Good and resourceful men have always been boring for women. It's just that only now they are comfortable discussing their unfiltered, toxic female dating strategies in public.
I know this is shocking to a lot of stupid women, but there's plenty of highly perverted sexually kinky "vanilla" looking guys. Just because your romance books have you hooking up with pirates and biker gangs, does not imply that you can't find a vanilla guy that won't chain you to the bed and do things to you that some would consider....unnatural.
Its why death row inmates have no problem getting women, female pen pals and conjugal visits. One of my ex girlfriends was the daughter of an LA County Sheriff Deputy. My gf's sister kicked out the father of her child, who btw was an actually decent guy, stuck him on support and wanted him for resources only. Meanwhile this girl, the sheriff's daughter was taking this guy's infant daughter to the local County penitentiary to visit her new flame(s). It was fucking insane. Actually the whole family was fucking insane despite the white picket fence and Catholic veneer. Totally fine with their daughter trying to hook up with convicted felons buy Me? My girlfriend and her family kicked me out because "I had red flags". Basically I wasn't producing tho their satisfaction and she wanted to find someone who could. I have two children from a previous marriage and couldn't afford life at the full rate like someone not paying support for 2.
My ex wife kicked me out in favor of some flat-bill wearing dispirit with sweet tats. He was unemployed for five years and lived solely on my support and her welfare.
I have a college education, a decent job, no criminal history whatsoever and finished a 5 year enlistment in the Marine Corps.
Needless to say with the way I've been treated by women the family legal system people in general, I'm pretty emotionally fucked up by this stage of life at 32 years old. I have no stomach for female bullshit or gynocentrism whatsoever.
As women tend to do, she is only thinking about what is in it for her. She wants the life of a trophy wife but completely disregards the fact that a trophy wife is typically an incredibly beautiful woman that a man can display as a trophy of his prowess.
She doesn't think about what she must offer to receive trophy wife status because she is conditioned to believe she is entitled to whatever she wants because she has a vagina. (Or perhaps she thinks the number of men that have fucked her/try to fuck her indicates her value.)
These women often remind me of some sort of mentally disabled super-fan who thinks he will one day marry a female popstar. Their brains simply cannot conceive of their actual value as a mate.
You ripped my heart out. Why? Because I realized young that nice guys finish last, and by 17, I was 5'10", 180 lbs(putting on 5 more every year), trained in martial arts, exceptional ass-shaker. Very "pretty" face, and long blond hair. Gregarious, and adventurous. 9" hard dick. "Charming Asshole Personality". Beautiful women threw themselves at me. (I'm 48, and still attractive enough to young vixens, because I look like "what Vin Diesel should look like").
When I fell in love, and the girl realized that I adore my mother, I raised my sister like a daughter, that I was very well educated and responsible, and would charm their family & friends... they would fall completely in love, and become my enthusiastic love slave and cheerleader and support. For five months. Then they would bolt. Each and every time. Their friends told me each and every time: "She go too close... and got scared. She's gonna regret this."
Never got married or had kids. I have come to find out in the last few years: Every girl I ever loved that bolted is now in her 40's, and they are miserable, and regret leaving me. All of them. They had decades, and could not replace me. But just like you wrote, I was a Unicorn, and NONE wanted to marry such a man, until they hit their 40's and realized their foolishness. So sad what they squandered. At least my conscience is clear.
The only disagreement I have is this: There was no SMV discrepancy, for example the two I loved the most were 6' tall, working models, honor students, and responsible. They BOTH ended up 41 and twice-divorced. The issue is this: even a "10" woman cannot control a Unicorn. They submit enthusiastically. BUT... They ALL wanted to marry beta-males they could control completely, and ended up reaping what they have sown. (I found out BOTH expressed great regret of their foolish youthful actions, NOW.)
"Vanilla" means "unmodified" now, but its use as a synonym for "plain" predates online gaming by a lot. The last girl I dated before I met my wife was a nice-enough girl, but she was as dull as dishwater. At the time I remember telling my friends that if I had to describe her in one word, that word would be, "Vanilla." That was more than 30 years ago before there was a gaming community that didn't involve nerds tossing 20-sided dice. (I dumped her about a week after I met my wife, BTW).
That said, I don't get why some people need acrobatics and specialized equipment in the bedroom to get off. Different positions to mix it up? Absolutely. But if a person can't "get across the finish line" without props there's something wrong.
This is why patriarchy was a better system for everybody but the thugs, killers, and drug addicts. In bygone days, women who slept around with these sorts of men either ended up joining a convent or dying in the gutter; now under feminism women get a "U GO GURRRL!" for spreading their legs for lowlifes and degenerates.
Women need a stable man's leadership; even if that leadership comes from a beta male who's authority only exists because it is backed by a patriarchal society.
I plan on putting myself into a position of making at least $100,000 a year. I’m a 5’5” blonde blue eyed white boy. I look like I couldn’t harm a fly and i’m considered too nice by most.
But my god do I love abusing the shit out of a girl in bed! Stop complaining about having bad taste in men and find a successful man who can choke with his hands and his dick (and more) dumb sluts lol
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I know this is shocking to a lot of stupid women, but there's plenty of highly perverted sexually kinky "vanilla" looking guys. Just because your romance books have you hooking up with pirates and biker gangs, does not imply that you can't find a vanilla guy that won't chain you to the bed and do things to you that some would consider....unnatural.
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Charles Manson was very popular among the ladies for a reason.
He was a shitty musician, so it wasn't his musical skills.
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Not just cons but the most dangerous ones.
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Its why death row inmates have no problem getting women, female pen pals and conjugal visits. One of my ex girlfriends was the daughter of an LA County Sheriff Deputy. My gf's sister kicked out the father of her child, who btw was an actually decent guy, stuck him on support and wanted him for resources only. Meanwhile this girl, the sheriff's daughter was taking this guy's infant daughter to the local County penitentiary to visit her new flame(s). It was fucking insane. Actually the whole family was fucking insane despite the white picket fence and Catholic veneer. Totally fine with their daughter trying to hook up with convicted felons buy Me? My girlfriend and her family kicked me out because "I had red flags". Basically I wasn't producing tho their satisfaction and she wanted to find someone who could. I have two children from a previous marriage and couldn't afford life at the full rate like someone not paying support for 2.
My ex wife kicked me out in favor of some flat-bill wearing dispirit with sweet tats. He was unemployed for five years and lived solely on my support and her welfare.
I have a college education, a decent job, no criminal history whatsoever and finished a 5 year enlistment in the Marine Corps.
Needless to say with the way I've been treated by women the family legal system people in general, I'm pretty emotionally fucked up by this stage of life at 32 years old. I have no stomach for female bullshit or gynocentrism whatsoever.
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Ultra Tradcuck as well in some places...
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Men adapted to civilizations while women are still in babboon mode...
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If they are mature, then they know it's not worth it.
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As women tend to do, she is only thinking about what is in it for her. She wants the life of a trophy wife but completely disregards the fact that a trophy wife is typically an incredibly beautiful woman that a man can display as a trophy of his prowess.
She doesn't think about what she must offer to receive trophy wife status because she is conditioned to believe she is entitled to whatever she wants because she has a vagina. (Or perhaps she thinks the number of men that have fucked her/try to fuck her indicates her value.)
These women often remind me of some sort of mentally disabled super-fan who thinks he will one day marry a female popstar. Their brains simply cannot conceive of their actual value as a mate.
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You ripped my heart out. Why? Because I realized young that nice guys finish last, and by 17, I was 5'10", 180 lbs(putting on 5 more every year), trained in martial arts, exceptional ass-shaker. Very "pretty" face, and long blond hair. Gregarious, and adventurous. 9" hard dick. "Charming Asshole Personality". Beautiful women threw themselves at me. (I'm 48, and still attractive enough to young vixens, because I look like "what Vin Diesel should look like").
When I fell in love, and the girl realized that I adore my mother, I raised my sister like a daughter, that I was very well educated and responsible, and would charm their family & friends... they would fall completely in love, and become my enthusiastic love slave and cheerleader and support. For five months. Then they would bolt. Each and every time. Their friends told me each and every time: "She go too close... and got scared. She's gonna regret this."
Never got married or had kids. I have come to find out in the last few years: Every girl I ever loved that bolted is now in her 40's, and they are miserable, and regret leaving me. All of them. They had decades, and could not replace me. But just like you wrote, I was a Unicorn, and NONE wanted to marry such a man, until they hit their 40's and realized their foolishness. So sad what they squandered. At least my conscience is clear.
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The only disagreement I have is this: There was no SMV discrepancy, for example the two I loved the most were 6' tall, working models, honor students, and responsible. They BOTH ended up 41 and twice-divorced. The issue is this: even a "10" woman cannot control a Unicorn. They submit enthusiastically. BUT... They ALL wanted to marry beta-males they could control completely, and ended up reaping what they have sown. (I found out BOTH expressed great regret of their foolish youthful actions, NOW.)
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"Vanilla" means "unmodified" now, but its use as a synonym for "plain" predates online gaming by a lot. The last girl I dated before I met my wife was a nice-enough girl, but she was as dull as dishwater. At the time I remember telling my friends that if I had to describe her in one word, that word would be, "Vanilla." That was more than 30 years ago before there was a gaming community that didn't involve nerds tossing 20-sided dice. (I dumped her about a week after I met my wife, BTW).
That said, I don't get why some people need acrobatics and specialized equipment in the bedroom to get off. Different positions to mix it up? Absolutely. But if a person can't "get across the finish line" without props there's something wrong.
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LOL. Not hating on them: I used to be one: GenCon'84, dungeon dice, the whole nine yards. In fact, I made a lengthy post in the child sub titled:
Min-maxing, or, "How spending my adolescence as a dateless nerd helped me to understand dating in the age of smart phones."
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I like that!
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This is why patriarchy was a better system for everybody but the thugs, killers, and drug addicts. In bygone days, women who slept around with these sorts of men either ended up joining a convent or dying in the gutter; now under feminism women get a "U GO GURRRL!" for spreading their legs for lowlifes and degenerates.
Women need a stable man's leadership; even if that leadership comes from a beta male who's authority only exists because it is backed by a patriarchal society.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAH PUH-LEASE!
I plan on putting myself into a position of making at least $100,000 a year. I’m a 5’5” blonde blue eyed white boy. I look like I couldn’t harm a fly and i’m considered too nice by most.
But my god do I love abusing the shit out of a girl in bed! Stop complaining about having bad taste in men and find a successful man who can choke with his hands and his dick (and more) dumb sluts lol
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