat

-Pretty much unemployed

-Not smart

-Short

Let's switch roles

Let's say we have a guy who's short and fat who enjoys special effects and costumes and chooses to be a lazy bum all year and when it's Halloween work at a haunted house.

He would get SO MUCH SHIT from everyone in society. NO ONE would approve of him.

If he put vampire makeup and did a fat shirtless vampire selfie? No one would like it. His grandmother would be ashamed upon seeing it on facebook. Among his friends and family, it'd be that elephant in the room since no one liked it, but they're all on his friends list, so they saw it. The point is: He would not be receiving praise--A suggestive vampire themed photo by the fat unemployed short guy wouldn't be making the ladies go wild.

That pretty much sums up how a woman can be a fat lazy bum with nothing to offer and live out her entire life without ever being held accountable for her shittiness.

Meanwhile....

I (27,M) remember one time I had enough money to take some time off of work while I waited to find a job that I actually enjoyed doing. I had a girlfriend that worked and never helped with a single bill. When I asked her that she help me out with the cable bill she kept making "jokes" about how "my boyfriend is making me rent" And did that dumb fucking thing where they extend out their lower lip and make a face like a fucking baby. I literally provided her with an environment where she lived in a huge house, and paid no bills. She got a huge ass check every two weeks and spent it like a 14 year old spends their paycheck at the mall. And when I asked that she help with one bill that would take maybe 1/6 of her check, she busted out the "jokes" about how awful it is that her BOYFRIEND ask that she help out with the cheapest bill we have.....

So I ended up dropping it and not asking her to pay anything again. Mind you the mortgage was about 1500 plus 200 for utilities. I paid all of it and asked her to pay an 80 dollar bill. She wouldn't do it. And I didn't call her out on it because it's not socially acceptable, but if that happened now, you bet your ass I would.

I had the ability to take on the financial burden of EVERYTHING I just mentioned. She didn't even have to work, but CHOSE to!!!! So when I took time off to find something better, she called me a "bum" told me shit like "See, my brother even thinks you should get a job" and all this crap!!!

Men are the only people that are pressured by society to always be struggling. If a man is not enduring physical pain, he's not a man. I was bringing in income, but I wasn't breaking my back doing it. She couldn't fucking stand that! Also, I was in shape, ate healthy, and had hobbies.

Meanwhile there are fat blobs out there who are morbidly obese, don't work, and arent very bright getting praised like Goddesses.

Oh, but you know how they're fat? Well some of that fatness includes their tits. So that makes them uh....awesome.

Give me a fucking break.

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Why contribute to a society that doesn't value you? Just walk away. This is the larger version of MGTOW. I left the US in 2005. Sold all my shit and got on a plane. Suddenly I was in a new society that valued me for my degree, my manhood, my friendship, and all my contributions. I got paid enough to support a family, pay for grad school, pay off a vehicle, and have savings. I had pussy shoved in my face everywhere. I got a woman who respects me and treats me right.

You see, it's not just women. It's the greater society. More specifically it's Western culture. Some people call it gynocentric, feminist, whatever. You're legally obligated to pay for a woman's bad choices whether it's your taxes going to single moms or alimony or your kunt girlfriend not paying any bills and mooching off you. Your taxes also go to all kinds of other BS like some fat asshole taking airforce one to go play golf. I mean why even contribute? You get nothing in return other than called an incel or an autist or whatever the flavor of the month is. A lot of people think George Carlin was a comedian bur he wasn't... he was a political commentator.

Anyway, when you do finally make that leap and walk away, you find millions of other people who've done the same. They all have similar stories about being divorce raped, treated like an ATM, not being appreciated, and having lived in a society that progressively treats them shittier and shittier.

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That's excellent, my friend. I'm sure this point has been rammed into the fucking ground, but I must say: I'm sure you've done this already, but make sure she actually loves you and isn't using you.

Although being that she is a Thai girl, I bet she loves you and appreciates you. When American women scoff at, Southeast Asian girls worship. I would know. My fiance is Filipina, has the body of a pornstar, just the right amount of 'busty', and she worships me. She feels like I'm the one doing her a favor. Really helps reinforce a guy's confidence, especially if their confidence was shattered by American women.

It's a win win for the man and the woman when you get into a marriage with a Southeast asian. You love her for being the woman she was meant to be. She loves you for being the provider you were meant to be.

Glad you cracked the code, my friend. God bless you. Me and her are actually planning a honeymoon trip to Thailand, maybe we can all get drinks.

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Hey IgnoranceHatesTruth, how would you feel if I told you that my husband and I split bills since we have similar incomes? I currently pay a little more than he does because he is paying off his student loans at the moment which is another large portion of his checks. I understand there are a lot of women out there who just want to be taken care of and not contribute but there are many who do not and who greatly appreciate what their partners do for them. I am not comfortable sitting around not working and not contributing, it makes me feel guilty and not useful. If I were to ever not work it would be to take care of children and/or a homestead, providing value to our union that way. There are many women like me, I’m sorry your experience has been lacking in them but there are more out there, and that is the truth.

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I sincerely apologize for the insult. I’m not taking it as a personal attack. The reason I felt the need to comment is because it is sad to me that a lot of men on this sub are so sad and angry at women and believe things that are just plain untrue, like your comment that women never pay for rent/mortgage in a relationship. It’s not an exception to the rule, it’s exceptionally common, especially nowadays when many women work. I am younger (23) but I don’t know many women, even my parents age that don’t work and contribute to their households. I know a few women that are like this but it is the exception in couples I know. In a good relationship, both people compromise and sacrifice for each other to support each other because they love each other and get the same in return. I want more people to find that because there is far too little of it nowadays and I see so many guys (like my husband was) who want that kind of relationship but keep ending up with people who don’t want what they have to give or only take and never give. The same happened to me in previous relationships. I want people like you not to give up hope on a good relationship because there are a lot of men on Reddit (and some women too) who seem to think they’re better on their own and just fucking around and if there’s one thing I have learned in my marriage is that men and women can complement each other very well and that we create better children and better societies when people are together and having children together. I see this mentality destroying marriages and the very prospect of marriage for a lot of people. All of which is hurting society at large. I originally joined this sub because I was surprised that a lot of men actually think this way and I like to see a wide variety of perspectives. I commented because I believe your comment was wrong and you are also wrong with it being the exception and you have been taught it is the rule so you don’t ever let yourself have a good relationship. I see so many men spouting the same things like that they believe as truth. I don’t know really why I felt the need to comment other than your comment was easy for me to personally see as false through my own experience and people I know. Sorry if my opinion isn’t welcome (I absolutely understand the insult being unwelcome and again apologize) but this is the internet and I was sharing my opinion. Sorry for the long winded answer I’m on vacation from work this week and have some extra time on my hands.

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For what it is worth: while the internet likes to magnify things, a magnification of a trend still shows that trend increasing.

When even professionals advising women are saying things have gotten to a point they give up because women can no longer be satisfied (read: they have so many clients that are insatiable, they want to quit the job), that should raise a yellow alarm on the whole deal.

For many men, the experience is a trend that has gotten so out of hand, trying to find "a good and honest woman" became the equivalent of finding a unicorn. Their standards are still the same as 30-50 years ago if not lower, when in reality, these standards should have changed to match the state of affairs (e.g. less time spent in household work due to increase in appliances, more work of at least 0.5 FTE due to two-income households upping the income floor in several markets).

Many of us feel (realize?) our efforts are better spent elsewhere when after all is said and done, society is pushing women to do whatever they want and berate men for having standards while not doing their most to satisfy these women once they are done. When men who would have married a chaste girl 50 years ago with little effort, are now so desperate they will settle for an adult actor, there is clearly something wrong from a masculine perspective. Even opening this debate in public will paint a target on his back, which essentially tells him "we don't give a rats ass about man's wishes for paternity and chastity, now be a man (notice the warping of masculinity) and marry her".

Frankly, if you really want to help, you're talking to the wrong people. Your fellow women and the men so afraid of loneliness they would drop their standards, are your prime targets. If things truly get better, men here will follow on their own accord.

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I understand what you mean and I believe any ideology that values one group over another and allows one group to do something and another not is hypocritical, unequal and unethical. I absolutely see what you mean about men being berated for having preferences and women being allowed to do whatever they want, usually the opposite of what men have historically looked for when settling down. I was fat, entitled and liberalized in school and I used to think that way though I don’t believe I went around berating men online, I may have made some comments to that effect when I was in that toxic mindset and apologize for even thinking that men should not have physical standards. I always did deep down because I did too but the victim mentality makes a lot of these types of vindictive attitudes somehow justified to them. Just know that people can and do change, while I have always offered to split the bill on the first date and have never had a problem sharing costs, regardless of my ideology, I used to do whatever I felt like with my body like society encouraged and since I wasn’t very physically attractive and put out easily because I wanted attention and to feel like a “liberated woman” when it was anything but. I would not do that now and am liberated from that ideology having changed and grown immensely in my relationship with my husband. I understand there is a problem in society, and people who realize that not raising a generation with better morals won’t fix the situation. It’s the only thing to do. Generation Z is actually more conservative than the generation before because fewer of the “liberated women” want to have children.

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