To start, this is not a "She's not yours, it's just your turn" post. As true as that statement is, it won't be the focus. In fact, you just might be sharing turns and not know it yet.

If you've been around the red pill long enough; you'll come to understand a lot of the things we teach each other, women do naturally. Dread, Center of Origin, Plate spinning.. these are all things that happen naturally in a woman's mind. They hardly know they're even doing it. That's fine, it's what makes them.. them. Men are built, Women are born.

I'm not here to play high and mighty, but for context's sake; I've been on the higher end of the SMP. Just high enough to be the side dude, but rarely the one in the actual relationship. So I got to experience a lot of the very fucked up things girls get into. Either from the sidelines or the passenger seat, I learned the reality of women just the same. Here's one of the recent stories that had been a harsh pill to swallow.

Two weeks ago, I spent some time with my best friend, Ricky. He's a fairly redpilled guy, that has a lot of success with women. We've swapped a lot of notes with one another, and I think we're on very similar terms regarding chicks.

Now, Ricky's been hooking up with this girl, Kasey. Not sure how exactly it started, but for the last few weeks she's been one of Ricky's plates. Kasey's not an unfamiliar face, She and I had some short lived history way back in High School.

This girl was a nutcase, but she's an easy 9. For every reason you'd want to avoid her, your dick could find an excuse. In the weeks they've spent together Ricky had decided he wanted out. Finding out she's still around, and that he's trying to get rid of her. Naturally, I wanted to see what could happen.

He knew I wanted her, and I'm all too happy to P'n'D. So we decide to invite her out for the night. She's all about it, and hearing that I was there made her that much more excited to come along. We pick her up from her place, and pick out a nice quiet place to go.

Ricky takes us to one of our usual spots just outside of town. Where we can smoke, talk and enjoy some privacy. Kasey asks what's my zodiac sign, I reply "Libra" and she makes a face. "I can't fuck with Libras, they're snakes. You're a cool dude but I can't fuck with Libras." I don't really give a shit about her wuju juju, ignore it and lay my seat back. I figure the night's not gonna go anywhere, but I'm not quite ready to call it.

We're smoking for a little while past that, when it gets to her pass. She takes a hit then leans down to make out with me, blowing the smoke back into my mouth. This caught me completely off guard. I figured there's going to be some sort of escalation, some sort of game, anything really. No. Nothing. I had no preparation, no frame at all and I just laid there. Kind of kissing back. This lasted all of a minute, before she pulled back. Ricky says, "You should see her lap dances.", she let's out a giggle and asks to change the song and tells me to hop in the back. Truth be told, if Ricky didn't say anything I would've sat there stunned for the rest of the night.

For the next several minutes I had to seriously question whether this girl had become a stripper in last few years or not. She eventually tires herself out, and hops off.

I'm still in a bit of a loss, I've picked up girls before and I've never really had problems initiating. But I've never been in the situation where the girl does literally all the work like this, and especially in such a situation like this. This is someone I haven't seen or even spoken to in years, going above and beyond for nothing.. absolutely nothing.

She sits down, and I'm frozen. I don't think I'm nervous, but I just can't do anything. There's a silent awkwardness in the air, and I know I need to do something but I just can't get out of my own head.

She hops in the front seat, and mentions that "she wants to go further but she has a boyfriend, no offense" to me. I figured this was bullshit, and I just dropped the ball. Ricky casually replies, "Oh, you and that dude's got together?" "Yeah, he's really sweet. I feel like he doesn't want me for my body, he actually sees me." Honestly, if it wasn't for him handling it I think I would've left that night with just a kiss.

Hearing her go on about this dude, I knew she never even had sex with whoever he was. He's the nice guy who's trying to treat her right. Nothing fucking sobers you up quite like that. Less than 10 minutes had gone by before things would escalate again, with little effort on Ricky's or my own part. We got just up to a 3 way before she called quits and we took her home.

Gentlemen, never think that you're your girl's one and only. Beta Orbiters aren't the only men she's going to surround herself with. There will always be another man she can speed dial. She plates men easier than you breathe, and If you get comfortable she will find something more interesting to do. Whether it's talking to her friends or having a 3 way in some car in the woods. She will do something. You will never be her one and only.