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There’s A Hidden Supply of Hot Girls All Around You that No One Else is Gaming Effectively

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January 5, 2021
961 upvotes

Intro:

Well, it’s official. Covid 19 will still be a big part of your life in the first part of 2021...

Which means depending on where you live, still no bars...

Still no clubs, Still no lounges, Still no places you can reliably find hot girls to approach.

And if you've been in the game for a while... then you know that whenever you get out of a long term relationship or even just decide to take a break from game for an extended period of time - your skills deteriorate...

Game is a muscle that needs to be actively exercised or your skills will atrophy... just the way it is. You either use it or lose it.

So does that mean you have to drive to the mall to cold approach 10 girls a day??

DAYGAME MUTHAFUCKA!!!!

Not exactly.

What if I told you there’s a “hidden” supply of hot girls all around you that you can walk up to and game... that just about no one else is approaching effectively?

Body:

Have you ever noticed that your eyes automatically move towards hot girls while you’re walking down the street or going about your day to day life?

Sometimes you and the hot girl walk past each other. Sometimes you walk past them from behind, sometimes they pass you if they’re in a hurry.

Point is, have you ever considered that you can actually have a conversation with these girls walking past you every day instead of just staring at them for a brief moment? (And even avoiding eye contact if you’re beta enough lmao)

The only problem is, it’s not that easy to stop a girl that’s on the move... Sure you can approach them, but most of the time they’ll just keep walking... after all, it’s Covid-19... and strangers are dangerous! Sigh...

Meaning you’ll have to chase after them and walk with them like a low value beta.

Don’t believe me? Try it out. Try approaching a girl on the move in 2021 and you’ll see how difficult it is to get them to stop and have a conversation with you, unless you live in a rural area or something...

Until a week ago, I thought that girls on the move were off limits. I mean, they have places to go right? And besides, they all have masks on... they’re probably scared of Covid-19...

And every time I approached them, it only seemed to reinforce that fact. The majority of them didn’t stop when I approached.

They just kept walking... and walking...

And these are girls that seemed open to being approached, not the ones with earphones on lol

Sometimes, I’d follow after them and continue talking to them, walking side by side, but I don’t think a single approach like that worked out.

I mean, I was clearly chasing after her and the girl could see that... she’s not stupid, she knows she’s higher value than you if you chase that hard and follow her around like a dog on a leash...

I tried a bunch of different approach strategies too.

I tried walking up and tapping them on the shoulder. I tried walking up and telling them they’re cute, walking up and talking about something interesting in the environment...

Nothing seemed to work. Everything I did only seemed to reinforce my belief that these girls walking around from place to place were not meant to be approached. They had places to be... people to see...

And that’s when I met Dan: The Salesman from Costco who single handedly taught me that there’s a better way...

If you ever met me, you’d know that I almost never stop when homeless people ask me for money on the street, or salespeople approach me at Costco.

I had the mindset that I don’t have time to deal with that shit.

So looking back, I probably missed out on some cool offers from the Costco reps that I genuinely would have enjoyed. Probably missed out on interesting conversations with homeless people too.

Dan from Costco was different though.

Dan was able to get me to stop and listen to his sales pitch...

(I think it was home delivered water or something)

When it first happened I didn’t even know what hit me. I just sat there and answered question after question about how I pay for water, how much water I drink a month, etc.

I was like, how the fuck did I end up in this sales pitch? This usually never happens...

And then it hit me. Something about Dan’s approach compelled me to physically stop walking and listen to what he had to say.

I waited for him to finish his train of thought and immediately told him what was on my mind. I told him that I almost never stop when salespeople approach me. And I told him I wanted to know how to do exactly what he just did to me.

Dan looked at me like I was autistic. LMAO

I laughed and told him I’m utterly serious. I wanted to know his secret on how he could get people to stop what they’re doing and listen to his sales pitch.

I even offered to buy a 3 months supply of his water delivery service on the spot no questions asked if he was willing to help out.

So there I was jogging back in the middle of Costco and walking towards a very confused Dan again so I could try to figure out exactly what he was doing differently from everyone else.

I noticed several differences immediately.

  1. First, he waved to get my attention when I was like 8 yards away. This meant that I noticed him from a distance already
  2. Second, he held out his hand in a stop sign ✋ about 4 yards from when I was on top of his sales booth, and delivered his opener. “Excuse me real quick, I have a question. How much are you paying for your water every month?”. This meant that I had plenty of time to stop instead of continuing to walk like I usually do.

Do you see how intelligent this kind of approach is?

Usually homeless people just ask for money at the last second when you’re right next to them, making it super easy to just keep walking past them.

Dan, on the other hand, waved to grab my attention from a good distance away, and delivered his opener from 4 yards away, meaning it would be socially weird for me to not stop.

He turned the tables.

For all those homeless people on the street, it would take active effort on my part to stop and engage them in conversation.

With Dan, it would take active effort on my part to keep walking.

People LIKE taking the path of least resistance. Myself included. That’s just the way it is.

The funny thing is, Dan himself didn’t even know how brilliant his approach was. He was just doing this shit naturally.

I didn’t care though. He taught me everything I needed to know. So after I paid for a 3 month supply of his water as promised...

I immediately tried this out on a hot girl who was walking into Costco from her car.

Like I said, usually girls on the move are very difficult to stop and have a conversation with, especially during the Pandemic.

But this time, I followed all the steps.

  1. I waved at her from 8 yards away and smiled. She smiled back.
  2. I held out my hand in a stop sign ✋ and opened her indirectly, “excuse me real quick, I was on my way to the XYZ restaurant it’s supposed to be right here but I can’t find it.”
  3. Blah blah blah, “oh by the way, you have a creative and artistic vibe. Are you an artist?”

Boom!

I kid you not. Full 20 minute conversation in the Costco Parking lot. Tons of flirting and swapped Instagrams at the end.

I repeated this exact technique on 5 other girls over the past week (making sure they noticed me from a distance, and delivering my opener from 4 yards away with my hand held out.

Every Single One Of The Girls Stopped In Their Tracks. And had a conversation with me.

Already have dates lined with with 2 of them

Covid-19 made it so the path of least resistance for a hot girl is to keep walking when a stranger approaches them.

But when you simply make sure they notice you as you approach, and give them enough time to stop, They Will Stop Every Time. They won’t know why they stopped, but they’ll stop.

Because it would take active effort on their part to keep walking. And almost everyone takes the path of least resistance.

Lessons Learned

If you’re too scared to even approach a girl, then this technique isn’t for you. Learn the basics of daygame first by approaching girls waiting in line or girls standing still that smile at you as you make eye contact with them.

And if you’re too scared of Covid to approach, then by all means continue monk mode. I don’t have anything against men who try to do the right thing to keep others safe.

But if you’ve been at it for a while...

If you’re sick and tired of this lockdown bullshit...

If you want to exercise your daygame skills on women who were previously off limits because they’re walking too quickly, I urge you to use what you learned to immediately get every single girl you approach to at least stop and have a conversation with you.

Nobody else is approaching them in such a calibrated way.

So Why Not You?


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Title There’s A Hidden Supply of Hot Girls All Around You that No One Else is Gaming Effectively
Author ForeverKarlMalone
Upvotes 961
Comments 125
Date 05 January 2021 04:20 PM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit TheRedPill
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[–]DrunkOldBear207 points208 points  (5 children) | Copy

Make a funnel page. And then sell the method after a long pitch of how you were in your best shape and still not getting poussy. And then you learned this from a japanese sensei selling water at cotsco. After this, the problem is getting too much poussy.

As a gift, a pdf of sidebar (valued usd96.00).

19.95, no more, no less.

[–]Endorsed ContributorForeverKarlMalone[S] 56 points57 points  (1 child) | Copy

Spat out my water. Too funny man hahaha

[–]babayega31 points32 points  (2 children) | Copy

I'll tell you this secret in just a few minutes, but right before I do here is another bullshit story...

[–]DrunkOldBear18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

And testimonies! 'I used to be a blue pilled, rambo simp...'

[–]Menchstick7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

What if I told you there's a way to bother girls at Costco no matter your shape, income, height and blood type? I learned the hard way but I want other guys to be able to get all the Costco pussy with this simple trick to spark snaps fingers INSTANT attraction.

[–]1redditthrowaway1478137 points138 points  (7 children) | Copy

Nice work man. Two important takeaways...

1) Never approach from behind. Ever. This is old school game advice. Approaches from the front or the side will yield superior results.

2) When you see mastery, humble yourself, acknowledge it, and endeavor to learn from your better so that you might become better yourself.

This guy paid for 3 months of water, and in return, learned a lesson he can utilize for the rest of his life.

[–]Nado1553 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy

What should I do if i am behind the Girl?

[–]Vlord559931 points32 points  (3 children) | Copy

Run ahead and walk back towards the girl.

[–][deleted]  (2 children) | Copy

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[–]Thorusss12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, she won't see you running. It is all about perceived effort.

Like it seems easy, when you lift her up, because she does not see the years of weight lifting.

[–]zUltimateRedditor241 points242 points  (14 children) | Copy

I swear man, you’re hands down my favorite “influencer” on TRP.

Everyone else just talks about how they are unstoppable juggernauts when it comes to women. You talk about your vulnerabilities, failures and how you OVERCAME them. That is the shit I wanna read about. Asian men overcoming obstacles in America.

I think once the pandemic clears there will be a bit of a cultural shift in the dating landscape, and more women will be open to being approached like this because OLD is super played out at this point.

When masks are finally lifted, this will start working I hope.

I’m sure rejections will happen, but this seems like an interesting tactic to try in a public environment.

Now I just gotta grow the balls to do it.

[–]Endorsed ContributorForeverKarlMalone[S] 79 points80 points  (8 children) | Copy

Thanks bro. In regards to approach anxiety, this is going to sound super unconventional but a lot of it goes away if you can’t see the girl clearly. I mean literally SEE the girl.

Yeah sure you can psych yourself up and eventually work up the courage to approach. But a far easier way is to just intentionally put on blurry vision glasses (or take them off if you have bad vision and are already wearing them lol) before your first few approaches.

Strange as it may seem a lot of that fear goes out the window if you can’t clearly see the environment around you. Can’t see the people who you assume are judging you but in actuality couldn’t give two fucks about you as they go about their own lives.

Then after you’re warmed up from the first several approaches it’s easy to go back to normal vision approaches.

Soon enough you won’t need the blurry vision glasses anymore because you can just approach at will whenever you want with no fear.

[–]zUltimateRedditor16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

So basically removing any visual stimuli that could “impair” your assessment of the situation.

Interesting...

[–]babayega12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

From personal experience I would strongly disagree. I had blurry vision for most of my life and when I got glasses my social skills skyrocketed cause I could make eye contact and much better judge body language (which is like 99% of flirting, the actual words you say don't really matter). Moving to contacts was even better because I did not like how I looked in glasses.

[–]BonjourReturn2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks bro. In regards to approach anxiety, this is going to sound super unconventional but a lot of it goes away if you can’t see the girl clearly. I mean literally SEE the girl.

I second that X)

What we should learn to is salesman stuff as you point out it can be usefull

[–]Shankar_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Interesting tactic, gotta try that

[–]vicious_fate001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That bs, approach anxiety is the result of u hiding your true emotions, which are sexual desire, and natural dominance. You don’t want the bitch to think you want to fuck her so you hide it from her and trying to be friendly, talkative in order to get her attracted indirectly to you, bunch of crap. Learn how to be straightforward with your approach, assumed sexuality and talk to women just to hit on them.

[–]MrAnderzon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This method sure is unconventional.

But how would you know if you got their attention if you’re to blurry to make eye contact

Is not Eye contact needed to establish that initial connection before any words have been said

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[–]zUltimateRedditor2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve often found this works really for me. The less I think about it. The less chance of psyching myself out.

[–]gELSK5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

He's Asian in the USA and pulling this shit off? Goddamn. Next you're going to tell me he's short or something.

Impressive.

[–]zUltimateRedditor4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m south Asian so I vicariously live through his experiences for now.

I relate to it a lot more than GLO or Uncle Vas content. Their stuff gets boring and repetitive. It’s just not relatable.

I literally wait for FKM’s posts. I think he described himself as short in another one of his posts. Not sure.

[–]BIMIMAN29 points30 points  (0 children) | Copy

Brilliant and analytical post, just what TRP was founded on

[–]Jarin0156 points57 points  (6 children) | Copy

Very solid. One thing I have learned is that pickup is sales and sales is pickup. If you really want to get good at picking up women take sales training.

[–]Endorsed ContributorForeverKarlMalone[S] 42 points43 points  (2 children) | Copy

Very true. It’s why you never see a high performing salesman with an ugly girlfriend. It just doesn’t exist lol

[–]tomsmith856-3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy

tbf it could just be because he makes a lot of money

[–]DareyFathom9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Lots of overlap. But the product being sold still matters a lot.

[–]Jarin0126 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

True but a lot of "game" is just knowing how to talk to women without coming off as a creep or a weirdo. For most women, their standards are not nearly as high as they would have you believe. Them going on social media and proclaiming that they wont settle for any man who is under 6'2" and who makes less than six figures is just them virtue signalling.

It's them showing off for their friends saying, "look at me. I am so high value that I don't have to settle." When in reality they would be happy with a decent dude that has a job and doesn't come off as a creep when he talks to her.

[–]DareyFathom8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'd say it's more women being emotionally driven and having artificially inflated egos based on the disposable sexual market rather than signaling. Women don't really know what they want and will take something that rationally violates their "standards" if it makes them feel good at least temporarily.

[–]Thizzlebot55 points56 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is actually solid advice in the sea of shit that is this sub.

[–]FrenCan1616 points17 points  (2 children) | Copy

This will seriously improve my panhandling. Thanks!

Jokes aside, quality post

[–]zUltimateRedditor8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Don’t short yourself.

That was a quality joke as well!

[–]lvxvl2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Such a gentlemanly, supportive comment.

[–]1arakouzo35 points36 points  (7 children) | Copy

This is so simple, and I never would have thought of it. Flagging down a girl with your hands like you're calling a taxi makes it so that her choosing not to stop and to pass by without acknowledging you would be a deliberate act of snubbing you. You turn NOT talking to you into a confrontational act, and women hate confrontation.

[–]Endorsed ContributorForeverKarlMalone[S] 13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

As always, you summed up everything I tried to say way better than I could have said myself.

[–]beachjustice2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

The thing I find off about this approach is whenever someone does this to me, it annoys tf outta me because I know they're trying to push power over me. If a salesman waved at me, held out his hand in a stop sign, and said "Excuse me real quick, I have a question," I'd be instantly annoyed and simply show him the back of my hand and say "Sorry dude." I'd just keep walking.

Maybe I'm just too aware of this power crap. My Dad's a vacuum salesman and I shadowed him for a little bit. All I really took away from it is how disgustingly manipulative it is. However, I'm 28, I've had lots of sex, though with few partners, but I still have never approached a girl and hit on her. I'm intimidated, I don't want to be an asshole, and I don't want to look like a bitch who's just trying to score some pussy.

[–]LeatherBoundWisdom14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Going to try this. We should all be a little more like Dan from Costco.

Great post!

[–]HorvathRed38 points39 points  (1 child) | Copy

This actually sounds pretty smart, and funny / entertaining to perform.

[–]beachbbqlover11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is the first post on sexual strategy that I've read in a LONG time from TRP. Thanks bud.

[–]Huxleys_Island_Dude7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

“oh by the way, you have a creative and artistic vibe. Are you an artist?”

Lol I use a variation of this on art looking bohemian chicks. Golden. Even when they're not artists they are happy/flattered. win win.

[–]jhx2646 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Take my up vote!

COSTCO PARKING LOT lmao good for you

[–]Hitman_Spear_Head6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

So basically you took "control" or the lead with basic body language that is subtle but clear even when they are mindlessly going to their destination or are stuck in their heads. Nice it is amazing to be mindful and in the moment when our attention is turned and even more so when that social pressure fucks with the emotions. Chicks don't want to come off as rude and we can use that at least to open. We know better though don't we? We're just trying to smash LOL. A good conversation is like a miniskirt, it is short enough to trigger interest but also covers up what is underneath. Damn that was good, thanks for sharing.

[–]avenger369_trp10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

Fantastic post. The best ‘approacher’ I know does similar to this without even knowing it. He shouts “YOOOO” with his hand up like you described. In the street, in the club, even in the uni lecture. Gotta day game like black guys man

[–]zUltimateRedditor4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I love the fact that they give zero shits and just do.

If they get rejected they just call her racist and move on 😂

Gotta love it. I wish I had an ounce of that confidence.

[–]IncorrigibleLee864 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Black dudes learn game quickly because black women are only like 5% of the population. After he weeds out the fat, not single, old, ugly etc etc, he's approaching about 1 in 100 to 1 in 200 of the population.

I believe it's also a huge reason why soo many black dudes date interracially. It vastly improves the numbers game.

[–]Longgbottom4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Finally some good fucking insight

[–]shittyfuckdick4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

Won't this only work if the girl is walking toward you?

[–]Thinkingard4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

That’s when you whistle as loud as you can, like one of those finger whistles and you shout “Hey! Hey hey hey hey hey heeeeeeey!”

[–]Vlord55992 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wasa wasa wasa wasa wasssauuupp!!!

[–]lvxvl2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah. If you are behind her just nip at her heels a few times then hard next her.

[–]dingleburry_joe5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro i was just laughing my ass off with you stopping a lady with your hands up making the stop sign like a a God damn hall monitor. I keep thinking about how cheesy it is. Definitely would own that shit

[–]drowsyengine2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good advice and I should add. While you approach do not walk with her ever. Always stand your ground, get in front of her, don’t give her a easy way to slip.

[–]Vynxe-Vainglory2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a good day game approach tactic: Very simple and effective.

Although many people already do something similar, I think it's a great contribution to TRP due to your breakdown of why you think it works and the field report; decently written lead up and accompanying story, too. Well done.

Thanks for posting this.

[–]peacemakerzzz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think daygame is more in demand more than ever now that people don't even know how to properly socialize. Might as well rewrite the script and reframe it as completely normal. There is no point feeling anxious about approaching anyway.

[–]johnnyy450010 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Excellent text. Ignore if the other users say it's beta. I think it's a great alternative to bar/library/mall approach.

[–]Endorsed ContributorForeverKarlMalone[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks bro, appreciate it. You can even use it to supplement your mall approaches since as you probably already know, most of mall game is spent walking around looking for suitable “stationary” girls to approach.

Not anymore! Now, even the hot girls walking quickly from place to place at the mall can be approached in a socially calibrated way!

[–]KANBU811 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

lmao

it's not the salesman approach it's because you are not chasing them from behind like a creep

you are being polite and asking an innocent 'lady in distress' question like “excuse me real quick, I was on my way to the XYZ restaurant it’s supposed to be right here but I can’t find it.”

you don't represent an immediate threat, and you are being charming with your smile or whatever shit girls think about all this stupid body language they love

"... meaning it would be socially weird for me to not stop. " dude, you must train your assholery skills, you just need to say "no thanks, i'm not interested" or "i'm busy right now", "i'm on a hurry" or whatever, and keep walking, salesmen are so accustomed to this that they will leave you walk and try luck on the next guy passing by instead of trying to break a hard rock like you

think about this again, what stops girls on the move of replying these answers to you if they aren't really interested?

by the way i found that talking while holding a "stop sign" with the hand super autistic but if it works for you, go for it

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well, if you imagine it in an autistic way ... I don't think he was going full Pointing and Calling at her. More like an extension of the wave.

[–]KANBU80 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i thought about an indian chief rising his hand and saying "hao" but that pointing and calling shit is clearly THE pussy dryer

[–]PepinoSF4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The trick is good and will work not only in quarantine times

[–]-since4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why does this post get so many votes.

"stick your hand up and insert your day approach"

This is some life pro tips shit tier content

[–]Zech4riah3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

The rare occasions I day game these days, I use my old default tactic and just go "Oh Hi" with a tone of voice and intonation that I know them or remember them from somewhere. They stop pretty much always and is less weird that start doing stop signs.

[–]Endorsed ContributorForeverKarlMalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hmm I already use a similar technique from Jordan Belfort’s training for my phone sales calls.

Very interesting thanks for sharing and will implement as soon as I get the chance

[–]DareyFathom3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy

I'm not able to tell how attractive a girl is wearing a mask. Also, I wouldn't expect most women to be receptive to randos approaching them. Though where I live has been quite strict with lockdown too.

[–]RiskyRewarder1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I fucked the last girl I approached, ymmv

[–]DareyFathom1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Did she wear a mask the entire time you were fucking her? I fucked the last girl I approached in a bar. Of course, that was June the last time the bars were open so yqmv.

[–]RiskyRewarder0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Haha, no, she removed her mask when I started talking to her. It was Dec 26.

[–]Thinkingard0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Reread this again and tell me how strong you think your inner game is.

[–]DareyFathom0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Strong enough to not be a retard thinking environment is inconsequential. In fact, plenty of PUAs will tell you external factors, particularly logistics, are MORE important than your actual game ability.

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[–]amrit21chandi1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Great content. Off topic, any good books/podcasts on sales??

[–]Endorsed ContributorForeverKarlMalone[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Either buy or torrent Jordan Belfort’s straight line persuasion system.

Will teach you the basics of tonality, which is the 80/20 of sales since most communication even over the phone is nonverbal.

How you say something has a far greater impact than what you say

[–]cfbovernfl1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Don't really get the stop hand sign and what it's doing... why not just wave and when they get close by start talking? Anyhow I love cold approaching in the daytime so I'll try this out sometime, cheers.

[–]Pres-Bill-Clinton0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

People have been trained to respond to authority. Waving is friendly, optional. Someone holding up a ✋ is an authority action telling you to stop. Most people will stop.

Years ago, I was broken down on the highway. I tried to wave people down to stop and help, and no one would stop. Finally I tried something different. I pointed at the person and motioned for them to pull over, almost like I was a cop. Sure enough it worked.

Since then I’ve had to use this trick a number of times. My friend had a parking lot nearest sporting event. He was having trouble filling the lot, as his parking lot was not in the best location. I tried my trick and pointed people to pull into the lot, as if I was in authority figure directing traffic. Almost instantly, the lot was filled.

[–]PoliticsOfObedience1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

They Will Stop Every Time

No they won't. The path of least resistance is to ignore you.

What you are describing is a standard thing they teach if you have ever worked for Amnesty International or some shit where they have people on street corners trying to get you to sign up for a monthly donation.

There is psychology behind it and it is a good strategy. That's why they do it. It absolutely will not work every time. I Ignore the fuck out of those people.

[–]5ItsDantesWorld1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a great technique to employ, and I like that you touched on the subject of how there are plenty of hot girls surrounding us in our daily lives.

[–]daniellederek1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Pretty simple, you aren't triggering the fight or flight reaction.

[–]rockyp322 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly not to downplay you I think it’s simple as you weren’t stopping these women when u we’re trying to talk to them. I would never walk after them I would just tell them hey hold up real quick. I think the main thing was u just were probably afraid to assert yourself into doing that ur afriad she may think it’s rude or something like that. I don’t think anything about the technique you did was special you just have to tell them to stop in some socially acceptable way and then talk

[–]justh0nest5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

Didn't need this much to say

  1. Pretend to be lost and ask for directions
  2. Ask for instagram
  3. ????

If anything the real info of value would have been to expand the "blah blah blah" bit. They didn't stop for magic, its because you're not homeless and are pretending to be lost. I'm sure this would work on 100% of guys but that doesn't make me the Cassanova of Buttcheeks.

[–]DareyFathom6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I know most PUAs will excoriate anyone that uses the "asking for directions" line.

[–]zUltimateRedditor2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

“Can you help me find the closest Jamba Juice?”

[–]bigdoobydoo-2 points-1 points  (19 children) | Copy

If you chase pussy this much you'll be a beta always no matter how much "game" you have

[–]Endorsed ContributorForeverKarlMalone[S] 64 points65 points  (10 children) | Copy

I can see where you’re coming from but I respectfully disagree.

Proactive people get results.

Sure it’s far easier to just “not chase pussy” but I guarantee just going to the gym every day is not enough to get laid.

You’re gonna have to approach either on the street or on apps if you actually want results.

There’s no magical non needy fairy coming to grant you pussy if you are simply aloof enough. It doesn’t work that way.

But not approaching sure beats doing the approach when it comes to the path of least resistance...

[–]1InscrutablePUA3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

dude don't engage with these blackpill jokes

[–]IncorrigibleLee860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Women DO NOT LIKE TO MAKE THE APPROACH. it's like kyptonite to them. If they won't do it, you have to be the one doing it.

[–]DareyFathom0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Id argue good night game is by far the best return. Especially if you enjoy nightlife already. But the unwillingness to initiate and pursue women will ruin all but the most elite of men's options.

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Depends on your definition of best return is. In terms of pure numbers I agree. But in terms of quality women probably not.

[–]DareyFathom1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sure. For immediate pulls night game is the best. For attractiveness exclusively id go with night game as well. However, LTR potential you are definitely right it won't be the best candidates.

[–]Rkingpin24 points25 points  (3 children) | Copy

🥱 ok mr im on my mission 24/7 im sure you cant spare a few minutes of your day to cold approach a chick as you went about your daily business. Too busy curing cancer i guess

[–]KingZel110 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

I mean, i didn‘t clicked on this thread for gaming tips lol i‘m gonna try that pitch next time i work again💀

[–]just_sauce2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you read this and the only use you can even consider is for getting pussy, you're probably not getting any in the first place, and because you're never getting any, that's all you can think about.

[–]5baserush1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is sales. People who chase like this make solid six figures. They also slay a ton of tail if applied there as well.

[–]wediditreddit2162140 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fucking awesome post, simple, easy, will try this the next chance I get

[–]trppr0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nicely done.

I believe theres a PUA on youtube with a similar technique using his hands to tell girls to stop.

[–]Lifedrem960 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Great advice, gonna try it

[–]RedUncleCad0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I am a fan of sales techniques. I have learned more from car salesmen then any business school program offers.

I think this one works because of the stop sign. People start the interaction with obidience and actually hear the question and benefits offered

[–]Hitman_Spear_Head0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shit I've been lucky just by shouting at them for what they are wearing. "Hey Boots!" LOL 80% sucess rate. I've been told no one knows where these balls I have came from bahahaha.

[–]hijiggy0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

A variation of this for night game (mostly bars) is when a chick a that’s on the other side of the bar looks in your direction, do a silly wave (make it funny) then if she responds well go up and talk to her.

[–]IncorrigibleLee860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I prefer the lock eyes and make a bee line str8 to her.

[–]IncorrigibleLee860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

OP needs to hang out with some criminals that have mugging down to a science. Physically getting in their way and forcing them to pay attention is kinda important.

[–]OlderRedBrother0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck yeah I love this post! Great insights my man will be sure to incorporate

[–]dynospectrum70 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I can't tell you how many time those people from Save the Children get me to stop for a few seconds before I realize, shite, I already donate once a month smh, it works.

[–]i_the_throwaway_860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wow. The antithesis of the usual “iM tHe AlPhA” shitpost that is useful and clearly not authored by a 20 year old Taco Bell employee full of his own AMOG phaggotry.

Yes, I’ve been on ask for too long.

[–]atrejomtnz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This was brilliant thank man.

[–]Kryptic_Knight0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Was doing this before covid...it's works because most people are indeed lonely, even without a pandemic, many will stop for just about anything. Literally had one girl singing the tin man song from Wizard of Oz with me. (Bitches love broadway) Covid just makes the dumb elevator talk, that much more common. While shes watching the second season of some dumb sitcom, she's also thirsty for penial pleasures.

Don't approach from behind. Wave em down Have a good opener Daygame always....unless you're after nurses, then some night game. Peacock with a cool mask Lotion your hands before you go to bed, bitches love a rough fuck and soft hands smacking their asses and or faces.

[–]usedtimecapsule0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think what you did is made yourself the “attention grabber” instead of just going up to her randomly. This makes them curious.

[–]BurningOrangeHeaven0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I told him that I almost never stop when salespeople approach me.

I think it must happen more often than you think it does?

I am someone who actually never stops to listen to salesmen bullshit and I wouldn't be stopping for this either. Especially not in a store where I go specifically to buy what I want and not waste my time looking around.

Could also have something to do with where ever you are from; I'm from NYC so being polite and letting them finish isn't really as - would required be the right word? - required as it is in other parts of the country.

[–]actuallythink5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

No one thinks you guys are especially hard because you ignore most people around you. We all ignore most people around us. /u/foreverkarlmalone wasn’t lamenting the fact that he stops and gets sucked into sales pitches, he was identifying something that he could use to his advantage in a different context.

He was simply being introspective for his benefit. Try it.

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[–]electricp0ww0w-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

TL:DR - "box them into a corner on the street until they feel you might rape them and they have to talk to you"

[–]vicious_fate000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How about you stop making up stupid excuses to talk to women?? They already know you trying to approach them because you want to fuck them, they don’t want to talk about shitty irrelevant topics, be congruent with yourself and hit on them, ALL THE TIME. That’s how you gonna gain confidence, anxiety will disappear and you’ll get some pussy too.... YOURE WELCOME !

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[–]actuallythink4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Make eye contact and smile more. And maybe don’t walk around like sad, sad, eeyore.

[–]r32_skyline-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Still no clubs, Still no lounges, Still no places you can reliably find hot girls to approach.

What lol -- The street, the park, workplace? do you go shopping? do you buy food? do you drive? do you buy fuel? so do women.

Already have dates lined with with 2 of them

So you have probably two flakes on their way, while every girl you jumped through hoops for would have fucked Tom Hardy within 20 minutes.

[–]I_Luv_Procastinating1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Flakes or not, that's still two #s closed. 2 #s closed in a span of an hour + or whatever. Online game has decent for me lately but even still, 2 numbers in a hour is still higher than the average PUA's conversation rate online, especially considering the higher amount of competition. In addition to this, exercising the daygame muscle is still always good.

As for where to meet them, I'd say high traffic or higher end grocery stores would be a good place to start.

[–]SiliconeGiant-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Drive to the mall"

Are there even still malls around? I feel like they went the way of the roller rink.

[–]fuckoffplsthankyou-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

You think a lot about girls. It's almost like you are giving them power. Who gives a fuck if they are hot or not? There's only two types of girls, the ones who can't wait to try to stuff your dick inside of them sideways and the ones who are looking to use you for shit.

Who gives a fuck about this childish pickup artist shit?



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