This chick doesn’t like things to always get sexual. She wants to be liked for her other qualities.

She’s got high SMV but is conservative about sexual things. Maybe it’s me but I’m a solid 8. I escalate 5-10 times when I’m with her and get rejected about 70% of the time.

Im not a fiend and I do like hanging out with her and appreciate our conversations/interactions but I’d like to lower that rejection rate.

  1. Is her asking me to focus on her other qualities a test?

  2. Does she have a lower libido than me?

  3. I don’t even know how to focus on her “other qualities” is she seeking validation??