New to the forum so I’m nearly hitting 30 married and have come to the red pill. Inner secret beliefs that’s always had but never bettered myself from them until now. I’m the process of unplugging for real. A few observations I would like to share and explore in regards to intergender dynamics in the work place

So I work in healthcare..The boss is a female who is an authoritarian attempting masculine qualities but fails. Condemns any form of positive masculinity as well as many staff members. The sjw/feminist types of the work place have allied themselves in a clique, so my colleagues who know the game of the workplace communicate in secret and explore the power plays to avoid manipulation.

The heirachy is not based on competence rather of how much you could suck up to the boss.

Examples of how extreme this “threatening masculinity “

1) I was walking straight and upright was deemed offensive to a colleague (fat out of shape lady carries a lot of resentment ) - couldn’t take the confidence lol 2) boss threatens to “kick my ass in car park” when I was telling her factual information. But when I act assertive its seen as “mean and authoritarian”. But it’s okay for her to act like a military commander.

The final part that I’m struggling with is the moody moo character of these individuals where parts of the blue pill beta still exists within me. Default plugged in me - when they throw a strop is to try and keep the peace. Short term great but long term it’s a slow kill. They show this moody / attempted assertiveness when asking for favours and out of habit I fall for it.

Example. A moody moo asks before I leave - ooooooo before you go can you do this and that. When they have sufficient time and resources to do it themselves and just too lazy to. Knowing I will do it because i am a hard worker.

Moody moo - asks I need to go on time because of xyz and me and male colleagues let it go when she needs to stay and help. But doesn’t reciprocate, uses attempted logic to justify me to stay.

I guess all my life I have always let my guard down against moody moo behaviour and as a result is causing me problems. This is one beta blue trait I must destroy. I will continue to post observations on these issues to help and assist all.

Any insights from men in the same situation.