[39F] "I am very attractive and easily find sexual partners but have so far failed to find a suitable mate. I really want a child too, and endured 4 attempts of IVF with donor sperm to no avail." (r/SingleParents)

Westernhagen · 2018-03-26T15:36:31+00:00

Your thoughts Reddit?

Enjoy your cats.

BluepillProfessor · 2018-03-26T15:12:41+00:00

Yet more evidence that single women in their late 30s on up just don't do well without a man in their lives. A husband "grounds" women, keeps their feet on the ground, and gives them life guardrails.

When you have a single woman making her own rules and guardrails, you get 40 year old women trying to have children, yet saying on subreddits that they aren't sure they want children and that they really want a man more than they want a child.

When you get married, the best thing you can do for her is to knock her up right away and get her some kids. Why? She has no time to be depressed, angry, or otherwise considering what she doesn't have. She's too busy taking care of a house and kids.

Single women past age 40 are some of THE most fucked up people I've ever known.

where_muh_good_mens1 · 2018-03-26T14:28:47+00:00

I am very attractive and easily find sexual partners but have so far failed to find a suitable mate

I live in Sydney - land of beautiful women and shallow men

I have no time to "wait" for when I'll be certain. In fact, I AM certain I want a child - I'm not certain about doing it ALONE.

At 39 years old, you can only find shallow men to fuck you and ghost you, and only now are you figuring out that you wanted a family?? Sorry, Ma'am, that ship sailed with the Titanic that is now going to be your lonely existence.

cycophuk · 2018-03-26T15:52:53+00:00

I love women who think that because they get fucked, they are attractive. Guys just want to fuck and usually don't care about how attractive a woman is as long as they get their dick wet.

where_muh_good_mens1 · 2018-03-26T16:36:59+00:00

I don't know about the US, but Australian men are very slow to commit and there is a man drought here...

http://www.abs.gov.au/ausstats/[email protected]/Products/3235.0~2012~Main+Features~Main+Features

11.43 Million females

11.29 Million Males

Nope, no 'man draught', you're just a delusional old shrew, past her prime without a clue. Men are slow to commit because they are wising up.

AllahHatesFags · 2018-03-26T19:41:55+00:00

The time for you to find a good man was over 15 years ago and miles of dicks back.

enjoy_life88 · 2018-03-26T15:37:55+00:00

I am, I want, I don't want...

Too many 'I's for a woman that is well beyond the position to make any claims at all.

WiseMonkeyGoodMonkey · 2018-03-26T21:05:31+00:00

and easily find sexual partners

That's any woman whom is a 3 or above who puts on Fakeup and does her hair.

Your thoughts Reddit?

If it is true (And as I've stated being able to be a frequent ONS is not demonstrative of the point) you are "very attractive" and you haven't gotten a guy to commit one of a few things is true.

You really aren't very attractive.
You've been ignoring good commitment type guys, and trying to bag a man out of your league.
You're crazy and no one can live with you.

Take your pick.

anonmymouse · 2018-03-26T18:52:30+00:00

I cannot for the life of me understand why any single women would ever want to make a baby with donor sperm and make themselves a single mother on purpose. Parenting is hard as fuck and takes (sorry) a mother AND a father. I'm sure they get their wakeup call once they've pumped the thing out and realize the amount of work it actually takes to be a parent, and by then it is far too late. Not only that but it's selfish as fuck to just deliberately have a kid without a stable home environment to raise it in... and I find that selfish people usually don't make very good parents. This is just a bad idea from start to finish.

[deleted] · 2018-03-26T20:57:43+00:00

Watch out guys! She's got baby rabies. Quick, hide before you fucked yourself.

Israfelll · 2018-03-26T23:27:08+00:00

Its over for you dear. You dun fukked it up in the have a child and a man department. Take consolation in the feminist rhetoric you swore fealty to and spread it to your younger sisters while you wear your pussy hat to the next inane cause in the name of "Grrrrrllll Powah!"

BachelorInc · 2018-03-27T05:26:53+00:00

The cognitive dissonance is astonishing.

I am very attractive and easily find sexual partners

Simply because it's easy for you to find sexual partners, doesn't mean you're very attractive.

Either men are:

Pigs who will have sex w/any woman

- OR -

Men will only be sexual partners w/ very attractive women

Pick one. You don't get both.

but have so far failed to find a suitable mate

Translation - "I can't find a man who is: 6 ft+, makes 100K+ a year, w/chiseled features, and treats me like a spoiled princess. I wasted the past 21 years of my life riding the CC and 'finding myself ' ".

I live in Sydney - land of beautiful women and shallow men

Now then, whose being shallow? Either she's solely referring to physical beauty, in which case she herself is being shallow - OR - she assumes all women in Sydney are beautiful both physically and characteristically; either scenario is wrong-headed, and quite telling.

More and more, women are assuming a monopoly on being the recipients of all things beneficial, while being the administrators of all things negative.

And they wonder why men are fed up w/this false narrative and simply walking away?

Having endured 4 attempts of IVF with donor sperm to no avail, I now find myself seriously wondering if I'm doing the right thing

Let me get this straight: it took FOUR failed attempts for you to consider you MIGHT be doing the wrong thing?

If I'm really honest with myself I want a partner more than I want a child.

Oh, here it is. After FOUR failed attempts, she decided to finally be honest WITH HERSELF...

Think about that. It took four fucking FAILED attempts of IVF for her JUST to be honest w/herself.

Think about how many FAILED attempts at relationships w/men before she was *finally HONEST w/herself; let alone - has she ever been honest w/a man about what she wants/needs/expects, let alone willing to GIVE in a relationship?

I am terrified of being poverty-stricken and alone if I go ahead with this

Not one time in this narrative has she questioned whether her expectations of men we're too high, if she had an over inflated sense of self-worth, and entitlement. No. Not once.

These women are absolutely repulsive.

Iappreci8thegr8r8m8 · 2018-03-26T23:30:54+00:00

am

*was

wathon2 · 2018-04-01T07:58:22+00:00

I heard a saying somewhere: Young men are too poor to marry, and old men are too wise to marry.

That's is the catch ladies. If you want to be the wife of an admiral, you have to marry a lieutenant. You have to give your love and support to a man of moral, ambition, and character when he needed you the most. NOT when he is already well established, because by then he can bang hot women 10 years younger than you.

mgtownigga · 2018-03-29T08:20:12+00:00

gotta love how she specifies sydney is the land of beautiful women and shallow men, without realizing she's a shallow git herself

[deleted] · 2018-05-18T10:37:46+00:00

Aww sorry about your situation dear and know you are not the only one suffering this.I am single and hoping to find the right man lol if they really exist.Hit me up and lets see where this leads. [email protected]

SucculentOranges · 2018-03-26T19:24:00+00:00

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