Do you let your plates have other guys?

Cancermaxxed · 2020-03-31T01:18:19+00:00

I'm not gonna stop her from doing it, but I make sure that she knows I am gone aswell. It's her choice. Idc what anyone says but the thought of it is disgusting.

Whisper · 2020-03-31T07:42:50+00:00

It's very simple. Don't act butthurt or jealous, but make sure they understand that if they fuck another dude, it's over.

How to do that? Well, treat any intimacy with another dude as her breaking it off. Tell her farewell, tell her it was fun while it lasted, tell her you wish her all the best. Do your absolute best to present the appearance that you mean it... NO sly little backhanded remarks.

If she expresses surprise that you're breaking it off, act confused. No, she is the one who broke it off. By kissing that guy the other night, or giving him her number, or whatever.

If she tells you it's not "fair", because you fuck other women, just shrug and say okay, then you're not a fair guy.

Remember, women look to others to see what is normal, acceptable behaviour. You must act entitled, not "fair".

HurricaneHugues · 2020-03-31T01:44:10+00:00

There is no "letting them do anything". A plate is not exclusive to you. She doesn't owe you jaxkshit, and you have no say on who or how many dudes she's fucking.

If your skin is too thin to take the heat, stay the fuck out of the kitchen.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2020-03-31T01:09:52+00:00

You're not exclusive, she can do what she wants as long as she isn't disrespectful about it(rubbing your face in it, coming from another guy's place, etc).

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-03-31T06:48:29+00:00

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-03-31T01:49:49+00:00

What you dont know cant hurt you. Never ask her about other guys. And also always remind yourself that she's not yours, just as your not hers. She can and will fuck other guys. If you're not comfortable with that then stick with one night stands or actual relationships

Title	Do you let your plates have other guys?
Author	letmereadthatshit
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Date	March 31, 2020 12:55 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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