Women need to take responsibility for choosing shitty men

464 points658 commentssubmitted by TheWhitestOrca to r/PurplePillDebate

Coincidentally, every woman that I know who loves to complain about how much they hate men all have a history of dating horrible men. It’s one thing if you’re tricked by some asshole, but when you have a history of constantly dating the worst men possible, then you need to accept responsibility for choosing these shitty men.

I’ll give you some examples. First of all, these women that I know all dated men in their mid 20s back when they were in high school. They were shocked when these older guys used them for sex and took advantage of them. Now, these women are in their mid 20s and they’re still dating shitty men.

One girl kept getting back together with a man who constantly cheated on her, and she knew that he’d cheat again, but she kept going back. He had to be the one to break it off for good. Then, there’s the ex who everybody knew sold hard drugs to high school kids. Surprisingly, he turned out to be a huge piece of shit. One ex was a known pedophile. He ended up cheating on her with a 15 year old girl. Another girl was warned by a dozen women that her man cheats on every girl that he dates, but she still dated him and was shocked when he got another woman pregnant. There was an ex who was a known woman beater, and this girl still dated him. She somehow didn’t expect that he’d beat her, but he did. Luckily, she got out early. I could go on and on listing examples of shitty men that these women have dated.

The thing is, the vast majority of these men were obviously douchebags. Everyone could see it, but every single time these women would think “well, this douchebag seems nice,” and then when things inevitably don’t work out because he’s an asshole who mistreats her, these women always complain about how much they hate men.

Don’t be mad at men because you don’t know how to choose a good one. It’s not our gender’s fault that you date the worst men.