I've wondered, if a man is raising their child(ren) on their own with zero help from the mother, would the father be no different than a single mother (a major red flag)?

It seems men who are single father's do it by choice since "bailing out," is somewhat an acceptable escape route for men to do in our times.

Single mothers also say their kids are their everything but they will often drop their kids once a man makes them feel young again.

Single mothers also say their kid are their everything yet no progress tends to be made. You can always find that most struggling single mothers say their kids are their everything but if you look at what is causing them to struggle (job, education, work hours), nothing's changed.