"Stay-At-Home Men With No Ambition" - And What's So Unfair About Kicking Them When They're Down

loneliness-inc · 2019-03-25T22:20:59+00:00

Dear OP,

Thank you for posting in r/whereallthegoodmenare

Venting has its place and can certainly make you feel better. However, this isn't the place for venting. This is a forum similar to r/whereareallthegoodmen in its upbeat nature. Whereas that forum is here to discuss the female side of the equation, this forum is here to discuss the male side.

You provide no reasoning, evidence or arguments as to why men are walking away. What you do is complain. While your complaints are valid and acceptable to a degree within the comment section, we cannot allow it here as a post. Therefore, your post is being removed.

Thank you for your understanding.

The mod team.

Aremisio · 2019-03-25T03:36:14+00:00

And all that is just concerning economics. As a disabled young man I feel like I've dropped well below the bottom of the barrel... and perhaps understandably so. But seeing plenty of women with my same condition having no trouble finding a devoted, supportive partner bothers me. Talk about gender discrimination there.

[deleted] · 2019-03-25T19:38:43+00:00

1)A man might feel sympathy if an ugly woman likes him. A woman experiences a minor crisis if a man she considers beneath her approaches. What made him think he had a chance? Are her looks fading? Or maybe she's lower on society's totem pole than she thought?

2)Women are using one of their favorite weapons, shame, to manipulate men. They know men are getting fed up and going MGTOW. And that men are scared of marriage since there's a lot less social stigma in cheating and divorce. Notice how Jenna Marbles takes a little swipe at Dungeons and Dragons. Most guys will understand the need for escapism but women despise male hobbies that don't benefit them.

The thing with female shaming though is that it doesn't work if the guy will never find a mate anyways. Bashing on "losers" is all stick and no carrot.

3) While the recession is over, it left a lasting cultural imprint on many millennial men who came of age during it. You stick with a dead-end job if you're good at it and like your manager. You learn to be thrifty, drive used cars, have roommates, etc.

4) Humans should live in whatever configuration they like. Multiple generations in the same house was normal for most of human history. And like you said, you never know a man's exact circumstances. Maybe his parents are sick or he's saving up for something big or he's sending money to support family in another country or whatever.

5) Women generally get the benefit of the doubt if they want to live with mom or work part-time at the bookstore or whatever. Guys will still date them and their fellow women will defend them. A guy living the Bohemian lifestyle is a threat to the Matriarchy that must be contained.

neuromolecule · 2019-03-25T20:29:36+00:00

This is when "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" is truly worth noting.

leparsdon · 2019-03-25T14:20:57+00:00

In my experience, if a woman finds you attractive enough she won't care what your job status is. It's only the men that they don't find attractive that they will throw out all these bs reasons as to why they won't date them.

Title	"Stay-At-Home Men With No Ambition" - And What's So Unfair About Kicking Them When They're Down
Author	SRU_91
Upvotes	21
Comments	10
Date	March 25, 2019 2:10 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
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