Hi, sorry for the formatting, I'm on mobile. I'm new to red pill, but I'm really into the philosophy and lifestyle, so I'd like to ask for your advice.

I am 28 yo and I've been on a relationship for the past four and a half years. Him and I were friends for around four to five years before dating. He is also a TRP man, very strong, a talented leader and a good Christian.

However, I feel like time is passing by and he will not commit to me. He had talked about plans to get married in the past December, but he acted like it wasn't serious and didn't do anything to bring those plans to fruition. I used to be completely against having children, but I've changed my mind and I am afraid to stay with him for way too long, just to end up alone and too old to have children.

I've talked to him about my concerns and he brushes them off by saying I'm desperate. He always says he doesn't have the money for a wedding or makes excuses saying I won't be the same as a wife as I am right now. He says he is afraid I won't look after him or cook for him once we are married, but I've always been kind and supporting, I have changed a lot for the better and he is still very insecure.

He sometimes talks about marriage like it meant losing his freedom, but at the same time he says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

A few details just for context: -He is almost 34 yo. -We bought a plot to build our house in. -My current income is about double his and we could not afford for me to be a stay at home wife, but that is our long term goal. -We are not intimate and I am sure he is faithful.

So, what do you think I should do?