Unless you're a 10/10 male, how do you embrace our current society? Because it makes me hate life and dread the future...

windowsoup · 2021-01-01T08:52:33+00:00

This harkens back to the age-old redpill dilemma of long-term strategy. In all my years on theredpill sub, I've never really encountered a solid long-term strategy.

Discussion never really seems to go anywhere beyond "lift, focus on yourself, and fuck bitches" and "enjoy the decline." I think it's completely fair to say that you're not interested in continuing to play the game and date after you've reached middle age. But then you realize that entering an LTR is just the same game on hard mode, and no man is perfect. We no longer have societal norms that hold together marriages and discourage divorce/infidelity with shame. Nowadays, even in the best scenarios, somewhere along in the relationship, the man will mess up and slowly start failing the shit tests, and the woman will slowly lose attraction until it falls apart. Either that or you both get too old to even care about splitting, which I guess is the closest you can get to "happily ever after."

I often wonder what my life will look like when I reach middle age, and if you find any good answers let me know. It's an extremely depressing thought, the idea that eventually your parents will die, most of your friends/siblings will likely get married and have kids, a decent portion of those marriages will end in infidelity and/or divorce, and you'll still be there "focusing on yourself" and fucking random pussy. Ain't life grand?

denis3056 · 2021-01-01T06:43:59+00:00

Life is not only women man, chill a bit!

hannita · 2021-01-01T07:48:16+00:00

at the end of the day I think everyone kind of wants the same thing. Humans are not meant to be lonely. In a world of billions you;d be insane to think you are the only one who wants a partner the way you do. It's out there you just gotta look in the right places. It's better not to actually go looking and to live your life. work on yourself, your confidence and all and eventually you'll stumble upon right person. just don't think you'll find them at a bar.

SteveStJohn · 2021-01-01T07:04:54+00:00

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nejekdhdjsn · 2021-01-01T08:34:32+00:00

You can pinpoint the decrease and correlation of traditional values with the rise of technology, and you’re right it does suck. Although this isn’t the case for everyone it’s more or less the norm whereas 50 years ago it would of been the other way around by a landslide. However, this isn’t something you can control, focus on shit you can control.

Edit: everything you described you can have just be prepared to let it go at some point with that person. Comparing to your grand parents is ridiculous there was a point in their lifetime they got sick of each other but didn’t leave due to social norms, your perception may be viewed that these two are madly in love but they’re In their 70/80s it’s all they’ve got left. The years following Up to that (30s-40s) may have felt like a prison sentence for both of them due to the norms back then. If this isn’t case, which I highly doubt, then your granddad has got game, and luckily for you game is timeless. Go speak to him and ask for some advice.

ElektroShokk · 2021-01-01T10:50:08+00:00

Sounds like you could use some real bros in your life too, they provide almost all of those needs

btrpb · 2021-01-01T08:35:56+00:00

I'm 43 and I'm dating. It ain't that bad. Though I get ya. I've been married and for kids and had those "nice things". But even though I married a good quality woman the happiness doesn't last. Life just becomes about accommodating to their emotions and needs. At least right now, I have no intention of settling down again. Seen to many guys my age fucked over by divorce, and I've enough wealth now it's easier to blow a bit dating than to give over half of it away in a 2nd divorce.

Life is what it is. Just got to build your status and enjoy the process as much as you can.

Kn1ght0 · 2021-01-01T06:25:22+00:00

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WeddingCrasher91 · 2021-01-01T07:33:39+00:00

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daproest1 · 2021-01-01T05:54:49+00:00

10/10 male here. Still sucks. You’re not weird. Your grandparents got it right. Bitches don’t wanna work on shit anymore. They drop you. Remember, their love is intertwined with their need. Doesn’t matter how many years have gone by. Equity doesn’t exist. That’s a masculine concept. Not a feminine one. It literally doesn’t compute to them. Then u have the influences around them. They REALLY care about how others view them. Then u have that they have to perceive you as better than them. I’ve spoken to teachers. TEACHERS. That wouldn’t date business owners without degrees. Because they don’t have a degree. It’s laughable. They can’t SEE. Grandma didn’t have to see. She trusted grandpa and talked to grandpa when she had doubts. Not her “girlfriends” or her parents.

VSelf47 · 2021-01-01T05:37:33+00:00

Dude, talk to your bros, talk with your mother.

Sucks, but what you are describing barely exists anymore. It sucks, yes, but that’s why you have to make the best of it.

NightwingTRP · 2021-01-01T10:15:04+00:00

What is your mission?

LazerSpin · 2021-01-01T09:31:04+00:00

share all of my dreams and fears and desires and goals with. Someone to tell my secrets and to take care of me if I get sick

Bro you want your mom or a psychologist. Not a girl, much less a wife. You do this with a modern western girl and all she'll see is a weak sissy-man who can't handle his own shit.

IAmEnlightened · 2021-01-01T20:26:42+00:00

33

6’2

Dark brown hair.

105kg(231lbs) Fluctuate between 8-15% body fat. (Yes PEDS)

Earn £250k+ ($325k) (varies slightly) per year

Own a business turning over in excess of £11m ($14m)per year

Own multiple properties and reside in a very nice very impressive one.

Own and drive over £300k of vehicles.

All of this makes spinning plates easy.

I find the only way to get any longevity out of an LTR is to date beneath me, this ensures they put me on a pedestal.

Whenever they start to get comfortable and lower the pedestal they have me on I make sure to “accidentally” fuck up my opsec and get caught cheating. Resets that pedestal for a few months and has them acting like a pornstar again.

elbananerozoy · 2021-01-01T05:15:59+00:00

Take It easy bro, they are just Girls, just that.

SteveSan82 · 2021-01-01T07:21:01+00:00

You can’t share shit with women. Women see it as beta to bleed your heart to them. Sleeping in bed with the same women everyday gets old. You’ll be 49 wishing to date again.

Read The Rational Male

LLL3peat · 2021-01-01T08:46:44+00:00

Sex is fun. But it’s literally a means to an end. Some people love the chase and having sex since it’s considered taboo or a numbers game to brag to their friends. You’re an intellectual.

Girls were always dead inside. Those who will open up emotionally either have a lot invested in you, or see you as a friend, nothing more. This is common. Social media and the internet made it more apparent. Once you take the stimuli of social media away from woman who grew up with it, they develop depression, self identity issues, and low self esteem. Welcome to the 21st century.

Want a woman to get married or have a long term relationship with ? Good luck until the late 20s- early 30s and forward. Women are now using building a career/education to delay serious relationships to have as much fun as possible KNOWING someone is willing to be that back up man to provide resources and start a family.

Honestly take some time to let it sink in, and it’ll take some time to get out of the anger phase. Develop who you are, what your talents and passions are, and get financially stable. Become someone interesting and just have fun. Happiness and being fun is contagious.

COVID-19 has held back plenty people, but if you are working towards something you’ll get closer to having someone see you for you and not just someone to ignore. It’s only in time that too get to play the game as well.

alternateaccount49 · 2021-01-01T05:54:05+00:00

The current society is only sort of like this, but you’re 100% looking for bitches in the wrong places. The bar is NOT where you go to obtain wife material.

On that note, we cannot change society, but we can understand it, and use that knowledge to our advantage.

mgtowalternate · 2021-01-01T08:37:37+00:00

Meh. I've embraced the short term 6-8 months relationships.

I'll never have a forever after and I don't want to. I enjoy my freedom far too much

In terms of meeting quality girls, it's about 1/100 for me on the matches I get on hinge or bumble. No exaggeration. I don't respond to 99% of the girls who reach out to me.

Luckily I live in a decent sized city and get plenty of matches but it's really bad out there if you want someone who is fit, smart, chaste.

FoggyDanto · 2021-01-01T08:43:34+00:00

If you're an older guy over 35 years one will always be attracting gold diggers, party girls, shallow ladies who only want to brag on their social media with the most expensive bags, dates, wine etc

That will be the case because you will be in the same category age-wise with sugardaddies who some are married and looking for a different taste outside.

But anyway it's still possible to get a good lady. Though you'll have to wade through a lot of women.

Note that all good ladies are taken once they cross 27 years and for your case you have to be very careful coz chances of marrying a gold digger are very high even if she's young. You have to select carefully and ensure she truly loves you not your money

beginner_ · 2021-01-01T12:36:45+00:00

Someone to share all of my dreams and fears and desires and goals with. Someone to tell my secrets and to take care of me if I get sick.

Even your grandma would have been disgusted at your grandpa had he spilled his guts like this. Only difference she wouldn't have left him but don't expected them having been happy or having a sex life if that was the case.

Share your fears with your closest bros or a therapist or suck it up. Certain drugs can actually be helpful to change perspective. Just look into research on psychedelics and ketamine for example. You shouldn't take my word for it.

longshaftmutant · 2021-01-01T06:03:39+00:00

You won’t get that here

GulpAndCry · 2021-01-01T21:57:30+00:00

these comments are becoming way too incel for me

explore the WORLD. there are good people, women included, out there

BasilevsNihili · 2021-01-01T13:06:14+00:00

And woman 'celebrate' the 'right' to murder children inside their bellies. This is the world we have to deal with.

ElijahBurningWoods · 2021-01-01T07:46:44+00:00

You don't, just do what you want and stop trying to embrace society.

NakedMoleHamster · 2021-01-01T08:48:23+00:00

I agree with you, but you shouldn't complain.

No girls like complainers.

Meloxian · 2021-01-01T12:19:52+00:00

Idgaf about society I give a fuck about myself though; work on myself and my shit. It’s 2021 time to grind homie

bachbozo · 2021-01-01T13:11:30+00:00

“Because it begins to seem to me at such times that I am incapable of beginning a life in reality, because it has seemed to me that I have lost all touch, all instinct for the actual, the real; because at last I have cursed myself... Meanwhile, you hear the whirl and roar of the crowd in the vortex of life around you; you hear, you see, men living in reality; you see that life for them is not forbidden, that their life does not float away like a dream, like a vision; that their life is being eternally renewed, eternally youthful, and not one hour of it is the same as another; while fancy is so spiritless, monotonous to vulgarity and easily scared, the slave of shadows, of the idea, the slave of the first cloud that shrouds the sun... One feels that this inexhaustible fancy is weary at last and worn out with continual exercise, because one is growing into manhood, outgrowing one's old ideals: they are being shattered into fragments, into dust; if there is no other life one must build one up from the fragments. And meanwhile the soul longs and craves for something else! And in vain the dreamer rakes over his old dreams, as though seeking a spark among the embers, to fan them into flame, to warm his chilled heart by the rekindled fire, and to rouse up in it again all that was so sweet, that touched his heart, that set his blood boiling, drew tears from his eyes, and so luxuriously deceived him!”

Dostoevsky

Cavascii · 2021-01-01T13:28:52+00:00

Feel gratitude for still having a sensible mind. That means you're fine spending time with yourself for as long as necessary. Feel some compassion for all those who have lost theirs. You don't HAVE to get involved with them.

SublimePimp · 2021-01-01T14:19:36+00:00

Women being “openly expressive of their sexuality” just cheapens it and makes them seem disgusting.

V8_Only · 2021-01-01T14:59:00+00:00

Wait, you became the Stacy/plate and now are complaining about you’re used dick not finding a LTR? Inb4 AWALT, nothing wrong with getting a woman long term just for the reasons you laid out. There’s another side of the red pill where you don’t participate in this dating carousel like a lot if women do, where you could find a worthy LTR. But trp ain’t ready for that convo

WTTT · 2021-01-01T16:14:08+00:00

While you're figuring it out, I do recommend semen retention, this will help, guaranteed. And yes it will help you be better, feel better and pre screen for the right woman to have your back before you let her sex drain you. Having sex with random girls who don't care about you IS the problem. But the right ones, and they're out there, make all of the difference. Not all women are the same, they may want the same, but end up choosing different because of beliefs or life situations. Not all men are the same, they may want the same, but end up choosing different because of beliefs or life situations.

SteveStJohn · 2021-01-01T16:31:46+00:00

OP,

I genuinely understand you. I'm staying the course in hopes of getting what you are looking for. Optimism, keeping a positive mental attitude, belief in Jesus keep me going.

DM anytime.

redvelvet_oreo · 2021-01-01T17:08:44+00:00

Take a couple steps back bro.

We all get society is changing and not for the better but you also need to stop living your life through a phone.

Tradcon relationships are rapidly dying but it doesn't mean there are women and men that don't want that sort of stability. Not every chick wants to be an instaslut, Onlyfans Star, and sex worker.

If you are young I would advise you find your purpose. Find your mission in life. Establish your career and master your craft. Women should be only for getting laid especially if you are in your 20s. Relationships during this time will literally only anchor you down and prevent you from establishing yourself.

You don't have to be a 10/10 male to embrace this new society. 10/10 males have it easy in terms of online dating but still fall victims to the same pitfalls lower value men do. 10/10 males are no invincible. They may have more mating opportunity's because of their looks which works well for the internet but that does not change the way the game is played. You can still fuck loads of women by just upping your game.

Remember game is the most essential tool in the toolbox. Ever meet a 10/10 male that fucks a bunch of women but cant hold on to any of them? Most of the times it not because the guy is so chad he just go after one women to the next. It usually because the guy has 0 fucking game and gets soft after the first lay. Women will fuck a good looking guys because he "looks" like he can protect her...think tall, strong, masculine looking but after she gets to know him a bit more and finds out he is a pussy socially shes out.

For ugly dudes you dont get laid based off your looks. You get laid because your game is tight. Women are not as visual creatures as men are. Of all the things women look for "looks" is at the bottom of the list. If a women feels you are socially dominate and strong this resonates with her more than anything else. She feels you can protect her. What this means is you will do the heavy lifting first but after you established some comfort shes is in for the taking.

I mention all this because to really keep a woman you have to game her all throughout the relationship. You dont always have to be at your A game but if you let your game go stale and the relationship turns boring she will slowly become unattracted to you. This is the same for any type of dude.

Last thing I will say is your problem is you give too many fucks. You want the Disney fairytale that's not going to happen. "you want someone to hold at night". Stop with that bitch mentality. You're a man. You should embrace being alone. Its a woman's job to want someone to hold at night. When you eventually get into a LTR she will crave these things from you. When I was younger I use to want the same things. I didn't want to be lonely. I wanted someone to care about me. I wanted someone to talk to about my issues. These are all mistakes on the males part. Once I got red pilled and got into a LTR I realized that me not giving a fuck about any of those things made her want to do those things for me. Remember if you display to a woman you NEED her, you are displaying WEAKNESS. She will feel you cant protect her because you feel dependent and needy. Don't do that shit. Be the leader. Don't complain to her. Don't let petite shit bother you. Even big issues cant seem to phase you in front of her. You frame has to be on point. Do all t these things right and she will be the one trying to hold you at night. She will be the one always caring about your problems even though you don't disclose them to her. She may take interest in your hobbies (instead of you trying to convince her to like shit you like).

Basically you need to start thinking opposite of the way you were programmed to. Women are in equal in the workplace. Providing a home and money isn't the end all for women anymore. You need to have good game and be emotionally stimulating and all those other things but above all else game is the most important.

Dr_Van_Nosstrand · 2021-01-01T17:23:31+00:00

YOU don't want to die. The voice in your head which is your ego is telling you that you want to die. However, you are NOT the voice in your head. You are the one who hears the voice. Try meditation, learn to observe that voice without judgement, and you'll find a whole new world of peace within you.

Snowboard18 · 2021-01-01T18:13:47+00:00

If there’s one thing I learned that I didn’t expect to learn from finding and implementing trp, it’s that women really aren’t that important at all.

So thing about this, why would you place that much importance on them if they don’t even bring that much value/fulfillment to your life ??

Guys that don’t get much pussy think that having a girl is the end all be all of life as a man, it’s not. Men derive much more fulfillment from being on a meaningful purpose in life and doing the hobbies that you love with some good bros.

antoni1488 · 2021-01-01T18:24:16+00:00

you need to go outside and meet actual people dude

boy_named_su · 2021-01-01T21:01:45+00:00

Find a virgin church girl w a strong father figure. You'll probably need to go to church

MoonimAhsan · 2021-01-01T07:36:06+00:00

Yeah, people have changed, the world have changed. You have to accept and adapt in order to survive. I was in your position years back. Now I have fully accepted the truth and decided to adapt. You decide what you will do. “He who has a why to live can almost bare any how” - Friedrich Nietzsche Find yourself a why.

TangoHack · 2021-01-01T18:24:33+00:00

I'm 47 years old. But I've been single all my life, with occasional LTRs every now and then. I feel the same as you, although I suppose you are very young. I'm no longer looking for just sex, but company, tenderness and that kind of things. My advice is: try dating older, mature woman. That is something that you won't find in a woman in her 20s. Ironically, a "post-wall woman" --as we derogatively call them here-- will be able to give you what you are looking for. Being older is not enough, of course: she has to be capable of giving affection, and sticking to one man. Without wanting to monkey-branch. Fortunately, there are woman like that. I've dated a few in the past, an I'm currently dating one in a LTR. Good luck.

2021-01-01T19:04:37+00:00

Lol don't generalize all women as the same, that's what I hate about this subreddit, women are not the enemy

Space_skrilla · 2021-01-01T15:42:51+00:00

U don’t deserve your dream girl ur chatting about because you ain’t even happy with yourself, you got ur own mental illnesses to fix clearly

pyth0ns · 2021-01-01T09:34:16+00:00

You seem to be full of hate and resentment. You shouldn’t be.

First and foremost, why do you feel the need to be ‘settled’, white picket fence and all that jazz? Is it what you truly want, if you think about it, or what’s been doctrine into you (by mother, society/media and Et. Cetera)

Second, is all life to you women and bashing genitals with the eventual settle down? Do you not have goals you want to achieve, hobbies that keep you busy and ambitions to, say, travel the world, snorkel the most pristine reefs and pet a turtle, write a novel, Et. Cetera.

IMO - instead of constantly dwelling how everyone is a twat these days, just focus on you man. Work on yourself so you can be happy, even if it means being alone forever (would it really be that bad?)

When it comes to women, ensure you vet, VeT, VET! Last thing you want are these emotions controlling you and you end up ‘settled’ with some aforementioned twat, overlooking everything wrong about her and the relationship, to appease your emotions, which in turn will make you further miserable.

Unfortunately life isn’t a movie/fairytale.

ImogeneArdon · 2021-01-01T11:18:50+00:00

Yes, it's dead these days.

hashedy · 2021-01-01T12:35:02+00:00

AWALT

But seriously, i find it depends on demographics. Eastern and Western Europe, for instance, are like two stars close on the sky, but separated by thousands of years in space. Although most are whores, finding one or two who at least realise whats going on feels like a great achievement.

Women and all that comes with them is exciting, but there’s more here on earth like art, music, technological advancement, creative output of some sort, which internally satisfies like nothing else.

inkwind · 2021-01-01T13:01:21+00:00

You need friends. Different friends will satisfy different parts of what you want. There's no silver bullet.

All the best for 2021

sepan5 · 2021-01-01T15:46:49+00:00

ure depressed bro, seek help

lolyups · 2021-01-01T16:01:55+00:00

One of the things I do is try to find solace in the fact that guys like Dan Bilzarian are faking the whole thing with a mountain of debt.

Everything is relative my guy. If your situation is shit, just keep working to put yourself at the highest number on the /10 scale that you can!

Throwaway56543763 · 2021-01-01T17:26:16+00:00

The title alone is a fat mood rn

BlondeHornyElf · 2021-01-01T17:28:23+00:00

the other half of modern women being promiscuous is that you're free in ways that men of previous eras were not... trust me i lament the loss as well but either make something out of it or cross your fingers and try to live the blue-pill dream.. consider all the options that exist for us that didn't exist for the average man not too long ago and try to think creatively.

167167167abc · 2021-01-01T17:52:13+00:00

Women are a byproduct of a life well-lived.

When you say this, someone is trying to get rid of a woman.

Eagleassassin3 · 2021-01-01T18:35:40+00:00

Just because your grandparents or their friends have been together for a long time doesn’t mean they were the happiest. Everyone struggles. Maybe they would have been happier had they not stayed together? There’s no way for you to determine that. That doesn’t mean they aren’t or can’t be happy. But that you cannot conclude what you concluded.

People have been using drugs for centuries. People have been having mental illnesses since forever. People have had repressed traumas for millenias. If anything that’s only getting better today because talking about them is becoming more normalized. Not everybody needs to fuck a new person every week. And it sounds like you have done so as well. So why are you blaming every girl when you did the same thing?

A lot of people are looking for the right person to be with, to spend their lives with. However, finding someone compatible is difficult, so there are lots of cases where it doesn’t end well. And today, people are free to go away if they feel like they’re not with the right person, which is better for both of them, instead of being forced to stay together because of some false sense of honor or societal pressure. A lot of older couples have stayed together because it used to be a lot more frowned upon to get divorced, even if they were unhappy. So just because they stayed together, doesn’t they were/are happy.

There’s more to life than being in a relationship. You can find your own purpose by working for something bigger than yourself. And you can pursue meaning that way. You’re going to die one day anyway and then you won’t be able to do anything, so why not enjoy the time you have now while you’re alive? You can help others and be happy that way. There are lots of things you can live for.

Infernir · 2021-01-01T19:05:38+00:00

You don't have to be the man sleeping with all the girls while everyone else gets nothing but friend zoned and told how much they're appreciated.

All you have to do is improve yourself enough to fine 1 to LTR or god forbid marry and get out of the game, and all of the rules of TRP to ensure she doesn't branch swing. Yes we have it tougher than any of the past generations of men in America, even though they were already more masculine, higher testerone (naturally knowing exactly what to say or do, exerting a lot of sexual energy tension and desire to females), and financial power at a young age.

Yes, some men are fucked by genetics, others are fucked by shitty circumstances like not knowing TRP rules b4 they got in a LTR or god forbid marriage & divorce (happens to a ton and a ton of celebrities, famous socially conditioned beta men so don't act like its not common).

If your mental health is suffering always remember there's more to life than women, to enjoy living however you can and take a break from dating as a whole for a while. And don't turn to inceldom, blaming women for anything... they're at most reflectors of our culture & society, followers of what we men have made it, it's men's fault for what's happening the most.

CasuallyObliterated · 2021-01-01T20:10:18+00:00

U shud prbly stop with the red pill

IAmEnlightened · 2021-01-01T20:10:27+00:00

Become a 10/10 male.

DipMeInChocolate · 2021-01-01T21:44:20+00:00

This might be just because I'm sitting here, redditing on the toilet before suiting up on my wedding day, but I believe LTRs are possible. I've met and dated many wonderful women who would've made great wives. Me and my bride enjoy each other's company and have fun everywhere we go.

When I up and quit my job this past summer, she supported me financially for two months while I smashed my way into a new career with better pay, benefits, and work/life balance. I share most of my feelings with her (except the false pussy-ass feelings that weakness and depression are made of) and maintain swagger by being strong and disciplined mentally and physically.

We've been together for 2 years and I think the key is that you have to maintain the yin and yang of your gender roles. Be a classically masculine man who isn't afraid to cry or emote, but doesn't bitch or complain like a loser. A man who punches difficulty in the mouth will maintain respect from his woman. Just my 2 cents. I believe that long term love can work if health is maintained.

Much love and good vibes, my dudes.

ollyollyollyoioioi · 2021-01-01T22:12:00+00:00

Sartre once interviewed said he never really felt a day of despair in his life. But one thing that comes out from reading these guys is not a sense of anguish about life so much as a real kind of exuberance of feeling on top of it. It's like your life is yours to create. I've read the postmodernists with some interest, even admiration. But when I read them, I always have this awful nagging feeling that something absolutely essential is getting left out. The more that you talk about a person as a social construction or as a confluence of forces or as fragmented or marginalized, what you do is you open up a whole new world of excuses. And when Sartre talks about responsibility, he's not talking about something abstract. He's not talking about the kind of self or soul that theologians would argue about. It's something very concrete. It's you and me talking. Making decisions. Doing things and taking the consequences. It might be true that there are six billion people in the world and counting. Nevertheless, what you do makes a difference. It makes a difference, first of all, in material terms. Makes a difference to other people and it sets an example. In short, I think the message here is that we should never simply write ourselves off and see ourselves as the victim of various forces. It's always our decision who we are.

guyman2753 · 2021-01-02T01:07:48+00:00

I feel you. But I’ve found that 6-8 month relationships are a good move with some single time in between. It seems that after the 6-8 month mark is when the relationships start to fall apart because you can’t pass every shit test perfectly and girls start to get bored. But during those 6-8 months it can be great because they’re still obsessed with you

dingleburry_joe · 2021-01-03T02:17:10+00:00

I feel you bro. I think its the problem of our age if you've unplugged.

Ultimately the biggest thing I go towards is my dreams and what I want for my life outside of women. You can't control anyone's behaviors or decisions.

I guess I'll have to come back to this once I've achieved those dreams.

Knocked-over-Knocker · 2021-01-22T22:31:48+00:00

Confidence

Omario6 · 2021-01-01T09:34:20+00:00

Spot on. I'm 22, virgin, not attractive enough to date i guess, fat below my waist and bad posture. I've got good opportunities, i guess, to advance in my career of civ eng with additional chance of becoming software/ML engineer/Data scientist but i can't work through this in order to achive it bcs all i do is thinking about my lonely future due to my unattractive features. I def was born in a wrong generation

subaruguy14 · 2021-01-01T14:33:06+00:00

Your purpose is not women. Get a 7-8 for an LTR but never marry, and then focus on your actual purpose which is building your empire and wealth. Cheat on her for good measure.

SteveStJohn · 2021-01-01T16:25:39+00:00

I'm surprised no one has mentioned dating girls not from USA and not from Europe. I've seen the comments before, and personally know 1 guy (under 60) who is happily married. He's married to an Asian.

Another friend is in an LTR with a Hispanic woman. They are also fairly happy. Though a big part of that is his excellent dread game.

150420throwaway · 2021-01-01T20:35:26+00:00

“I wanna die” bruh shut the fuck up, adapt to the world, to some extent, some trends are ridiculous, even if it’s shit, there’s much more for us than some random broads, we may find a decent one to settle down for in the future, for now we keep improving and enjoying our lives

Top-Particular1789 · 2021-01-01T12:06:24+00:00

Weakling 😂

redhawkes · 2021-01-01T17:09:04+00:00

Another woe is me post in the past 24 hours from you. Get a grip motherfucker.

ImogeneArdon · 2021-01-01T11:28:50+00:00

You know the funny part?

This even happens to 10/10 males. I've seen it to my friend who is a 10/10.. i've dated way below my looks (i'm not a 10) and have had girls bounce. I dated a girl who i thought was my best friend and i loved her and she left me like i was nothing. It sucks. It hurts. It's made me numb. Instagram, social media and all that shit such quick fixes of dopamine.. women are on drugs we all are. real relationships are dead. Women just go from Chad to Chad riding the dopamine spike.

Back in the day more people were religious, marriage was important (as women didn't work and couldn't bounce frome one cock to another with a click of a finger on her phone) and relationships actually meant something.

We live in ths superficial clown world now. Hell. Only Fans is now seen as something that's brave, respectful and empowering. It's over. The best and worst i ever felt was when I was in love with my girlfriend who felt like my best friend.. then she left me like i was nothing? I met someone else , now you know and that was it. Would you do that to your friend? Fuck this world of social media, dating apps and all that buillshit. It's all superficial now. Fucked . I guess i'm a jaded kunt. It is what it is.

Also people keep saying there's more to life than women, yes of course, i'm sure OP knows this, but i get what he means, wouldn't it be nice having a companion and a real, genuine relationship with someone? Isn't that a basic human need in a sense. such is life.

Title	Unless you're a 10/10 male, how do you embrace our current society? Because it makes me hate life and dread the future...
Author	acidaccount26
Upvotes	215
Comments	212
Date	January 1, 2021 5:06 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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