Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?

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March 17, 2020
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I'm talking about getting sex as easy as a gay man getting sex from another gay man, where you literally directly ask and get little rejection.

Is it your looks, is it your money or is it your status?


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Title Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?
Author SomeAverageChap
Upvotes 130
Comments 266
Date 17 March 2020 03:21 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]diggyigy92 points93 points  (9 children) | Copy

I used to think wealth ( I've always done really well financially ) was the biggest one for my success.

However, after working on my body / overall appearance, the amount of interest is like 5x more now.

So, regardless of what you hear, looks is a major one especially just for sex ( LTRs would be different).

Status, personality, wealth, sense of humour etc would all add to it though.

[–]Greek-God-Brody190 points191 points  (45 children) | Copy

I know a few guys who get sex regularly, maybe not always super easy, but still, they're racking numbers. Talking about early 20s age bracket.

They are either:

  1. tall and handsome face
  2. short and handsome face. They get mostly with short girls, true that.

What all these guys have in common:

  1. IDGAF mentality
  2. Great charisma & social skill. They are popular.

[–]empatheticapathetic60 points61 points  (15 children) | Copy

Easy to develop the latter 2 once you have one of the first two.

[–]Greek-God-Brody53 points54 points  (12 children) | Copy

True. You rack up a few positive experiences one after another when you're young, it creates a powerful upward positive spiral in your life / mind.

I found out that subconscious beliefs matter a lot too. Just not having a fucked up childhood makes a big difference. Like some guys will have irrational deep negative beliefs (I'm not worthy, not good enough), while others will assume the best for them.

The guys I was thinking when I wrote the post literally are so full of themselves, in a good way. They have solely positive beliefs about themselves: I'm the shit, bitches are easy, I'm awesome..

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[–]throwing8smokes19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

book of pook talks exactly what you are saying. once internal game is 100% outer game comes naturally

[–]lt0502866 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Power of the subconscious mind!!

[–]Darth_Zounds5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Saved this post.

I wish I had read this kind of thing a long-ass time ago.

It would have saved me from some stupid financial choices regarding pick-up artist courses.

[–]empatheticapathetic1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

Yeah i'm basically the guy in your 2nd paragraph. Can't seem to escape it and have seemingly stopped trying now.

[–]Greek-God-Brody10 points11 points  (6 children) | Copy

If you have things like anxiety, excessive fear of approach, low self-worth, that is like below ground zero. It's not even about instilling positive beliefs, but undoing the negative ones. That alone makes a huge difference. The guys who get the girls and are popular, they literally no idea whats it like to live with anxiety. The can't fathom it.

[–]empatheticapathetic0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I don't have those concerns really anymore because I just don't care about the issue in the first place. Not sure how to start caring again or why I would want to.

[–]Ill_mumble_that4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is one of those few times I recommend an escort. Get one with few limits who is super hot.

Sometimes you need a positive experience jumpstart, even if you have yo pay for said positive experience.

Another option would be a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. They are like a psychiatrist except way better and cheaper. They don't try to treat you or offer you advice, they just listen, with confidentiality. You go into the session and the person just listens to you talk. No pressure. You just talk. You figure yourself out, but you do it with another person there. Another person that is not going to judge you or try to tell you what to do. It creates a positive experience. All they do is listen, it's the best part. They keep their mouth closed and just listen.

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[–]Ill_mumble_that3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

90% of my experiences have been with escorts

Well you either have a really low count, or you're seriously fucked up. Go get help, such as a LCSW.

Or don't. I don't know you. Fuck off if you prefer. Same difference to me. I hope you do improve.

[–]hockeyaddict870 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I literally have all the things you listed. How can I fix these inner issues?

[–]Greek-God-Brody1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm still working on them. Self-hypnosis and subliminals. Meditation. Look up 'Absolute Self Confidence' on Google. I found traditional psychotherapy methods to be very slow and ineffective in hard cases. Outer level approaches (like doing cold approaching, Game) only gave me the illusion of change, the external will not fix the internal.

[–]HellSpeed-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ease breeds mediocrity.

[–]empatheticapathetic5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sure but that's a different point to what we're talking about.

[–]RoyBattyLives7 points8 points  (14 children) | Copy

What do you define as being short then? What’s too short? There’s a fine line and a world of a difference between 5’8 and 5’4

Source: 5’4 jacked dude

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (8 children) | Copy

I agree. As a "mid tall guy" I have no idea what I need to do from this to get pussy lol

[–]RoyBattyLives7 points8 points  (7 children) | Copy

A lot of guys will just throw out "oh I know a short dude that gets pussy!" when really that dude is like 5'7 and to me, that is NOT that short. I'm 5'4 and a bodybuilder and I still struggle to even get anything in online dating. At my height, us short dudes get the leftovers or women that guys don't want to date and that's real talk.

And no, I'm not an incel or mgtow lmao. That's just projection from whoever says that retarded shit.

If you're 5'8 or taller and struggling, you're not really putting in forth the effort, IMO, if you're struggling in dating in general.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yeah I'm 5'10.5 and have no trouble. Are you sure it's your height? I mean, I know a guy who's 5'5 that pulled but he did have a nice face and sharp jawline. They were never quote "Stacey's" though

[–]RoyBattyLives0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

"pulled". Brah, that shit drives me up the wall and is retarded as fuck because the ones he "pulled" probably were 1-4s hambeast whales. Real talk there.

Those don't even count lmao

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

I literally just said they weren't Stacey's. Yes they were on average 4s but he was always getting sex off tinder

[–]RoyBattyLives5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

At my age, those non stacey 4's arn't even worth it. STDs and drama and baby momma shit. I'm 33, not 22 fam lmao

This shit gets worse as you get older

[–]logitech7571 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hambeast Hahahahahahahaaha 60% of all US women are overweight or obese :(

[–]RoyBattyLives2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Gets worst as you get older. None of them really took to physical education, especially with the advent of social media.

Why workout when bluepilled betas throw themselves at you and give you "worth" lmao

[–]redvelvet_oreo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Im 5'5 and jacked as well. I dont struggle as much as other dudes who complain about height on here and I am bald but it goes with my looks. In the words of Louie CK "You just lose access to certain subset of women." I have fucked girls taller then me. Tallest one was like 5'9 but I typically stick with girls my height or shorter.

If you are already in shape then your biggest assest will be game. Learn it and get good at it. One thing I notice from men and women pre TRP vs Post TRP is back then height use to be the first shit test I would get and now often people don't even notice my height until for some reason it just becomes noticeable like in a picture or something.

I have developed my game to be very charismatic and witty and I am generally a loud person. I mix in power talk in my game as well to assert dominance in a sense. Nothing new here if you read the side bar. Being fit and having good game your height will not be an issue. Overall I do pretty well. If you let your height be an issue then it will be a problem. Accept it, pass the inevitable shit tests and be the smurf alpha in the group.

There was a quote I read once in a Navy SEAL book once "The master chief was 5'4 but he had the shadow and presence of a guy 7ft tall, no one fucked with him and everyone respected him." (I am very loosely quoting here but it was along those lines) - That the presence you want to have always. Be that guy.

EDIT: I dont waste time on Tinder or any online apps for that matter. I dont get much on it and honestly dont care. I go for the cold approach and it works and honestly cold approach you skip a whole lot of nonsense.

[–]Rock_Granite1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Short is anything under 6ft.... according to the women of Tinder

[–]RoyBattyLives4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Not really, I think that's a small minority, specifically those who say that in their profile or ask right away.

Either way, it's on you to show them that you're an awesome guy. That's it.

[–]Rock_Granite1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

it's on you to show them that you're an awesome guy

Agreed. The 6ft plus guys just don't have to work as hard.

[–]RoyBattyLives5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

YUP 100%

Fuck your genetics, just work hard as fuck in the gym and see how far it takes you.

[–]Greek-God-Brody0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Tbh, in this day and age. Anything under 5'10 is short

[–]damaged_goods4205 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

tall and handsome face

short and handsome face

So true. The whole "don't be unattractive" rule will always be true. IMO it matters a lot more that you have a nice face if you're short, since height bumps you up a few points and can offset if you're not that good looking, but at the least having an attractive face and being charismatic will get you tons of lays.

[–]clickherebaby4 points5 points  (10 children) | Copy

Tall and *top 5% handsomeness. I get called handsome everyday. Every. Day. And ive been hit with the "youre not that attractive" upon employing the idgaf attitude

[–]mraees932 points3 points  (9 children) | Copy

Are you from America?

Because girls here in South Africa are very reserved, they just stare, proximity and ioi all day. Very rarely i get approached or called handsome

[–]clickherebaby10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yessir. Chicago.

Yeah i have girls approach me, tell me i look like Leonardo DiCaprio, grab my dick in club instances, etc.

Whenever i travel, its just amplified. I think game is so much more important than my looks, my 6 3 220 lb stature. Ive fucked up more opportunities than closed because of my inconsistent charisma (more of a personality defect than anything). Id say 30% of my closings were due to lightning in the bottle game charisma

Its like russian roulette, austistic style. Never know when ill miss a cue or say some fucking dumb shit, stare a bit too long after consciously realizing im not that confident in myself, for no good reason.

[–]mraees934 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yeah game is more important otherwise I would have slayed more. So I guess it's location.

I'm 6'2

[–]clickherebaby0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Yea forsure. But if youre getting iois and shit, go for it. Ive had success cold aapproaching, but when the iron is hot, easy fookin pickings man.

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[–]clickherebaby1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah its hard to follow a natural chain reaction of events when youre so conditioned out of it.

[–]mraees930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah true. Check my other comment in this thread

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[–]mraees93-3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy

White and coloured girls.

I'm coloured though

[–]mraees931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ok recently I have been getting sex at least twice a month. Lost lots of fat over the years. I store most of my fat in my upper body though(16-18%bf) so I have a lean face and legs. Slowly developing the last 2 points.

Now I think I fit tall and handsome face. Around other tall guys I get the most attention so maybe I do, I don't know but like I said slowly developing the last 2 points.

[–]GetBehindMeSatan666181 points182 points  (67 children) | Copy

Being tall gets you looks, being good looking holds gazes, confidence closes

[–]lovesprite29 points30 points  (28 children) | Copy

Being tall gets you looks

I dont know if this is true. I have gotten looks but its like once in a year or something. I am 6 feet tall.

[–]A-Buff-BBC-Blackbelt36 points37 points  (11 children) | Copy

I am 6’6, I get stared at constantly

[–]f_ck_kale16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah that’s probably cause you look goofy as shit.

[–]A-Buff-BBC-Blackbelt4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s either that or the banana hammock I wear everywhere

[–]lovesprite29 points30 points  (8 children) | Copy

That's cause youre taller than normal.

[–]A-Buff-BBC-Blackbelt30 points31 points  (7 children) | Copy

No shit?

[–]lovesprite20 points21 points  (6 children) | Copy

Yes people look at weird things. It doesn't mean that being tall is attractive. Face comes first then height then status.

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[–]lovesprite12 points13 points  (4 children) | Copy

Haha. Yes I can't because I am not tall like you. Guess that's why you have to put "a buff BBC black belt" in your username, cause you are drowning in pussy.

I am happy at my height.

[–]mrrooftops4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Only their gaze gives you time to notice. Sorry bud.

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[–]Dense_Cantaloupe4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

if you're not good looking, they look away before you notice according to ^

[–]lovesprite1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ok then.

[–]RoyBattyLives1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

With height like that, you’re not working hard enough

[–]Cybertron4360 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

6 feet won’t get you that many looks. 6ft is tall but not freakish by any means man

[–]empatheticapathetic0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

6ft isn't tall by 2020 standards.

[–]lovesprite6 points7 points  (7 children) | Copy

Ok then. I am short then but who cares.

[–]A-Buff-BBC-Blackbelt2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women

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Cool

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[–]empatheticapathetic2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

If you say so then it must be true. Location, competition, facial attractiveness, game; all irrelevant clearly.

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[–]empatheticapathetic0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol. Yeah don't worry bro i'm agreeing with you. We're all friends here. Pussy for everyone! wooooo

[–]E9er1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

like poetry! that’s cool!

[–]Redditorsheaven3 points4 points  (36 children) | Copy

Doesn’t matter. If you ugly and bad face structures

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[–]BKLager21 points22 points  (7 children) | Copy

Like a women’s survey means anything. Do you think women know what they want?

Tom Cruise is 5’7. If you lead a compelling life otherwise, height does not at all matter.

[–]LethalShade23 points24 points  (4 children) | Copy

I've had a girl tell me she hates nerds and then when I was fucking her tell me "You're so nerdy, it's so hot."

If you disqualify yourself based on a random thing a girl says(wether or not its an official survey) you're beyond idiotic.

[–]mrmaika1012 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

A girl told you you’re nerdy in bed? LMAO

[–]LethalShade9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha, I don't remember the exact moment, it was either while I was making out with her or fucking her, it was a few years ago.

[–]i-am-the-prize3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

so much this. +1

[–]volvostupidshit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you. There was a girl in my uni that told her friend that "ew just look at his face" when she teased her. One week later I was already fucking her. My weapon? Not giving a fuck about anything.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tom Cruise is worth half a billion dollars and is one of the most famous people on the planet. Wrong comparison imo

[–]Solid-Sloth5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

I didn't downvote.

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[–]mrrooftops4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Someone with a twisted face and lazy eye tried to upvote but missed the button...

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[–]1DonaldBaelish4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Alright guys imma settle this shit. Do women want a taller man? Sure. Is height a part of our SMV? Sure. Is it the only part? No.

Here I come 5’7 in a tall man country. Have had more than 10 women taller than me with tallest one being 6’1. Fucking giraffes man, love them long legs tho.

I don’t have a study to back this up but maybe it’s the lack of inferiority complex? Where is Dr. Freud when you need him?

[–]failingtheturingtest3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy

Read more than the abstract

We coded personal advertisements available on Yahoo Personals for heterosexual individuals within 250 miles of Los Angeles, California, USA (men seeking women, N = 1000; women seeking men, N =1000). The average reported age was 37.2 (SD = 9.8) for men and 34.8 (SD = 9.9) for women.

96% Post-wall women posting a lonely ad on Yahoo Personals listed a preference of taller men.

Amazing how a bunch of depressed researchers can turn that into "women won't accept a shorter man." to explain why it's not their fault they're a fat loser.

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[–]failingtheturingtest2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's the same source, just with the ability to read. If you cannot read your own source, I cannot help you.

[–]1DonaldBaelish0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Confirmation bias.

Go prove the study wrong.

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[–]PinacoladaSauce5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

this thread is a little weird. there’s more to lifting than just developing muscles. that’s why we see guys who are ripped and can’t get laid to save their life

“no man has a right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength his body is capable of” - socrates

lifting builds everything dude. i get what you’re trying to say and i’m not saying muscles don’t matter, we all know that’s a load of horse shit. but they aren’t everything. the confidence and status that are byproducts of the discipline it takes to build the body of a greek god are the deciding factors

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[–]PinacoladaSauce0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

for sure you can get them with lifting. i don’t think you can get them without discipline though. at least not to the extent we talk about here.

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[–]NightFire455 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

The reason lifting is parroted here is because it's reasonably simple. Having a magnetic personality is going to take years of practice. Most stand up comedians take a decade plus to nail it down.

[–]Solid-Sloth4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Did you not read the comment you replied to?

[–]GetBehindMeSatan6660 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I fucked up meant to reply to another one.

[–]Rock_Granite0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Being 6 ft 3 makes up for a lot of other deficiencies.

[–]Kidterrific1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I think the stat is likely really that women will not date 96% of guys shorter than them.

But if you're in that 4%, it's easy.

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[–]Kidterrific0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There is none. I made it up.

[–]electricspresident1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hmm not accurate but I get where your going. I'm 5ft8 and shorter than most women around me or just slightly above. Especially when they where heels

My taller friends definitely have it easier

As for the statistics I would simply going with Paretos , which is 80% of hot women prefer 6ft1+ guys.

[–]ExploreBeyond7129 points130 points  (3 children) | Copy

Looks + IDGAF Confidence (which comes from experiencing lots of success).

Understand that Money and Status are crutches which can help you trick women into sleeping with you, but they will never have the 100% passionate sex that they would do with a 8+/10 looks male. Harsh but true.

[–]Pockyaf10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea

[–]iStar081 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is it. Confidence is a byproduct of success, not a cause.

[–]salezman1232 points33 points  (1 child) | Copy

You are operating under a HUGE misconception. The rejection doesn't mean anything. It doesn't matter. The no's literally just don't count.

Imagine you are trapped in a hallway, right. There are an infinite amount of doors, you go up to one and its locked. Some people will just assume they are all locked. Some people will try several of them and conclude that they are all locked and that the best course of action is to wait until someone opens one from the other side. The guys who get laid all the time are the ones who twist handles until they find one thats not locked.

[–]Rock_Granite12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

For the guys that get laid regularly the doors that are open have signs on them that say "I want you to fuck me". That helps them quite a lot

[–]burnerkidtalin10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

It’s genetic outliers. I was an ugly duckling, upon entering my 20s everything filled in like a second wave of puberty. My bone structure was always on point i just needed to look healthier. Gained 20lbs of muscle, my beard became big and full, I’m only 5’10 which has no benefit or detriment, but I’m admittedly handsome. I am still confused as to how women see me, not used to it yet. And I am shocked as to how easy it is to get girls as opposed to before. It was literally looks. I’ve also been gaining traction as a recording artist, small enough to not be recognized, but big enough to have girls see my social media and be like “oh shit, that’s you???” Every girl I fuck nowadays saves my music when they hear it. It’s genetic outliers and how you separate from the pack.

Literally just look good and do something really cool and get respect from other men about it.

[–]empatheticapathetic5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Look good. The rest is a bonus and doesn't affect the threshold.

[–]omega_dawg939 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

tight shorts that show-off a massive dick print! lol.

seriously... money & looks will only get you so far. once she detects beta, at any level, the clock starts ticking.

all you need is confidence & masculinity to get her attention. but don't disregard the subconscious stuff like smells, body language etc. women pay attention to ALL that shit.

talk to her like you've already fucked her 100x and give-off a vibe that she plays your game or she can walk.

smelling & looking good, being tall, muscles, nice clothes etc all help but she needs to be qualifying to you. she needs to fully understand that she is lucky to have your attention.

attention = female currency.

[–]EdvardMunch14 points15 points  (7 children) | Copy

Some have said money. Maybe what money brings as far as self assurance in basic needs.

Primarily for me its about wanting it and not fearing anything else. Thats when the game is top notch. For women will see you not enacting patience as a sign of not caring. You care, but you're courageous.

Also projecting a sense of sexual self independent of them is huge. Its not on them that you have sexual energy now, you always have it. They follow the frame.

[–]BodomDeth1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

About the patience thing, can you reword it?

[–]EdvardMunch8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Sure. So while we often hear "dont give a fuck" I can tell you the real reality of not giving a fuck is a turn off to most girls.

For instance if you just wanna get laid but you aren't cautious in your approach its insulting.

Consider if it was a ten and you had a shot, you would put some extra care into succeeding. Thats the whole "come correct".

Doesn't mean don't be assertive, sexy, or dominant but give a damn about your courting behaviors.

[–]BodomDeth2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

So in fact, should you be patient to approach when you see a girl that interests you, or should you approach immediately while keeping plausible denial (instead of going all out).

[–]EdvardMunch8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

You should always be patient even when taking action. Otherwise you show weak behaviors (afraid you wont get what you want so you hurry).

Its like an economy of means. The more you say the more you undermine. If you dont care what you say you dont even have anything on the line. Women do want to see you risk rejection, and also be able to handle it like a champ.

Know what you want and be smart about how you get it. Be direct but not easy.

Only you can read the situation for approaching. These situations are rare in most contexts. Parties are perfect but the gym, grocery store, bars, are all much more problematic arenas today. My recommendation, even to myself, is to get out and socialize around a city as much as you can as this builds the proper contexts to organic meetups and repeated encounters. Also if many people know you it reaffirms safety and helps rapport.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Talking to a girl in the club and asking her number to text her tomorrow to set up a date after talking for a week versus what happened to me literally last weekend when a girl shit tested me "Let's stop the games, we want each other and we both know it."

[–]Standgrounding0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

And then how did you handle that?

What happened after?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She agreed, gave me her number, and we left together.

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Looks (masculine, handsome). Height 6’1. Deep voice. Play guitar. Fit, lift weights. I lie and exaggerate my finances and jobs to pull it off. Have a nice car.

[–]zino19327 points28 points  (9 children) | Copy

I go out a lot, and I go for married women that send me fuck me eyes.

The world is full of women that just wanna get some dick and no complications if you don't dream of the cheerleader or go out with the mindset of "convincing women" you can be someone's Mr right now, almost every night.

[–]empatheticapathetic1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

How good looking are you? How skewed is the market? As in are you a good looking dude who has chosen this demographic due to hypergamy getting harsher and harsher.

[–]zino19311 points12 points  (7 children) | Copy

I'm not, next to a 45 year old fit milf, she still looks like a good digger. 5'6, 200 lbs, thinned hairline. Really nothing special, apart from some hipster wit and alooof personality I'm really not anything special.

But it goes way beyond that... With a woman that is on the lookout for a guy that "doesn't count", you don't even need wit. You literally just need to want her. I'm not talking any game or any deep connection here man. It's just about being there, sober at the end of the anual corporate outing, or be there next to her, when she goes to the grocery store and is ovulating.

[–]empatheticapathetic3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy

Yeah this is what I was wondering. If this still exists or if 45 year old milfs are holding out for chad only for alpha fucks.

[–]zino19312 points13 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yes, they are. But I'm not him. They have iron frame, so unless you are a convict or full sociopath you ain't outgaming them.

This is just about getting laid man. Nothing special. That's what I want to underline... People are fucking out there. If you don't try, and make it clear your don't want anything, she will think about it for a bit, and if the "special one and only" isn't there, most will settle for a random sober guy that can handle a 30 minute conversation without "trying".

[–]xpletive2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

bravo man 🤙🏼

[–]empatheticapathetic0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Interesting. Not sure where to meet these women. Most women who fit this age seem to have chadder guy than me hitting them up already. This is kind of my initial question. They still have some standards, and men will fuck anything. So all that’s happened is hypergamy has pushed men who would be aiming for younger girls onto these women, and there is still a marketplace in play sorting these men into fucking order.

[–]zino1938 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Highest volume...corporate gigs. Suburbia durring the day. Supermarkets. Anything baby related. But honestly they are everywhere man. The question is...when they see you, are you the guy that doesn't count. That doesn't call or even msg the next day? That's the barrier... Are you a 0 risk for their current lifestyle?

It's not a marketplace man, you are not competing, you are not winning. It's a free for all. Today it's you, tomorrow it's her gardener, the next week she loves her husband dearly. You do not matter, you can't set any conditions, you are not gaming, quite the opposite, when she gets even the smallest feel that you're trying to "get her", she cuts you off fast. And my game is pretty good, not to brag but I am quite funny. They don't want any of that. They want you to be a complete mistery. No texting or chatting. No second chances. You are just there and she needs someone. Nothing else.

[–]empatheticapathetic2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cool man, thanks a lot. A lot to think about and look out for.

[–]_the_shape_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's not a marketplace man, you are not competing, you are not winning. It's a free for all. Today it's you, tomorrow it's her gardener, the next week she loves her husband dearly. You do not matter, you can't set any conditions, you are not gaming, quite the opposite, when she gets even the smallest feel that you're trying to "get her", she cuts you off fast. And my game is pretty good, not to brag but I am quite funny. They don't want any of that. They want you to be a complete mistery. No texting or chatting. No second chances. You are just there and she needs someone. Nothing else.

Excellent, concise breakdown of "she's never your's; it's only your turn" and why is must be fully accepted to truly become a player in the game.

[–]prostaddict5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

As a reformed beta, the biggest change I made was have an IDGAF mentality towards women. Getting fit and my own place had a big impact towards that - as well as absorbing the material here, especially Rational Male and Chateau Hearste’s rules. My first date close rate is around 60%, with 90% closing on a day 2. I never worry about getting sex anymore, and have been more focused on getting higher quality women (educated, driven, etc)

[–]superomar135 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

Two secrets.

1) Almost every man besides Dan Bilzerian, Hugh Hefner, and a few select others who set their life up to have sex this way don't get laid as much as they would like to. We're talking even A-list celebrities even. Anti-slut defense still comes into play among a HOST of a million other reasons of why a woman would sleep with a man and why she wouldn't.

2) I've been in moments in my life where getting sex was as easy as breathing and moments where I had dry streaks even though I was busting my ass to get laid. Major difference I realized was momentum, having my fundamentals handled, huge IDGAF flirty af attitude in a pretty savage way, and refusing to ever take a lose (always going for a win in every aspect of my life no matter what).

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You're baised. You can't claim #1.

[–]superomar130 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Claiming number 1 from what I've heard from a famous person who youd think would get laid all the time

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[–]superomar130 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I never said you had to have money, it's just about set up. Imagine you're living in an apartment with 3 other hot chicks that you've flirted with at different times. I've known guys whove lived with three other girls and had some wild sex with all three together and separately

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev13 points14 points  (8 children) | Copy

Tall + DGAF + Singer in a Band + I know how to talk to girls "subtextually", get them talking about their fantasies and get them all horned up. That's how I got to be stuffin' young muffins.

[–]mickey__2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

And how do you play that part of them talking about their fantasies?

[–]Standgrounding1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I guess it's asking them questions.

Example: What's the dirtiest thing you ever dreamed of doing?

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

You create a vibe - I call it "mildly subversive" where she feel comfortable telling you about them without feeling like she will be judged. You have to develop a rapport, and then put the bait out.

[–]mickey__0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Make some post on it, would you, please

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I will try and work smth up but it basically is something that has to happen organically; you can't look directly at it. You have to come at it soft and indirectly.

[–]DickMystery0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

How do you learn to talk to them "subtextually"? Just from doing and exposure, or are there other ways to boost this?

[–]AztekShroom2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lock eye contact is a big one, u wanna feel the sexual tension

[–]DickMystery3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks. I know eye contact, deep voice, talking slowly etc. Just curious if he has something I haven't heard of/seen before.

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For me, I think looks trumps all. Not that the other things aren't important tho.

Even when I didn't have game I still managed to get girls because of my looks. I've always gotten attention from girls just for existing, to the point where at school some girls in the year below me had a fan club for me. At university I had a reputation for getting girls to the point where my student union gave me a certificate for it as a joke, even tho I had shit game even then. Since I moved to Asia its gotten ridiculous, every workplace I go to the office girls all gossip about me and when I visit other offices the women there all hunt me down on Instagram and send me messages to get to know me.

Now I have some game I still think it's about my looks + gym body.

I'm not even super attractive. Maybe a 7.5, I guess I just have a certain type of face that women like. I was always a pretty boy, but as I'm getting into my 30s my face is becoming more manly.

Women are just as superficial as men are when it comes to looks.

[–]i-am-the-prize4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

to quote fat bastard: "because I'm dead sexy"

I'm reading Mode 1, by Allan Roger Currie. You must be able to deliver (confident and sexy) to pull it off, I mention this book because you posted "literally directly ask" so read this book for his take on the 4 modes of men's comms with women. pretty interesting read (especially how he correllates the fears of what drives (scares?) men who communicate in each of the 4 modes)

To make it real be:

  • masculine (strong, tall, broad, lean, muscular, jaw, bulge, scent, voice, take up space, etc)
  • hot (not just pretty, but arousing)
  • project status (social proof, chicks use it as a shortcut to evaluating you)
  • cocky/funny
  • give tingles
  • have Game
  • have Frame

[–]Nergaal8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Rule 1: be attractive

Rule 2: don't be unattractive

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[–]empatheticapathetic9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

Men aren't the ones with high standards.

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[–]Cybertron4362 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmfao it’s 2020. The supply of casual sex is ridiculous.

[–]gyropitaolives1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Word

[–]xdppthrowaway9006x4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

You're an idiot, and it's your fault that women are as delusionally entitled as they are, and why the dating market is so terrible for the average man. Stop fucking nasty whales you pathetic beggar.

If you could do something useful instead of be desperate, the fat girls would realize that being fat = less male attention, and they would start dieting a lot faster than you think.

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[–]xdppthrowaway9006x2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you refuse to buy a shitty product, they won't sell it at full price. They'll lower the price, or make the product better. A generation ago a man could expect to get roughly his SMV equivalent in natural beauty, and a lot of men had loyal wives who even looked better than they do, just on the basis on being a decent guy with a job. Nowadays women are so entitled that they will only date men 2-3 points above them, because men have gotten so spineless, weak, and thirsty, and dating apps and social media make this really obvious to women.

In other words someone 20 years ago got a thin woman who was roughly as attractive as him and sometimes even more, for less effort than the same man would have to spend today to land a woman 40lbs heavier who doesn't know how to cook.

Stop giving fat girls dick and they still start losing weight.

[–]KillaJewels11 points12 points  (9 children) | Copy

Am a 9/10 looks wise. But, the main reason is confidence. Let me explain.

Before I learned RP concepts and started cold approaching, I was having few successes and not with the quality of women I envisioned for myself. A lot of rejections, needy mindset, poor game and lack of confidence contributed to this. I could not lead because I did not have strong sense of reality.

After I started cold approaching, everything changed. I became much more confident and played to win. My game got much better the more I understood masculine-feminine dynamics. Currently in an LTR of 6 months, was FWB for another 6 months before that. She’s got most of what I want and very submissive.

If I wasn’t dating my girl, I know I’d be cold approaching. And she knows that too. I have girls hitting me up still from approaching a year ago despite radio silence. I have confidence that sex would be no problem for me if things ended with her.

[–]empatheticapathetic13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

How can you open with "i'm 9/10 looks wise but it's mainly confidence" and then ignore the relevance of your looks? You need both and you're downplaying the importance of the looks.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's because OP is an uggo and only has theories

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Day game? Where do you mostly cold approach?

[–]KillaJewels6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy

Anywhere, everywhere, any time of day. Professional events, grocery stores, mall, on the street, bars, coffee shops...everywhere.

[–]RedDeAngelo2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

And this is why the corona epidemic sucks balls

[–]KillaJewels2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Lot of opportunity here actually. Dating apps are about to be lit. Also neighbor game. Fuck like it’s the end of the world.

[–]asskisser0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Bars are closed, how would you even date?

[–]KillaJewels4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Netflix Party Chrome extension

[–]pilot33318 points19 points  (4 children) | Copy

Tall + jacked + money + fame = gg

[–]J-baller-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

Not sure why these so called "redpillers" want to dismiss the significance of money and fame when it comes to getting sex easily from women

[–]dpgproductions10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Because they're not essential for success with women. They're secondary to keeping yourself in shape and maintaining your frame (confidence, outcome independence, etc.) things that can be attained by the majority of men with some hard work and practice. Whereas fame and fortune just aren't in the cards for some. They'll definitely help if you've got your other shit together but fame and fortune alone are hardly required to get sex easily.

[–]DerpJungler7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. My bro has 0 social media presence. No facebook, no instagram and all that. He's average height, jacked and decent looks.

Yet, he somehow pulls girls like a madman. He's been my bro for 8 years and there was NEVER a time when he didn't have a girl. Either spinning plates, FWB, LTRs.

Fame is not necessary but it helps.

Confidence, abundance mentality, decent looks, purpose and strong frame is the core of pulling, imo.

[–]DF-RP3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you are top 0.0001% A-lister hitting max on all stats, of course you get sex on the tap from perfect 10s.

But is that a reasonable standard to compare to? That is not a realistic goal for pretty much anyone. Nor is it something that's required to pull girls with ease.

Just go create a tinder profile with pictures from a random but very handsome model from Europe or something and watch the matches and thrist from women roll in. That's not effect of fame or money - it's looks, and looks alone.

Combining looks and game gets you very, very far. Sure, you won't be having actual victoria's secret models lining up behind your door like top A-listers would, but you'll still have more girls to fuck than you could ever care for.

[–]Its_scottyhall3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Being lean and muscular plus a REAL attitude of abundance and confidence. Shit is easy.

[–]GearaltofRivia3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

I have read so many horror stories about people’s experiences that I basically walk around getting looks, holding gazes, getting anxious and walking away

[–]empatheticapathetic1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was the same and after a couple of bad experiences i just avoid women entirely. I only talk to them if i know they're ok with me and then my personality comes out.

Women have created this climate.

[–]StBlackOps2Cel2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

personality ofcourse!

[–]__TheDon__4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Rule #1: Be attractive

Rule #2: Don’t be unattractive

[–]Domebeers5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

I learned game and I learned what actually turns women on, not what women says turns them on.

[–]DickMystery3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Please, explain.

[–]pinkangel690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

basically the sidebar classic "dont believe what women say but what they do"

[–]Standgrounding0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Isn't it obvious?

Make them feel good.

[–]Rodent97 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re a pinoy - go and get ripped since there’s not much else you can do to help yourself.

[–]JaevonTheDon5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Probably my game honestly. Looks only take you so far. Game is what gets you pussy

[–]Black JesusDerekMorganBAU2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Game homie. I've never had any issue getting a bitch I'm keen on for the most part. I'm a little on the picky side because I know my type and they usually become drawn to me since they can sense we're polar opposites with underlying sexual tension and enough in common to not be a chore talking to one another.

Sounds convoluted af but it's simple. I like shy bitches that have a little edge to them. I can see right through them for the hoes that they wanna be but can't until the right nigga comes along.

I ain't super good looking even though I've been called a "pretty boy" (I disagree). I'm jus a little 5'5 niglet that's found his lane and has moderate to great success.

[–]Cybertron4361 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

“Niglet” this fucked me up brah 😂😂

[–]Strip_Bar2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

For me.

  1. Social status, I’m well known in the regional nightclub/night life business and run a large club. I imagine it’s like a way lesser version of being a celebrity where people often hear my name and know of me before they meet me. I’ve had women swoon over me Instantly. My fastest close from meeting to sleeping with a girl is like 20 mins.

  2. I’m 5’10 so not tall not short either, I’m probably a high 7 or low 8 in looks.

  3. I genuinely enjoy talking to women now I enjoy their company, I don’t get intimidated anymore and I don’t care if I’m rejected by someone who I barely know anymore.

  4. I dress in a style that fits my body type and personality (Americana/ workwear mostly) I always try to dress well.

  5. Yea I make money now, but I was getting laid before I really had money.

I will say this I was a bit of a late bloomer mostly due to some trauma when I was a kid it took me a while to unfuck myself.

Things started slowly changing as 20 by 23 I was starting to get a lot more attention but 25-27 it really took off. Now I’m mid 30s and have been with the same girl for awhile.

We broke up briefly for like 2.5 months about 1.5 years ago and I was wondering if I still got it, turns out I did and it was the easiest time I ever had finding women, I had more options than ever.

Hope that helps in some way.

[–]cfbovernfl1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sex with high quality girls or just sex in general?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Facial aesthetics

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not giving a fuck and dropping bitches like they are. Disrespect = next especially if I didn’t cause it

[–]Libertyordeath12141 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't try hard, and I'm attractive. So it's easy for me

[–]screenmagnet1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I knew one guy who could consistently pull this off. It took looks + height + status (doctor in a small town) + lifting + decent (but not spectacular) game

[–]wanker71711 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Knowing I can get it whenever I want, it creates an almost disinterest in it. The way I think about it is looking back to my first relationship where I was embarrassed to be dating the girl. She wasn’t unattractive by any means, quite the opposite, but she was a held-back freshman and I was a senior in high school. Despite being massively BPed she was incredibly excited to date me. Now when this shame wore off the story changes to her dumping me but this attitude about it is what I attribute most of my success towards.

[–]DonJuan_691 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

they never talk about sex and they friendzone girls.

it works

[–]wyota1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

When you're handsome, kinda smart, and mildly autistic, women either hate you because of the cringe or fetishize you like you're a Kpop star. I only attract neurotic women, but at least some of them are pretty. Do people know what I mean? This seems to be a thing I've seen elsewhere too, maybe even in media

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

I pay them.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

How much and how hot are they?

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[–]Monkitail0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

need to come down to Miami dude.

[–]Koltasxxx1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Living in southeast asia as a white guy

[–]Howdoiusesync0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

After a same day lay, got the whole "It's the way you talk" so medium is the message, confidence.

Though been as if I was a model a couple of times. So looks gets you in the door but if you're socially retarded then good luck.

[–]LateralThinker130 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I happened upon it by accident when I was blue-pilled. I've never had that high a sex drive - just didn't care that much - so I never had the thirst of my BP compatriots. That, plus being smart, not overweight, and with average-above average looks, meant if I liked and fancied a girl, I generally scored pretty quickly.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm similar, good looking, not thirsty so pretty sure most girls see me as a challenge/trophy fuck.

[–]PrettyBarbiePerson0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Act like a man

[–]Pluglord0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

By doing?

[–]Cybertron4360 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Work towards having control of yourself and your life. Healthy. Do not make excuses, an excuse is just another way of admitting you’re too weak to complete the mission. When you reach a goal you need to set another bigger goal. Do difficult/challenging things for the sake of doing them - to prove to yourself you can.

Will this necessarily make you happy? Depends.

Will it make bitches wet when what I said up there is your life mission and they’re second/third/fourth to it. 95% chance.

[–]PrettyBarbiePerson0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You think we can just answer this in a reply on reddit post lol

[–]Pluglord0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There’s a hundred different things he could have been implying by saying that. Not asking him to literally teach me how to act like a man obviously.

[–]PrestigiousMess60 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 6ft 5, good jawline and been lifting for years. That opens the door. Confidence and humour to walk through it.

[–]Gawernator0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Confident and good looking, saying the right things

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

being muscular and in shape.

[–]GearaltofRivia0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How do you guys not get worried about the shit you read and hear about? Women honey trapping guys and accusing rape and shit? That seriously gives me such tremendous anxiety

[–]Cybertron4360 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

32 girls and I’ve never had that bro

[–]VigilantSmartbomb0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I just don’t give a fuck, if we’re fuckin cool, if not cool, if I wanna fuck and you don’t bye

Not that hard don’t be a pleaser be you.

Nd honestly it’s a lot of the foreplay too- kino at the bar all the way home

[–]bumbuff0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Having a red pilled lady friend to have around while going out is the best ace up their sleeve anyone can have.

Couple that with an IDGAF attitude and you'll make most women jelly before they even know you.

Dress nicely and they'll throw their numbers at you.

Doesn't always mean there will be sex, a lot of it is them looking to see if they can just get your attention away from your lady friend.

[–]2319Skew0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't get sex as easily as some but don't really have trouble. Genetics play a part as I'm tall and handsome and have a decent body. My style also shows that I'm socially aware and responsible enough to take care of myself. This gets me IOIs which I help me approach.

Then an IDGAF attitude from abundant mindset shows that she should be chasing me. This results in either a Ons or a lay within the first three dates with a very high close ratio.

That said there are times where I go through a dry spell and if I get in my own head I can miss cues and fail shit tests.

For the record, I'm not as muscular as some of my friends and my finances are OK but still not in a place where I can demonstrate wealth.

This results in me getting shit tests left right and center as women initially think I'm high value but get seriously confused. Hell, I just got one from a plate who was trying to put me in the friendzone.

[–]redvelvet_oreo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I cant get sex super easy but I have on occasion fucked girls super easily. The main thing? Charisma, being witty and just NGAF.

[–]wowkwo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Confidence

[–]SteveSan820 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly I was getting women when I was not in the greatest shape and around 30 pounds overweight. But those were women I knew to some degree already and most were not really the kind of women I actually wanted. I remember fucking this much older woman and I couldn’t enjoy it. I had to keep looking at her tits bouncing to finally cum. Looking at her sweaty face turned me off.

I actually was more shy getting women after I lost the weight and started hitting the gym. Why? I had more confidence previously. I still saw myself as that overweight guy. It took a lot to lose that mindset.

So ultimately. Confidence, game, hygiene and not dressing like a slob does the job.

[–]Cybertron4360 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Genetics for face, been working out since I was 15 as well as swimming competitively so my body is more developed than most other 21 year olds and I’m in a college town, abundance mindset that I had from a young age that I used to just think of as respecting yourself.

Besides that I lost my virginity quite young and have continued to add to my sexual experience which is an advantage when most guys are clueless their whole lives about how to use their tongues/dicks - makes me significantly more confident with women which helps.

[–]Dr_Van_Nosstrand0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because I don't give a fuck if I can get sex or not. And that IDGAF attitude somehow attracts women to want to have sex with me.

Put another way - confidence in myself. I don't need a woman for anything so if she wants to be in my life, great, if not, plenty more behind her that probably do.

[–]Testinat0r0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because I'm 6.6 250lbs man with tattoos and game

[–]AnonymousSportsExec0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You nailed it. You need atleast good looks, status or money to get laid easily. The more of those you have, the easier it is.

Humans are wired to be sexually attracted to people with good genes(looks). Men are attracted to motherly traits in a woman where as women are attracted to provider traits in a man.

Therefore, to get laid easily, you need to be very good looking(good genes) and/or a good provider(money/status).

[–]Haytch12340 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

6 foot. Muscular. Been training for 15 years ( 28 now) Look after my skin. Full head of hair. Tanned skin. Also have a white scar in my eyebrow so it gives me an edge.

And location. Im out in the city every weekend and I work as a bouncer. I have active profiles on dating apps. I meet lots of pussy. All but one girl I have had sex with had been within the 1st or 2nd meet up.

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Their looks 100%

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (35 children) | Copy

It's most likely wealth. The only women I've ever made easy progress with were the ones who were aware of my wealth.

I notice that confidence also plays a big role. Whenever I'm feeling extra confident it seems to be easier and I have no idea why.

[–]bert_cj10 points11 points  (11 children) | Copy

How much you make?

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[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points  (21 children) | Copy

5 figures

lmao

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[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

k ill cut the bullshit and admit im a daddy's boy lmao inheritance ftw

[–]bert_cj0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Jesus. What kind of business do you run? If you don’t mind me asking

[–]Johnny_Monsanto-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nibba is reselling freshhands, alcohol and surgical masks.

[–]volvostupidshit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hahahaha

[–]still_unresolved0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shopify ? How ?

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[–]M0rtAuxRois-2 points-1 points  (10 children) | Copy

Wow, a screenshot! You totally showed him! There is definitely no way to fake this and other pictures of this definitely don't exist online and photoshop definitely doesn't exist either! Wow!

[–]pilot3331 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy

your suspicion is flattering lol

[–]M0rtAuxRois1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

People who make seven million dollars a year don't brag about it on asktrp lol.

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[–]M0rtAuxRois0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

236,883 people in the U.S. earn $1,000,000 or more a year. There's 70k people on asktrp.

250,000 out of 400,000,000 is .6%.

.6

.6% of people

The probability of you or your friend making more than a million a year, bragging about it on the interwebz as if it matters, is extremely low. Possible? Sure. Probable? Not even a little. I'll stick with probability on this one. :)

edit: /u/pilot333 Not only that, but after a brief look at your post history, your income seems to vary wildly, so wildly it's almost as if you don't even know how much you make! In one post it's "solid income ($100k+ remote job)" (people who make 7 million a year definitely say 100k+, right? Like why not a million+? Why not six million+?), in another it's 120k a month against your friend who makes 120k a year (so that's, what, a millionish a year?), in this post it's 20k a day... like... either you're a shit liar or your income literally changes every week, in which case any answer you give is disingenuous as fuck.

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[–]hashes101230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Never say ‘I Love You’ first.'

  2. Strike fear in her heart. Make her jealous.

  3. My mission = my priority.

  4. Don’t play by her rules.

  5. Adhere to the golden ratio.

  6. Keep her guessing.

7. Aways keep two in the kitty.

  1. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary.

  2. Connect with her emotions.

  3. Ignore her beauty.

  4. Be irrationally self-confident.

  5. Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses.

  6. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little.

13. Fuck her good.

  1. Maintain your state control.

  2. Never be afraid to lose her.

  3. Be mysterious.

  4. Magnetic marketing.

  5. Never give free validation.

  6. Be resourceful & self-sufficient.

  7. Understand there are 385k women in my top 1% (1 out of 10,000 girls)

  8. Have high standards.

  9. Her opinion/validation doesn't means jack shit to me.

  10. Be a motherfucker that'll kill shit and bring back meat (confident & decisive).

  11. Treat everyone like they're equal or below you.

  12. Leverage social proof.

  13. Never argue with a woman.

  14. When asking a girl on a date - either via text, call, or in person - I always pose it as a statement, not a question.

  15. Let the women whine, it is their business.

  16. Don't talk after sex.

  17. No pointless chatting & talking.

  18. My respect is earned, not given away.

  19. Remain unreactive.

  20. Don't blackslide.

  21. Consistently increase my value

  22. Have an empty brain approach to execution.

  23. The “I am enough” frame.

[–]aDrunkenWhaler-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Make eye contact. With confidence.

  2. Look for the girls that seem interested/available. If a girl is checking you out, all you have to do is have a bit of balls to approach and a dgaf attitude, and basically not fuck it up. Don't waste your time with girls that do not seem interested. They might be, but it doesn't matter. They'll come around at some point, and if not, it doesn't matter.

  3. Lift and take care of how you look, to make them spot you in the first place.

  4. Get good at bullshitting and having frame. In other words, have game.

  5. Preselection helps a lot, together with a high SMV. Work with this as much as you can.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

We wrote it all down for you already.

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