Link: https://archive.is/4mDVZ
TL;DR Guy and woman's relationship is 'rocky'. Woman ends up pregnant a few weeks later and wants to 'keep' the baby. The guy tells her, he wants them to be together but a baby would get in the way. Woman agrees and has the abortion. Turns out the guy did what was in his best interests and was only lying about wanting a relationship. Woman is devastated because she really 'wanted' to keep the baby and posts for sympathy.
From the post:
I believed him, in spite of being very clear that I was doing it out of my love for him, even though I also loved my baby.
There, she admits she values her relationship with Chad over her baby. Given a choice, she'd pick the man over the potential child.
Let's face it, women have the ultimate decision when it comes to having a baby. Guy doesn't want a baby and the woman does? Doesn't matter, he's on the hook for 18 years of child support. This guy simply did what was in his best interests.
Not even a week passes from the date of my procedure and I'm in the hospital. Why? He told me he hated me and I should go kill myself, and on top of that he had been having sex with another woman the whole time, so I ended up in the hospital as a result.
No, you ended up in the hospital because you tried to kill yourself over losing this guy.
Days pass again, I'm out of the hospital, and I've informed him of what happened. He's sorry. I tell him I could (but won't) press charges for what's happened.
This woman thinks she can get a judge to send this guy to jail for lying to her about wanting a relationship with her. Wut. Later she clarifies and says because it counts as 'coercion'.
What lesson does she take away from all this? Use a condom? Not get involved with assholes? Nope:
Ladies, choose your options carefully. Don't have regret. Do what's best for YOU, no matter who tells you what. If you want to be a mother, do it. If you want to wait, do it. But NEVER take what a man has to say about it into consideration if it goes against what your gut tells you. Don't let a guy influence and manipulate you. Be empowered with your decision.
If you end up pregnant, never take into consideration what your spouse and father of your child wants. It's all about YOU.
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