Why Frame comes before Looks, Status and Money

This is my first post here. I’ve been lurking in this community for over 3 years now and I want to start this post by thanking all the people posting quality content and helping me confirm my own “beliefs” in opposition to what the pop culture tries to forge us into.

It’s a post for the new(er) guys here which will underline why Looks, Status and Money are initially important aspects to be on the path of becoming a quality man. However, a man’s Frame will always be his strongest weapon.

Introduction:

A little background on my friend who got tossed around by a basic thot for the past 4 years – let’s call him Billy. Billy is 30 years old, 6’’2, 200lbs, lifts heavy on a regular basis and performs well in different kinds of sports. Gym, CrossFit, jogging, marathons, Latino dances, you name it. He keeps under 12% of body fat throughout the year. He basically looks like a model. Billy works for an IT company making nearly 6-figures a year, which in my country is a very solid income. He can basically afford everything he wishes to. He has an extensive social circle (be it friends, work or sports) and is fairly popular on social media. So far you would think that Billy lives the dream. No. Billy is a beta. Let’s jump to the above-mentioned basic thot, who also happens to be a friend of mine long before she met Billy. Let’s call her Trixie. Trixie is 26 years old, blonde and thin, but an HB6.5 at best with makeup and slutty clothes on. Trixie is a med student, makes barely enough to survive the month. Her most passionate hobbies are alcoholism and Netflix.

Body:

Billy and Trixie have been together for a little over 4 years, they’ve been living together for the past 2 and a half years. During those 4 years, she dumped his ass 3 times, but they got back together each time. Billy’s downfall started a little over 2 years ago when Trixie went on a Eurotrip with me and 10 other friends of ours. During that time, Billy’s boss sent him in the US for 3 months, where he would make mad money for a very short period of time. We were all having fun on our Eurotrip, visiting new places, having fun, partying, until Trixie went solo one day and didn’t come back to the hotel that same night. Nobody seemed to make anything out of it, except me and one of my buddies who happened to randomly see her with a shady dude no one knew the previous day. He was a photographer at the resort we were staying at. He looked like a homeless gipsy, his clothes were old and torn. He was the type of guy that you would see in a small dead-end street in the center of an eastern-European capital selling drugs to little kids. We will call him Omar. Guess what, she spent the rest of the vacation with him. After we returned home, she wouldn’t stop talking about him, how this guy was in the army, how he killed people with his own hands (yes, that turned her on), how he was the “perfect man any girl could dream of”. Of course, she denied fucking him. A couple of weeks later, she dumped Billy. If you read the sidebar carefully, you must be wondering by now – why would she dump Billy if there is no side branch for her to jump on? Well guess what, Omar came all the way to our country just to be with her. However, due to problems with his paperwork, he got sent back to his country of origin just a couple of weeks later. That happened by the time Billy had come back from his work trip with bags full of money. In order to make things up and win her back, Billy took Trixie on a trip to the Bahamas, where he spent more than what he had earned during his 3-month stay in the US. For a single 10-day trip! Of course, since Omar was extradited and Billy had even more money than before, they got back together. After this short drawback, everything between them was back to normal, they were living the dream in the perfect Disney world, unicorns were puking rainbows all over the place.

Then we fast forward to three weeks ago, Trixie dumped Billy again, out of the blue. The official cause for her dumping him was because she found out he has an “active Tinder account”. One of her frenemies sent her a photo of his Tinder profile on social media. As you may guess by now, the allegations were false. Billy admitted to having a Tinder account a few years back. The photo her friend sent her even had a timestamp which showed it was taken 3 years ago. Of course, Trixie didn’t want any of that and moved out.

Shortly after dumping Billy, Trixie organized a party at her mother’s place, since she has nowhere else to live now, her income doesn’t allow her to have her own place. She got drunk and started talking. It turns out that Trixie had an affair for almost 2 years with a divorced doctor who has 2 kids. The doctor is 40 years old. According to her own words, after she met Omar and got the tinglezzz, she realized that she was not happy with Billy. Shortly after coming back home from the Eurotrip, she met the doctor at a work party, got drunk, fucked him, you know the drill. Everybody in her work were aware of their affair. She slept at the doctor’s place numerous times without even having Billy on her back asking questions as to where she spent the night. Trixie even went as far as spending holidays with the doctor in different cities without Billy asking a single question. After spending nearly 2 years with the doctor, she started planning of moving in with him – yes that’s right, a 26 year old thot living with a 40 year old guy who has 2 kids. The funniest part in this story is that she dumped the doctor shortly after dumping Billy. One night they were at the doctor’s place watching some dumb Netflix show when Trixie decided to shit test him:

T: “If your ex-wife called you and wanted to get back together, would you go back to her?”

Doc: “I don’t know”

T: “How do you want me to be monogamous with you if you don’t know the answer to that question?”

Then he got all softy and weeny

Doc: “This conversation is making me sad and nostalgic, please don’t make me think of my wife”

She dumped him the next day saying “she is not sure about the feelings she has for him”.

Billy is now going to therapy and is heavily depressed. His shrink made him come up of a list with all of Trixie’s qualities – he qualifies her as the most caring, loving and loyal girl he has ever met. He thinks that Trixie dumped him because he does not have his own place. He also thinks that her friends do not approve him and that is part of the reason why she dumped him. Billy still has no clue about Omar and the doctor. Apparently, she even had a third affair last year with one of her ex’s, but she was too drunk by the time she told that story and we never really got to the end of it. Billy now plans to get a huge loan (even for him) and buy his own place where he will happily live with Trixie. He still refuses to imagine a life without her and plans on getting back together, marrying her and having kids.

What did we learn from this :

  • Billy has Looks, Status and Money but has no Frame. Despite all his attributes and qualities, he remains a Beta to the core.

  • Trixie is not any different from the other thots that we all know – AWALT

  • She got the tinglezzz from a broke photographer who barely made any money and looked like a gipsy drug lord. Me and my buddy are convinced that the horror stories about him being in the army killing people with his own hands just don’t fit his profile. He made up some stories, played the cool guy card and fucked her a few times. However, he is also a beta bitch due to the fact that he is ready to move in a new country 1500 miles away from home, where he doesn’t speak the language or know anyone, just to be with Trixie after fucking her a few times.

  • Billy never asked questions and suspected nothing when Trixie slept elsewhere and fucked random dudes. Even the fact that she spent holidays in other cities with unknown people for a couple of days straight did not raise his suspicion and awareness.

  • She lost interest in the doctor after a 2-year affair and plans to move in together due to a simple shit-test. That’s why you should never let your guard down. Shit tests are important people!

  • Don’t be like Billy, Omar or the doctor. You will ruin your life if you put a woman on a pedestal and are ready to give up on your own life for her.

  • A HB6 basically ruined 3 guys’ lives in the span of a little over 2 years.

  • She now lives at her mother’s place, drives a brand new car that her mother bought for her and makes just about enough to eat bread with peanut butter and jelly for the entire month.

  • Despite everything mentioned above, she is convinced that she is pretty, intelligent and autonomous.