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Translation: "Dating as a woman with options is sooo hard, especially when you want a Ryan Reynolds look-a-like and all other men are either less attractive or fuckboys."

kevin32

January 8, 2019

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Title	Translation: "Dating as a woman with options is sooo hard, especially when you want a Ryan Reynolds look-a-like and all other men are either less attractive or fuckboys."
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	262
Comments	84
Date	January 8, 2019 11:59 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/adtjek/translation_dating_as_a_woman_with_options_is/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/translation-dating-as-a-woman-with-options-is-sooo.347295 https://theredarchive.com/post/347295

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[–][deleted] [score hidden] 5 years ago* stickied comment (20 children) | Copy Link

The comments are gold, as usual.

**LONG COMMENT WARNING

Couple of things here.

1) Note this astute comment from a user named IFeelLikePotato that's pretty high up. (Emphasis added.)

The majority of us are not trying to argue that it's easy for women to get a relationship. The majority of us are trying to argue it's easier for women to get a relationship than for men.

Exactly right. I'll go even further. I'll state unequivocally - it is easy for women to get most of what they want. If a woman wants a relationship, she can get that any time she wants. The problem is that women's demands are so unreasonable, so skyrocketingly high, so in the stratosphere, and their inability to compromise even a little is so prevalent, that they can't get anything. Am I saying this is women's fault? You're goddamn right i am. Because it is. Women are alone and don't have relationships because of THEM. Because they won't compromise even a little bit. Even a small, tiny bit.

2) And, of course, juuuust like clockwork, a woman, maddaboobles, has to post just below Potato with

--"BUT BUT BUT this ONE anecdote totally disproves your claim" and

--"BUT BUT BUT hows come I is all these awesome things and nobody wants MEEEEE??!!"

Heeere we go:

So I’m an attractive girl (25) with a great job, my own place, lots of friends, lots of hobbies, and I’ve been told by many people I’m really witty, interesting, and funny.

I work out 3 times a week. I’m constantly taking classes to try new things. My hobbies include art, hiking, writing, and jiu jitsu (at least those are the top ones right now) and I’m constantly looking for new things to learn and explore.

I rarely get asked out and I ALWAYS make the first move. Every time I approach someone in person I get rejected or stood up. I tried online dating and people only wanted to sleep with me. Every time, it’d be “oh you’re so amazing. We’re gonna do this and this together. I can’t wait for you to meet my friends/family” and then after sleeping with me it’d turn into “I’m just not ready for a relationship”

I tried advice from my female friends which was let a guy chase you and never text him first...ghosted. Every time.

Not trying to argue with your point but asking for advice. What am I doing wrong?

At this point I’ve given up on dating and have accepted the fact that I may very well never find someone.

There are things i want you men to notice here.

1) Whenever a woman refers to herself as "attractive", she never lists the things that men would find attractive about her if in fact she was attractive. Instead, what she claims is "attractive" about her is actually what she finds attractive in men.

Notice: great job, her own place, lots of friends, lots of hobbies, works out, does ju jitsu, tries new things, is "confident", etc. etc. This is WHAT SHE WANTS IN A MAN. And thinks that these attributes that she wants in a man, also make her attractive to men. No. Know what it makes her? A MAN.

2) This woman says she asks guys out and gets shot down or ghosted. She can't get anything started with a man. She can't get any men interested in her enough even to go on one date with her. Want to know why? She's not sexually attractive.

Whenever a woman refers to herself as "attractive" on Reddit or online, your immediate reaction should be to go Tom Leykis on her:

"How old are you?"

"How tall are you?"

"How much do you weigh?"

"What are your measurements/cup size?"

That is the measure of a woman's attractiveness to men: Is she not fat, and does she appear feminine. If a woman on here refers to herself as "attractive", your immediate reaction should be

"oh yeah? Post a head and shoulders shot and a full body shot straight on (no iceberg, no top-down), and I will tell you how "attractive" you are."

3) Notice this: When men talk about "attractive", they mean SEXUALLY attractive. Fuckable. Men mean "do i want to fuck her?"

When women use the word "attractive", they mean "someone they want for a relationship". Alpha confidence/dominance/status/looks mixed with a really healthy dose of beta comfort traits.

When women refer to a man as "hot", NOW they're talking about "fuckable".

SO if a woman tells you you're "attractive" or that she's "attracted" to you, she means she ~~believes she can use and exploit you and stripmine you for money and resources~~ wants you for a relationship. If a woman says you're "hot", or better yet, acts as if she thinks you're "hot", then she wants to fuck you.

Last thing: I will bet dollars to donuts that the woman poster referred to above is not sexually attractive. She's not fuckable. It's a general rule for women:

--if you can't get any men interested in you, you don't look as good as you need to. You're fat. You dress like a slob. All you wear is t-shirts and sweats. You have a masculine hairstyle. Or you don't do your hair - you've always got it in that stupid looking "bun on top of your head" thing. (Nothing screams "I don't give a shit about how I look" like that idiotic "bun on top of head".) You don't wear decent makeup. You're just... ugly. (But, really, seriously, to get men interested, all you really have to be is not fat.)

-- if you can get men interested in you but they don't stick around, then you have a personality defect. You're some combination of slutty, bitchy, and crazy.

There's a cognate for men.

--if you can't get women interested in you at all, then you're not physically attractive or appealing. You're fat. You're out of shape. You have a shitty hairstyle. You've got jacked teeth or bad breath. You dress for shit.

--if you can get women interested in you but they don't stick around, you have a personality defect. You're some combination of socially awkward, weird, and creepy.

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Your first mistake: Responding verbally to her statement.

You don't analyze that statement or ask her to explain it. You take her to the bedroom away from the kids and you fuck her.

She doesn't actually mentally or logically understand what she just said. She had a brief fleeting feeling while seeing you do something, and then put that into words.

She also doesn't want you TALKING ABOUT fucking. She wants you DOING the fucking.

Women like fucking attractive men. They dont' like talking to attractive men about fucking them. To women, talking about fucking is crass, shallow, unseemly, and gross. To women, talking about fucking shatters the image of the nice, prim, proper, presentable woman she wants others to see her as.

She wants to BE that slut; but she doesn't want to TALK ABOUT being that slut.

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An average woman might get more attention than an average guy, but is that attention what majority of us wants? Not really.

HAHAHAHA. I have to prove my point that dating is hard, okay guys....

Probably even that gorgeous girl/guy half of your city is lusting after.

No.

this doesn't only apply to online dating, it goes for real life too.

So, men are flashing you their dicks in real life?!

Clearly, OP is a slut and fawns over the tall, half-way bearded types in flannel shirts that have all the options. She even subtly admits that she knows it is easier for a woman, but "is still hard". Yeah, dating for an average THOT is like running a kingdom for a king. Sure, there are tough decisions, like, 'who to strategically kill to prevent insurgence', 'which prince to marry your daughter to', and 'how much gold will it take to hire an army to kill your rivals', but is it really any comparison to a peasant that has to slave away in the fields all day only to have half his earnings taken by the kings tax collectors?

Also, some other stupid THOT gilded this post?! Way to cluster the hamster. Let's look at the comments:

it's easy for women to get laid (if they have low standards), it's not easy for them to get a relationship.

Stop fucking every Chad that promises the world without showing you he can give it to you.

I work as a waiter and I can see daily what kind of attention my female coworkers get. Not the kind I would want if I was a girl.

Prostitutes get attention too yah dummy. You know who else gets attention? Young, fertile women that want quality relationships and can prove it by having a low N-count.

Another thought: it might be easy for women to get laid or find a SO, but it’s not always SAFE.

So, basically the OP is wrong?! Holy fuck, you can't even admit it.

This is just my knee jerk reaction

Yeah, we know, denial is the key to avoiding accountability.

My wife before I met her gave up on guys. Ignored them no matter how hard they tried. She accepted it would just be her and her daughter and she was fine with that Bc all other guys were douches. But then she talked to me first and everything is history. Lol

LO-fucking-L. You bought the same cow that everyone else put their mouth on. How many alpha fucks does a woman have to have before she "gives up on men". 10, 20? 100??? "Bc all other guys were douches.", no, dude, you were the safe bet that she will be divorcing in 3...2...

Ok, I just can't read any more of those diluted cucks and virtue signaling cock-campers. The men are attempting to save what little dignity they have left and the women just want to clap each other off a cliff and that was just the top 3 comments!

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Well, he probably is clingy. But, those are the sorts of guys who don't already have 47 other options. He puts effort into his messages because he isn't getting responses, probably because he doesn't make six figures with a six pack to go with it.

Yes, if women only want a relationship with the total package then they might as well give up now because they're just not going to get it.

When people say that if she lowers her standards she can get laid but not get a relationship, that just means lowering her standards from a model who owns a private jet to just settling for a model. In the former case she probably isn't even going to get laid, and in the latter case she probably will get laid but won't get a relationship.

If she wants both she has to lower her standards to ordinary men. They aren't models. They don't own private jets. They might be better or worse looking, or be better or worse off financially, but they won't be the best of both.

If she is willing to date a guy who is a supervisor at the local Walmart, or who has a decent IT job but acts dorky and is a bit overweight, then she'll have no problems getting a relationship. But, both of those groups fall into the "creepy" zone because they aren't the guys all the women want. That is all there is to it.

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From the comments:

I think that's what people don't get: sure, it's easy for women to get laid (if they have low standards), it's not easy for them to get a relationship.

A few slices of bullshit are packed into this statement:

Quit the "I am very smart" gatekeeping BS. We people get a lot of things, it is YOU who seem to not get the deeper complexity here.
Women can easily get laid AND have a relationship and they do not have to lower their standards to do so.
On average, they have a hard time making good choices in men. THAT is the crux of everything.
On average, they can get a relationship, but when they get one, hypergamy takes over and they cannot seem to control those instincts to leave and cheat.
What they call "lowering standards" is an insult to millions of good men. Women are increasingly superficial. men are too, so we have to admit that.

Only when we understand our own worst nature can we do something about it. Put another way, if you want to fix something, you first have to admit you have a problem.

This dating advice crap is like a huge alcoholism online festival where everyone is hungover and cannot seem to understand why they feel that way - but it is most definitely NOT the heaving drinking.

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Good points and analogy at the end there. A little addendum to your hypergamy point, that they don't necessarily have to leave or cheat for the effects to run their course through the relationship either. Simply having all these options on speed dial and being encouraged to seek them out by society and use men like disposable tampons ensures she is much less inclined to compromise and work hard at her existing relationship, which causes many men to work less on keeping her attention. A lot of relationships end due to "mutual" differences because the woman is difficult or impossible to satiate and the man starts contemplating a sunken cost strategy.

Also, you've been around here for a while and I've noticed an increasing understanding on your part to what is going on with modern relationship with respect to hypergamy, societal influences and the inner THOT mind. Some. good. examples. For that, I'm awarding you Sr. Hamster Analyst and look forward to your contributions in the future. Thank you, fine sir.

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The majority of women are out there taking dating advice from their fat, single friend; their rom-com addicted gay friend who’s really into musicals but just can’t lock down a good man; or their floozy friend who uses men up then discards them when they stop believing her promises and are tired of their “girlfriend” destroying their lives.

Read: people who can’t hold together a functional relationship, and are trying to reverse-engineer how they work from an outsider’s perspective.

Go back in just about any sad, jaded and lonely woman’s dating history, and you can find examples of them having the relationship they claim to want, and literally destroying it from the inside out.

Usually, these become her “crazy ex boyfriend” stories, and if you know enough to wonder what her part of baiting the reactions she got, you’ll know what she expects the next guy to “avoid causing her to do,” because god forbid she change a single thing about herself.

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> A lot of it are just overly sexual comments, creepy requests and things reducing us to nothing but sexual objects.

When ordinary men act flirtation = A lot of it are just overly sexual comments, creepy requests and things reducing us to nothing but sexual objects.

When Chads act flirtation = *swoon* "Take me you beast!" You can treat her like a sexual object!

But it's still a bit frustrating when you're genuinly afraid to talk to someone and are trying to get advice on how to do it, and all you get is being told you basically have no right to complain because you being a woman

Why are you afraid to talk to someone? Oh yeah, you're trying to talk to Chad who causes you to melt in your heels, not your typical guy, who is invisible to her.

Dating is so hard when you're after the 0.00001% of men.

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A lot of it are just overly sexual comments, creepy requests and things reducing us to nothing but sexual objects.

Your typical retarded female out there wrote this comment! If men don't want you sexually and don't see you as a sex object you are done for! You have literally no other value than that and the fact that you can't see the direct consequences of men not wanting you to solve your 'problem' is a perfect demonstration of how fucking dumb you are! If you are not wanted as a woman do you know what you turn into? A worse version of your average men out there and even GAYS wouldn't want to fuck you because you are a worse off version of a man! You are physically, mentally, intellectually weaker than men in every shape or form so why the fuck would anyone EVER bother with you is beyond me! Say goodbye to everything you get in life for granted all the free shit and gestures which you never even realized you got because there was some fucking simp simping after you... GONE! You will be left with nothing and chances are you will NEVER EVER recover from this because you are incapable of doing so!

Also complains like 'Ohhhh its so fucking hard to have all these millions of dollars i just don't know what to do with all these fucking money!!!!' Fuck off ok?! Just fuck off! I can't be bothered with 'resolving' your fucking first world problems! You are stupid everything you say is stupid and if it was up to me you will be breathing vacuum in outer space you fucking waste of oxygen!

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First of all, it's probably your attitude that's holding you back. Noone wants someone as bitter as you are.

I'm sure that all those girls online saw his bad attitude and bitterness in his profile, which is exactly why got 0 matches.

Any time a guy mentions that his experience in the dating world was bad and without any success, there is the shaming of how he must be doing something wrong. I don't understand why people still believe in the just world fallacy. Have they never seen some get bullied in school due to something out of their control? Do they not understand that some people just got the short straw in life?

She just has no empathy for his situation, and responds with the same generic response about how it must be his attitude. How the hell does she know that? She must want to believe that there is no superficiality involved in dating, as it would force her to admit that life is often unfair.

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The hamic (super sonic hamster) is in overdrive!

Women can face rejection too! I get shy, stumble....no shit sherlock! Welcome to the dating scene! Difference is that when you're pretty the shutdown risk is far less then for a male, and also a girl, unless extremely obnoxious is almost guaranteed to be put down very gently. Not to mention his guy friends (which aren't around him 24/7 unlike your usually thot "best friends") will not giggle at you for hours to come, cause you had the balls to approach.

And obviously the drama of getting wrong type (sexual) of attention. Dual mating strategy much? If a girl dresses modestly without sending sexual signals left and right, then she's bound to get a lot less of said "uwanted" attention. I see quite a few girls in KFC serving food that aren't uglies, but their work attire is asexual and I don't get any ideas there, even in the back of my male, testosterone driven reptile brain.

Almost forgot her projection! Lists tons of hobbies she has....well DUH, maybe that's why men avoid you! We don't place much value on those in a woman, save working out since it keeps you slender and pretty. But YOU do, and you'll be expecting equal "value" for these things, which to us have no value at all! Any man with 3 brain cells across realizes that unless he leads her "perfect life" (read: having shitton of hobbies that take up time and $$) he will be deemed inferior and ousted or scorned if they do hook up together.

Why not grab another girl with equally good looks, but less "hobbies" and more time for you? Not to mention lower expectations, since she's not as "perfect" as her, resulting in an actually enjoyable relationship, rather then constant outbid of who's more perfect and who should be chasing whom?

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Also... Having many options isn't always as great as it sounds. Me and my girlfriends share this opinion and talk about this topic a lot... An average woman might get more attention than an average guy, but is that attention what majority of us wants? Not really. A lot of it are just overly sexual comments, creepy requests and things reducing us to nothing but sexual objects.

So this means you're attracting the wrong guys or your standards are too high. Which means this has more to do with you and not the guys. Thanks for admitting that you are the problem even if it was non intentional.

Also women don't need dating advice. They don't. Has anyone gone to the tinder sub reddit?

Who are the people asking for profile reviews? Men.

Any woman that needs dating advice don't want to take accountability that they themselves are the problem and that problem can be easily fixed. don't be fat, don't be a bitch, and don't spread your legs too fast unless you're looking for casual sex. But really it's don't be fat and be attractive.

Edit: Holy fuck the comments. Way too many cucks

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Definitely some cringe in the comments.

Some advice: You might be considered as too much for lots of guys. Inteligent or very active girls might intimidate in some cases. The impression I have of your comment is of someone very well put togheter. As someone in my twenties that hasn't achieved what you have I feel like shit in comparison. You can be sure people expect you to have a man of your level, and not a lot of people can get there.

Again with the myth that guys are intimidated by girls that are intelligent and accomplished. It is not those things that draw off guys, it's most certainly something else, such as attitude or ego issues, which guys certainly do not want in women. Or, to your point earlier, they might be overweight, which is certainly not a plus for most men.

Also, there are a lot more intelligent guys than intelligent women, so I doubt that a smart woman cannot find a smart man. And often, "education" and advanced degrees in worthless subjects are mistaken for intelligence, so that may explain much of the self reporting of intelligence.

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So this means you're attracting the wrong guys or your standards are too high. Which means this has more to do with you and not the guys. Thanks for admitting that you are the problem even if it was non intentional.

To me that means that they like only 1% of the male population and there for 1% of the comments while the rest are creeps and what not. If you take all the attention from these woman what will you get? Her complaining that she is not getting enough attention... wait have i read that complaint some where lately....??? Ohh yeah that was her complaint! So i guess no matter what men do like her or not we are somehow guilty!

The truth is she just wants the 1% to message her and talk to her except fuck you! You are not within the 1% yourself and that is never going to happen you ugly average thot! But hey nothing beats complaining about not being able to attract that super human right?!?

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I know many of such comments come from "nice guys" and they shouldn't be taken seriously. But it's still a bit frustrating when you're genuinly afraid to talk to someone and are trying to get advice on how to do it, and all you get is being told you basically have no right to complain because you being a woman makes it impossible to fail in pursuit of a romantic relationship. I wish this was the case, but it absolutely isn't.

Bullshit it isn’t. You consider it failure to have gone two weeks without getting male attention. There are men, reasonable, attractive, stable men who have gone years or decades without a date. How dare you compare your tiny trials and tribulations to what they have gone through.

And seriously, fuck you and your comment about “nice guys”. You know why “nice guys” is an insult? Because you broke the social contract! Two generations ago, a man didn’t give his resources and time to a woman without the simple expectation of a return on that investment. Now, you cunts demand men’s time and effort for free, and when they very reasonably ask, “What’s in it for me to do these things for you?” You label them creeps and bitch about how the things they have done for you and given you “don‘t give them any right to your body!

What gives you the right to their resources?

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