Coming in peace.

nofuckingwayyessir · 2019-10-11T21:19:56+00:00

Their goals are to get fucked by every guy they see and then settle down past their prime with a rich beta male.

Bletchlypark · 2019-10-11T21:26:19+00:00

This sub is for discussion on the where are all the good men phenomenon related to the sub reddit r/whereareallthegoodmen

This sub probably doesn’t make any sense without that context.

Where are all the good men is about women who have made horrible life choices, rejected decent good men when they were young and dated bad boys. Now they are hitting 30, have a kid or two out of wedlock and want a decent man to come around and bail them out.

Most of us were rejected by these women in our twenties so now we make fun of how desperate they are as a type of schadenfreude.

Chad1Stevens · 2019-10-11T21:34:51+00:00

Women really don't have hobbies. They mimic the things their friends do and pretend to be interested in things to make them look complex but few of them really do anything but eat more food than they should and watch way too much tv.

lurkerhasarisen · 2019-10-11T22:00:50+00:00

I accidentally stumbled into this subreddit and am confused. What’s wrong with women having sex with a bunch of dudes?

It ruins them for relationships, for starters. It also makes it virtually certain that their relationships will fail. It's also morally wrong.

I know women that have sex with plenty of guys but that doesn’t mean that their personalities ends there.

Nobody says otherwise.

They have hobbies, career goals, and things they are passionate about.

So?

I know plenty of women that are strong and independent,

Highly doubtful. Take away all the things that prop women up and see how "strong and independent" they are.

and also like having sex (who doesn’t?).

It's not a question of whether it's pleasurable. Eating a tub of ice cream every day is pleasurable, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea or devoid of consequences.

I know people that never have sex and are boring and lifeless.

So?

I know this won’t be taken well and maybe some of you have been hurt be women, and I can empathize,

Aaaand, there it is. "Who hurt you?" is the probably the most cliched thing you can say.

but to paint them as these sex crazed maniacs is not way to go.

Which is why nobody does that.

Sorry if I offended anybody, and I hope you have a good rest of your day.

If you had read the sidebar of the parent sub you wouldn't have to apologize for being offensive... nor would you have to ask what the sub is about.

solamarvii · 2019-10-11T21:40:17+00:00

It has nothing to do with "having had sex". It doesn't even matter how many dues you've fucked. (well it kind of does, just like it does for you). Ignoring the obvious STD/loose pussy arguments.....

It's women absolutely REFUSING to take responsibility for her actions. They are almost ALL single moms. Not because she was in a living, committed relationship and the guy just woke up one day and decided to be an asshole and leave......It's because she got knocked up by a guy she barely knew because she thought he was hot. He was always an asshole (as far as you knew, if you knew him at all). You just didn't care - pregnancy was a problem for future you! I won't even condemn that - looks matter (especially to women) - but it's the attitude (after the fact) that they have done nothing wrong and are still a fantastic catch and anyone should feel lucky to have a chance with her.

In reality, almost every guy views her as someone else's leftovers. Who wants to deal with someone else's kid. Why should any dude care about it? I didn't get to enjoy the sec that created it, but I'm supposed to be grateful I get to spend the next 2 decades financially supporting it? Not to mention, the bad judgment that leead you to being a single mom didn't just evaporate when you had a kid. It's still there, and o one wants to deal with that. Sadly, there are dudes desperate enough to go for that - but you won't them here.

When a girl has a tinder profile saying she has 2 kids (or is pregnant), but is not looking for a hookup - that is impossible to take seriously. Because we know she is absolutely looking for a hookup. Or (even worse) - the fun party girl that had unprotected sex with the dude in the bar's bathroom has turned into some lame sitcom mom. Because her kids come first, or something.All the responsibility, none of the fun. Yeah, no.

But mostly it's because no one wants to feel "settled for". You went out and fucked every guy you thought was kind of cute (and several you thought weren't) - that's fine. But now that you have a kid, debt (and they always have debt - independent women my ass!) and a lowered sex drive (or artificial and arbitrary extended timelines for sex) - you seem like a consolation prize that is finally had her fun and ready to settle - but we aren't.

Sexy crazed party girls are great! I personally love them. But I'm not interested in marrying/being in an LTR with one, ever. Especially not after she gets knocked up, saddled with debt, and spends her days daydreaming about the best years of her life (getting a train ran on her by complete strangers).

Title	Coming in peace.
Author	Seahawkcarlo
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	October 11, 2019 9:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
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