Being overly sexual. I hear stories of guys telling how women send them photos, how they call the to say how horny they feel, then they record themselves and send it to the guys. It means that women want to satisfy that guy and make anything he ever want. Especially that this girl is my LTR

My girl is not like that, she mostly send photos that aren't considered as dirty, zero nudes so far, no videos, never told me how much she wants my dick or good fuck, never how horny she is but usually with " I wish you're here, it would be great if you're here while we're quarantined" etc. not dirty or overly sexual, more like 'love' and not like 'sex'

I'm not certain that she's aware how to please me, eager to do anything and everything. So far I haven't fully verbalised and went full on " Hey, do this or that". Usually I go with plausible deniability or with flirting but this lack of her doing dirty stuff for me is offputting and I don't feel desirable at all. I do lead but I'm not pleased with how she follows

Then I went several times with ignoring or delaying response and attention, any dread thing, because i just shut down from her and feel rejected

Is it good way to verbalise and say what I want and how is going to be? It seems like I haven't set it in stone enough and need to repeat something here and make it more explicit. I think she's either not getting the message with dread(and how could she, I wouldn't either tbh) or she's avoiding that and which will result in me breaking up with her. Maybe my dread is not how is supposed to, and she doesn't get it that it's due to her behaviour

Everything else is so far good and I'm fine but that part is just stupid and I want to change it if I can, if not, good luck

Also with sex talk it seems I'm the one initiating and she follows but lately it's just her agreeing with stuff I said like ' ohh I would like that(my gif on clit masturbation), she has nothing to add it seems. Also I mentioned in my previous post where I tried to play the game with her and she was like ' I'm not that connected/comfortable with you and you know those sexual things are problem to me ' which I call bullshit, but who knows, I'm not experienced to differentiate now.