Does "less is more" usually work with women?

Haytch1234 · 2020-04-02T02:50:30+00:00

The law of least effort is real.

Less is more when it comes to women.

Ask a girl to hang out. But dont press for it.

Recognise when they want to see you or are just fucking around.

Say it without any expectations. Lots of guys cant take rejection . Be different

AbaGanov · 2020-04-02T04:40:25+00:00

Definitely. think of women like cats. they choose when to come to you, not you. just leave the door open and don't try to push to action. also in general your life will become better and less stressful.

amwfhunter · 2020-04-02T03:06:21+00:00

Abundance mentality. When you're talking and/or fucking multiple girls or have business to deal with and other obligations, you wont have time to spend so much on one chick.

alphakari · 2020-04-02T06:12:05+00:00

Less is only more when she desires more. IE: Desires the end to a lull in the conversation, so she talks more and thereby invests more.

If she desires nothing from you, less isn't gonna change that. Stop looking for an excuse not to ask bitches out. Better to throw a game like that out the window and be bold. If a girl says no to hanging out with you twice, never talk to her again. "But but what about female friends? Aren't they useful?" Not ones who can't even stand to hang out with you.

Herdsengineers · 2020-04-02T13:51:46+00:00

Women are like cats - if you chase too hard, they run. If you sit still, the ones that are interested will move in to check you out more. Then, if you dangle a toy they like, but don't let them have it easy, they'll stick around and try to get the toy they like.

There's a balance, if you make it too easy for them, they get bored. They have to like you and be interested, but they have to miss you some too. It keeps them wanting to see you again. You have to create the space and absence for them to miss you without overdoing it.

So less is more, until you take it too far. Will take practice to learn the right calibration, don't expect to get it right until you have screwed it up while learning a few times.

pspicatrix · 2020-04-02T02:01:56+00:00

In terms of texting: keeping texts short. Avoiding lol and haha because I don't care about breaking awkward tension.

legend503 · 2020-04-02T12:16:03+00:00

Depends if you are actually more.

But what certainly doesn't work is overdoing it.

Calibrate. There's no exact formula for every girl. Calibrate

DiskKiller2 · 2020-04-02T13:01:00+00:00

In Italian there’s a word called “sprezzatura”, which is practically studied effortlessness. So you hide the effort and approach the end result nonchalantly. At least appear to be willing to walk away, and act as if she’s just a side project in your life. (She should be.)

Victorious666 · 2020-04-02T14:18:34+00:00

Less is more works with everything. The most attractive thing you can be to a woman is disinterested.

Alzatorus · 2020-04-02T06:57:09+00:00

Less is more but it’s a balancing act. Leave it too long between contact will put her off just as much as too much contact. Also, if she’s not in to you then she won’t care about how aloof and mysterious/distant you are 🤷🏼‍♂️

Tousen71 · 2020-04-02T02:09:31+00:00

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Snowboard18 · 2020-04-03T02:12:02+00:00

Yes 100%. It communicates to them that you don’t view them as the best thing in the world and that you have options. Two attractive characteristics.

mrdeeds1972 · 2020-04-02T05:36:03+00:00

Only if she is actually interested in you.

tefllifestyle · 2020-04-02T08:39:03+00:00

Yep very true, even more in LTRs

Title	Does "less is more" usually work with women?
Author	bayfarm
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Date	April 2, 2020 1:57 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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