When I was broke I had easier time with girls, it was easier to get along and they never "expected" me to do anything for them. We'd hangout together, have sex and share knowledge/stories with each other and that was it. I had someone to share my feelings.

Then I worked hard and got "lucky", made good money and life changed.

I've hard time getting along with women, and they just expect me to do things for them. To the point, I don't even matter, just my ability to do things for them matter now.

I got into several relationships, I did all the blue pilled things and never got any statisfaction out of it, only resentment.

The girl I with currently only has time with me when I do something for her and it has always to do with money, not attention or time spent on her. If I stop providing her what she wants, she starts ignoring me and claiming that she's busy and thing till I surrender and buy her whatever she desires.

But the point is, no girl ever did anything for me in life beyond sex. Received no gift or anything, most girls forget my birthdays. Most claim they don't gift their boyfriend stuff because they've no money but I know it's not true, they've enough to give to their parents. Not like I demand expensive presents but I've lost hope that as a male in this society, I deserve anything like that.

Why transactional relationships are frowned upon when they seem more "fair"?