Do these guys not see all the average looking couples who I imagine are having "the sex"?

SmoothPrimal · 2020-04-04T06:36:11+00:00

In college the majority of guys hanging out with girls are not fucking.

The hot girls you see usually have attractive boyfriends who don’t go to the same campus. I know because I used to pick up girls on college campuses and it was easiest thing ever. This is why you usually see the really hot girls don’t associate with the rest of the class that much. They are surrounded by average guys who stalk them and bother the shit out of them. They are cool hanging out but they won’t put out just because you have comms 100 for a semester. They are cool partying with them because when you got school work, you’d take any excuse to not do it.

Also many girls in college wearing skimpy outfits and short shorts are not really that hot, it just seems like it. Take your average 5 foot 3 chunky 21 year old chick put her in the shortest fucking shorts you can find, put her in the lowest goddamn neckline and put 10 pounds of make up on her and you got yourself a pseudo hot chick with enough flap to squeeze out a cleavage. Put her in college surrounded by kids who just got out of their nickelodeon phase and you are damn sure some virgin kid will go through heaven and hell to smash that “hot” piece of ass.

Also, studies have also shown that people always end up with people around the same attractiveness as them. So yeah.

mistresswhat · 2020-04-04T08:49:30+00:00

They desperately need to believe that all these average relationships are in fact miserable partnerships between a guy who's only there for sex and a woman who's only there for stability. If this isn't true, then (1) it means that their personalities are responsible for their dating woes, and also (2) much more catastrophically, they don't get to have revenge fantasies about dirty sluts unable to find anything better than a troll husband who doesn't even like her.

HOLYREGIME · 2020-04-04T07:23:05+00:00

Girls have no reason to have sex with guys they don’t find attractive.

Lol.

Seriously OP I’ll go easy on you. A lot of women are in relationships but don’t think for one second they are genuinely in love with the guy. They do it for their own personal gain. They crave attention, companionship, self worth. A guy with buy them plenty, pay for their meals and all they have to do is give up a little vagina? Deal.

I guarantee you when the next shiny toy strolls by, she won’t hesitate to toss you to the side.

I wont die on the relationship hill though. My biggest gripe is having to dance like a monkey, lower my standards and be lucky, just to have sex. It’s ludicrous to go through all that just to have mediocre sex.

Imagine you want McDonald’s. You have to clean the bathroom, mop the floors, wipe down the tables and pay $20 just for a CHANCE at a Big Mac. Another guy walks in, let’s call him “Chad”. Chad walks in, goes to the counter, grabs the bag and leaves while you’re holding a mop and bucket. You go to the lady at the counter, she inspects the floor and says “you missed a spot”.

Pola_Lita · 2020-04-04T07:27:41+00:00

For those who don't want to change, or even consider that they may be contributing to their own situation, it would be necessary to refuse to acknowledge anyone who's disproving their claims that women are evil and society in general is at fault for allowing it.

GennyX · 2020-04-04T03:48:07+00:00

Great post, OP! I also came upon this sub by surprise, and I don’t have a clue how lots of these people are living their lives, but it ain’t normal.

XtoDoubt · 2020-04-04T05:01:23+00:00

30% of young men didn't have sex in the last year. It's normal. These "lol just be normal" threads need to die.

Deep_Sushi · 2020-04-04T15:09:33+00:00

you can start by not strawmaning

I don't even want this place associated with my main account lol

it getting too hot on r/hotwife or something?

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throwawayluckygirl · 2020-04-04T10:05:09+00:00

In my college women dated men not for sex but free ride, concerts, drugs, dinners and parties.

They often have away sex once in few months and that's it. They didn't offer regular sex that's why guys were dumping them left and right and moving onto next in hopes of finding someone better but.....

ZlayerXZ · 2020-04-04T04:11:47+00:00

You said it yourself, that’s what you do, talk, the discussion isn’t about who women find talkative attractive.

Sepean · 2020-04-04T07:28:09+00:00

They have some sex. Not great sex, not often, she’s not submissive or kinky. The more he gets hooked on the relationship, the less sex they have. Post kids that is very little and she really isn’t into it.

Most people say have a ton of excuses to explain why women don’t like sex as much as men, and how attraction fades over time in relationships, to protect women and the ego of unattractive men. If the majority in relationships was having lots of sex, those ideas wouldn’t be so widespread.

Eastuss · 2020-04-04T07:43:28+00:00

How do these guys come to conclusion that girls only like model level dudes?

Because most women are incapable to assess men's attractiveness. You say they are average? They are average in the pool of datable men. Datable men are around 60% of all men. Average in this pool means you're above 70% of men in term of attractiveness.

Because most men have to seduce women and never the other way around.

Because most actually average men who achieve to be in a relationship in highschool and college are mostly sexless and not having crazy rabbit sex with their girlfriend.

GennyX · 2020-04-04T03:21:38+00:00

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Braincellular · 2020-04-04T04:37:36+00:00

I think those guys would be surprised at how many of those couples aren't actually having sex very much (seriously, r/deadbedrooms is a real phenomenon), this can happen even if you're relatively young.

Also, you're in university, you probably have a good social circle, meet lots of attractive girls, etc. Just because its your experience doesn't make it universal. There could be a lot of other facts at play here that you don't even know about because they are simply outside your own lived experience.

stag33 · 2020-04-04T08:47:17+00:00

I’ve seen some downright ugly dudes do very, very well with women. I’m a bit below average on the looks scale and I’ve never had an issues finding companionship. The people doing a lot of the complaining you mention I place into 2 categories. First, the ones chasing women way out of their league. Socially awkward dudes with low confidence and/or poor hygiene chasing extremely attractive women are going to have issues trying to date them. And when they see their object of affection dating someone equally attractive they assume they only want “hot” guys. Second, bad attitudes. Some decent looking guys don’t do well with attractive (or any) women because they have piss poor attitudes and generally suck to be around.

PierceTheEye · 2020-04-04T06:30:28+00:00

The majority of those men are simply beta providers. It doesn't mean there's genuine sexual attraction. They are simply men who fulfill the provisional needs a woman may have. Multiple needs, multiple men. The true sexual attraction is for the higher level guys these women cheat their partners with. And these are guys who would never commit to a "lower value" woman.

dylang92 · 2020-04-04T12:22:14+00:00

Yeah but the men here don’t care about LTRs, it’s about casual sex which average men can’t get

SSCookieLover · 2020-04-04T10:29:49+00:00

You sir! Im gonna borrow that “dudettes” real quick don’t mind me.

Willow-girl · 2020-04-04T12:41:06+00:00

and well there are some strange people here.

The odds are good, but the goods are odd ...

YoureNotAverageLoser · 2020-04-05T00:08:55+00:00

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eboy4hire · 2020-04-06T06:19:49+00:00

If you're getting with hot girls consistently I don't think you're average. I think there's a happy medium level. Most guys can get laid if they go for fat chicks, but they all want the hottest chicks, and most guys can't get laid by them. You're on the other end of the incel extreme though where you think average guys can get hot chicks. You never know who's banging who.

the-lone-squid · 2020-04-04T11:35:07+00:00

I work with average guys who are married or have gfs. They admit they don't get the sex often.

It's also pretty easy to fuck a chick whos bf/husband is unattractive.

LeJacquelope · 2020-04-04T03:15:35+00:00

Ummm, women settle for average men after coming to the realization that competition for top 20% men is too harsh, or after realizing that top 20% men have too much power and can do them far too wrong. His odds of getting the kind of sex that she'd give Chad is barely better than his odds of being kidnapped by aliens.

fathercheeseballs · 2020-04-04T05:20:23+00:00

Women are getting into relationships with the intentions of just seeing how long they can keep a man around without having sex with them. I've talked to many of women they say this. Sex in relationships isn't as common as it used to be. Women are holding out sex because they know they can keep the man chasing after it for however long they decide. It also explains why birth rates are decreasing and women are having children at a higher age

Innovative_being · 2020-04-05T00:36:13+00:00

The couples you are seeing in the mall and supermarkets consists of a post wall woman who had her fill of dicks from attractive men on the cock carousel. She got older now, these attractive men no longer want her, so she needs someone with financial prospects to bail her out.

The guys you see in those couples were plan B. They are paying full price for used goods. They got a bad deal.

Title	Do these guys not see all the average looking couples who I imagine are having "the sex"?
Author	YoureNotAverageLoser
Upvotes	29
Comments	176
Date	April 3, 2020 9:41 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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