Entitled mom harasses me because I wont take back my ex girlfriend

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This story happened recently involving a girl (28F) I dated since last year. First, let me give some backstory. Before memorial day, she decided that she wanted to try the whole “hot girl summer” and broke up with me so she can find herself. During this time she blocked me on Facebook but kept me on instagram. All throughout summer I saw instagram posts of her going to pool parties, nightclubs, festivals, etc. Personally, I didn’t pay much attention to them and focused on my job/ having a good summer. However, I heard from mutual friends that she also got involved with being polyamorus and had alot of male “friends”. I even heard that she went to some swingers parties.

Two weeks ago, she reached out to me and wanted to patch things up with me. This time around, however she was very overtly seuxal towards me, something that was kinda outside her usual demeanor. She kept insisting that I come over to her place so we could “have some real fun”. Something didn’t feel right about her advances and trusting my gut, I insisted on meeting in a coffee shop to chat. One hour before our meeting, I got a text from a mutual friend that my Ex got pregnant sometime over the summer and thought that I had a right to know.During our chat, she acted like we never even broke up and asked about what I did over the summer to which I responded that I pretty much worked. I decided to ask about her being pregnant to which prompted this following exchange.

Me: “ so I don’t mean to be in your business to much, but I heard through the grapevine that you’re pregnant”

Ex: “oh, you heard about that? Yeah it's true, but im not really worried though”

Me: “why’s that? Is the dad still in the picture?”

Ex: “no he’s not, but luckily for me I got someone who’s going to step up and take care of me and the baby and who knows he might ask to marry me soon.”

Me: “ really? Who is it?”

Ex: “Oh I think you know”

Me: “no I don’t, who is he?”

Ex: “he’s sitting right in front of me”

Me: *some coffee comes out my nose*: “come again?”

Ex: “it’s you silly!”

MY JAW HIT THE DUCKING FLOOR. I sat there dumbfounded for 10 awkward seconds.

Ex: “aren’t you excited?”

Me: “no Im not”

Ex: “why not?”

Me: “because not only did you party it up all summer, I heard that you had more than your fair of sexual romps, and swingers parties and now you’re telling me that you expect me to take you back after all that, marry you and raise a kid that’s not even mine?”

Ex:*taken aback and starting to look real angry* “ Um, yes? Because that’s what real men like you do! They step up and provide for their women! Plus it’s not like I cheated. We weren’t together when I got pregnant”

Me: “while that may be true, you’re still asking me to do something in not even remotely interested in doing!”

Ex *looking very upset*: “ So you’re not going to step up then?! Are you serious?”

Me: *looking around and noticing that half the coffee shop is listening to us*: “ I'm just going to go”

I get up and walk out in a hurry. As I make it 15 feet out the coffee shop I hear my ex burst through the front door of the coffee shop screaming like a banshee

Ex: “GET YOUR A$$ BACK HERE OP! WE’RE GOING TO HAVE THIS DISCUSSION!!!”

I decided to get the hell out of dodge and started to sprint across the parking lot. I looked back for a spilt second to see my EX running after me still screaming. Luckily enough for me she was wearing heels and me with a good pair of shoes. I managed to get to my car, get inside, and start the engine in time to peel out of the parking lot. While at a stop light up the block, I took out my phone and blocked her number and her instagram account.

For a day and a half, things were quiet until I was at a gas station filling up my car. After I was done I bent over to tie my shoes. While doing so, I heard the sound of stiletto heels angrily making their way towards me and stopping right behind me. A chill ran down my back as I felt a pair of angry eyes staring daggers at me. I stood up and turned around expecting to see my ex, but I was greeted by the rage-filled eyes of my Ex’s mom (the EM of this story I should also mention that she is divorced). She raised her hand to slap me but I stepped back in time to dodge it.

Em: “you’re a f*cking a$$hole you know!”

Me: “if your referring to your daughter, then i'm sorry but i’m getting back together with her”

Em: “YES YOU ARE!”

Me: “ No, im not. I refuse to date someone who is going to try and force me to raise a kid that isn’t even mine! Why don’t you ask those men she screwed during her summer vaction?”

Em: “ So what if she had a couple of one night stands? All girls do it! So what if she made a mistake, it’s not like you two were together so it doesn’t count as cheating!”

Me: “Even so, It’s not really fair to me to just expect me to take her back after all that”

Em: “ Yes it is! Because that's what men are supposed to do! They provide for their women! that’s what my angel deserves right now and you’re just the man to do it. You need to man up right now!”

Me: “Bullshit! I deserve a girlfriend that won't break up with me just to screw around and expect me to be waiting around to take her back after wards!”

Suddenly an officer pulls up and gets out of his car

Officer: “is there a problem here?”

Em: “why yes there is! I need you to arrest this man for stalking and harassing my daughter!”

Me: “officer, I can assure you that I have not harassed anyone! She’s lying!”

Em: “ why you lying sack of sh#t!”

Just then a guy from a few pumps down runs up to the officer.

Nice guy: “excuse me officer! I saw the whole thing. This lady accosted this man about not wanting to date her daughter”

Em: “F*ck off! Nobody asked you!”

She tries to slap the nice guy but the officer stops her and restrains her. After this he let me go and suggested I get a restraining order which I'm heavily considering. As well as moving out of my apartment soon. I have a feeling that this is not over.

*Addendum 1*
Well, didn't know my post would generate so much hostility some of yhall got some issues to work out. Anywho, I went ahead and got one a ring app for my apartment in case my Ex wants to try anything while i'm away. I've stopped going to some of places I usually go (gas stations, gym, church etc.) to in hopes to avoid seeing her mom again. I heard from my friend that my Ex is doing a witch hunt to figure out who told me about her being pregnant and even made a facebook post about it which he sent me a screenshot of . In the meantime, Im looking for an new apartment. Not to sound ignorant but I really think it's going to be hard for my ex to pin a baby on me seeing how we didn't have sex at all over the summer and with me turning down her offer to come to her apartment. But If I see her mom again I will file an RO the same day.