I like to imagine that most TRP members are socially moderate people.

That is, we can see the irony on both sides of the social spectrum, from the “white knight billy beta blue pill SJW phaggot cuckolds” to the casual racism, sexism, and homophobia of others. Often times these two categories are not mutually exclusive. Anyone can be racist, and, as we are all well aware, anyone can be beta.

Ok. So why the fuck should you care?

TRP is fundamentally a self improvement sub. Many of us came for the women but stayed for everything else this community has to offer. It is a sub that encourages individuality and personal responsibility. We are the best the “manosphere” has to offer. We didn’t become incels, didn’t whine and pout and “go our own way,” and didn’t look for easy shortcuts like pickup lines or BS like that.

We became better men. Physically, mentally, and emotionally. Whether I have 50 plates with a full cutlery set to match or a dick drier than the Sahara desert doesn’t change the fact that I am a better man than I was last year.

We have become the bigger person. The big brother. We don’t let anyone fuck with us and we don’t fuck with anyone. We gently prod those around us in the right direction, with full understanding of their struggles and the pure happenstance that saw us overcome ours.

In this sub we have men from all walks of life. Rich and poor, foreign and American, black and white. All fighting the same battle against impressive odds. And some are winning. Some are so far down this path that RP fundamentals are no longer alien commandments but facts of life so concrete that it has become hard to understand our BP brothers. Where women can no longer be blamed for their choices and the whiny voices of pathetic men that once resonated with us are now repulsive.

So what can be said for those who look down upon and resent others based on meaningless distinctions like race? Or class, sex, politics, economics, you name it. Are these the attitudes of a man in control? Of an individual who will get his no matter what? Or of a weak man, who blames his obesity on his “big bones,” or his lack of sex on women, or his failure in life on depression, anxiety, or any of the other excuses popular in 2021.

We all know those excuses are bullshit because we are all human and have felt that way at some point. We are all fighting the same battles on slightly different battlefields.

Believe me, I understand what it’s like to resent other races. To resent women. To resent people who have it better or people who got it better. To resent the “other”. I get it.

But being a better man means understanding that the game is faulty. The game is fucked up in every way imaginable. But playing it anyways. And winning.

And then we can make a victory lap and try to change the rules a bit.

TLDR

Racism, misogyny, etc. Are beta AF. We all know they’re here. We also all know that it’s not in the message of this sub but in some of its messengers. I understand and won’t judge or condemn those who feel that way but I PERSONALLY BELIEVE that one can find the sweet spot between individuality and humanism.

Thoughts? I wanna hear what you all think