Plate told me she didn't want anything from me anymore so I left her. She has now reinitiated contact after two weeks. More inside

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April 5, 2020
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Yo guys

It was my birthday last week, plate texts me and texts me saying come stay at my house if you want. I obliged expecting to go round and shag her and make some decent conversation, like we have done before many times.

When I arrived at hers she was very cold and standoffish, I brought 6 beers down and she asked me why I brought them. I was like I'm here to hang out, what did you expect inviting me here.

I was laughing and tried to kiss her, but she maintained her coldness and was just like I don't want anything from you anymore, we can just be friends.

I just got up, gave her a hug and left, then proceeded to block her. I can't tolerate that kind of disrespect being shown to me on my birthday of all days, after she invited me to hang out in the first place

She text me this last night after 2 weeks of silence:

Wow.. I didn't think you'd ignore me like me like this... But I guess you do you. Look best of luck, please keep safe in this mad world right now. That's all I ask.🖤

What should I do here? Should I tell her why I'm ignoring her? Should I just not reply?


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Title Plate told me she didn't want anything from me anymore so I left her. She has now reinitiated contact after two weeks. More inside
Author Diligent-Cold
Upvotes 123
Comments 77
Date 05 April 2020 10:44 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/360416
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/fvbx1c/plate_told_me_she_didnt_want_anything_from_me/
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[–]RahLyt242 points243 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ignore, she knows why you're ignoring her.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. If you respond, your dick will never go in her mouth again.

[–]scottandcoke191 points192 points  (3 children) | Copy

Ignore. You'll gain nothing from responding.

[–]thechaosz8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Kind of text my on again off again ex would send me.

Always led to a text fight (I wasn't redpill then, just discovered).

The only times I got laid after that (when we were never dating again) was basically telling her to fuck right off and ignoring her. A few late nights came after that

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

They really are despicable creatures, aren’t they lol

[–]thechaosz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The best thing about getting older as a you just truly don't give a shit anymore.

As in dealing with the bs. I still obviously work out, keep in shape, improving self and career.

The second I sense any games or crap like this I just walk away.

I mean if they still want to hang, fine but I have no interested in putting a ring on someone and giving away half my s*** in 5 years

[–]BruhMoment45886178 points179 points  (2 children) | Copy

Lol she got upset that you were using her just for sex and she tried to make it look like she rejected you. But you handled that perfectly.

You could reply with a "you too", but you're better off just ignoring her all together.

[–]blackswan2whiteswan27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy

Upvote upvote upvote

[–]-ThePathIsTheGoal-11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

This ^ her power play failed

[–]alphakari70 points71 points  (2 children) | Copy

She acted like a cunt to try and manipulate you towards any number of circumstances she'd be satisfied with. You did the correct thing, and said fuck you're frame, option C, bitch. I'm out.

She doesn't regret what she wanted. She regrets that she went out like a cunt. She wants to feel like she was a good person in the end, and that's what this message is. It's not a claim she'll stop being a cunt. She sent you that for her benefit, and that benefit was she needed a way to quiet the voice inside telling her she's a cunt.

Now she can rest easy in her heart knowing she was a good person because she sent you well wishes.

Just treat it like a broken plate. Idk how she even contacted you if you blocked her.

[–]clickherebaby2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good eye

[–]i-am-the-prize1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Correct. This txt from her was about and for herself. Not for you / about you.

A different kind of txt would have stated:

“Hey. Sorry for being a bitch and inviting you over just to reject you. That was immature and it won’t happen again. I’d like to see you. “

That type of self reflection and Honesty (and willingness to be vulnerable) is rare in most people - and unicorn-like in the average modern woman.

Ergo- based on what she did send: ignore. She isn’t worth your time. And without a apology if you go back (even “just for sex”) you’ve sent the message setting that type of behavior “in-bounds”

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ignore

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (2 children) | Copy

What a cunt honestly. Mad respect for getting up and leaving. Not many would've done the same.

[–][deleted]  (1 child) | Copy

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[–]HurricaneHugues23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

"What should I do here? Should I tell her why I'm ignoring her? Should I just not reply?"

It's over dude. She knows very well why you don't talk to her anymore. It's just another shameless girl acting with no remorse. Her goal is to convince you that YOU are the bad guy for ignoring her, by making you doubt if you should've texted her in the first place. It's obviously working on you.

Ignore her dude. Move on. Delete her number and text thread, and move on. Never get in contact with her again.

[–]DeepC198038 points39 points  (2 children) | Copy

If you blocked her, how are you seeing the text she sent you?

I think you handled it well. Just ignore her, it's just a test. Don't give her any validation.

Just move on to your other plates if you have any, otherwise get more (if you're not quarantined or locked down).

[–]Pimpcool42012 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

She probably switched to a different messaging platform, which is even more desperate.

I have one like that, blocked her on 4 different channels at one point because she was calling my phone constantly when I was with friends.

[–]On_The_Tweek_Again6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. Every time I block a girl, one girl specifically will change to a different texting app multiple times in order to reach me.

[–]SeasonedRP17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't respond. She's trying to keep you around as an orbiter.

[–]Tambamwham14 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy

This is about another guy.

[–][deleted]  (2 children) | Copy

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[–]Tambamwham11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

The way the world works. You will never have a relationship end or see a relationship of the people around you end without somebody wise involved. Her attention is elsewhere now.

Well... it was until the new guy started redirecting his attention

[–]EqualFaithlessness7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Ignore but I’m concerned why you’re even asking. Do you miss her?

[–][deleted]  (1 child) | Copy

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[–]EqualFaithlessness1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah man life goes on with or without plates. Believe it or not. You’ll learn a lot about life without plates. And before you know it, you’ll have 3 new ones out of nowhere.

[–]mrbill12346 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shit test. She lost.

[–]RivenHalf6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bitch is crazy. Do not respond.

[–]Chadster1133 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you stick around expect this shit to happen continuously again and again.

[–]alphabachelor4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Always ignore.

Alexander Grace breaks it down why this is the right move: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HuF4Ie4Zkrs

[–]UltraMKProgram5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Great job, bro. Here's what happened (from her point of view).

You two have been operating as fun, casual friends with benefits. She calls you over and tries to bait you into a more serious dynamic.

So she tells you "I can't do this anymore, let's just be friends." She was EXPECTING you to ask "why? what happened? how can we fix this?"

And she would likely twist it to "you only hang out with me for sex. This isn't going anywhere...." and basically get you to start taking her on dates, hanging out sober, etc.

But you didn't fall for it. You just left with no emotion. And that tore down her self esteem, because she knows if you really cared, you would've tried to fix it.

And because you basically rejected her, she is now attracted to you even more, which is why she is reaching out 2 weeks later. You could keep banging her, but understand these tests will keep coming up in the future.

Honestly, there's no wrong answer for you on ignoring or responding. Sounds like you have your head on straight. As long as you don't fall for her commitment traps you'll be fine*

[–]theUnBannableHulk29 points30 points  (8 children) | Copy

Ignore.

Until she begs and begs.

Then “my place 8 o’clock “

Then fuck her brains out and tell her if she ever pulls this shit again you’ll throw her on her her ass out your door

[–]HurricaneHugues22 points23 points  (6 children) | Copy

Not worth the time and effort. It was his birthday. Have some self respect.

[–]theUnBannableHulk-4 points-3 points  (5 children) | Copy

The correct way to deal with such behaviour is unacceptable to most men who are weak, so we all compromise.

You compromise at an inch, others compromise at an inch and a half. The truth is we all know what NEEDS to be done and can’t do it because (((laws))) 😏

[–][deleted]  (1 child) | Copy

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[–]theUnBannableHulk6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good.

None of these women are unique. Just educate your sons and the Men around you about what women really need. 👍🏻

[–]MardGeer3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

What laws?

[–]bandraboyz-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

That last line 😁. I've always been fond of your comments bro. You have your wisdom.

[–]eddielovett6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nope. Why should he reward her with sex and attention after her blatant disrespect? Doing so would be desperate and shameful.

[–]69odin4203 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

blocking a plate is almost always unnecessary. Just shows that you don't have the restraint to refrain from texting her, which you should be able to easily do without blocking her. Also when girls find out that you blocked them it comes off as over dramatic and can ruin your future chances with the girl.

[–]Senior Contributoradam-l3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's giving herself closure. Nothing for you to do here. Ignore.

[–]second-last-mohican11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

Ignore, she wants attention and/or you to chase her so she can regect you.

Could be a cunt and say, "who's this?" When she replies with her name, re-ghost.

[–]HurricaneHugues8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Waste of time. Just ignore.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Gay

[–]Funtimesonly322 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ignore, or tell her you like fucking her and want to keep fucking her. Dont catch feels which seems like you already have...

[–]IXseed9 points10 points  (4 children) | Copy

Feeler text. She was trying to gain the frame and define the relationship. You didn't let her. She got mad. Now she's trying to do the whole "get you to realize your mistake" game to come crawling back.

If you wanna try and smash again invite her to your spot. Of not, ghost.

[–]HurricaneHugues24 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy

"If you wanna try and smash again invite her to your spot."

You people can't read a situation worth shit. OP just needs to move on.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why?

[–]WolfofAllStreetz7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. Don’t play her games.

[–]IXseed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Gonna leave my OP up and just backtrack. Forgot one MAJOR thing. You're presence is a present. The last thing you wanna do is give presents to women who are bitchy. So yea.

Just ignore dem.

[–]RabbidMan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wouldn't even call it ignoring. If you blocked her that means you're DONE. Move on. Dont entertain these silly games. Remember no reply is more punishing than a negative reply to these crazy thots.

[–]ma-agentz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Drop her the “Thx.” Bomb

[–]Snowboard181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She was trying to gain the power in the relationship or set you in her frame. She expected you to come chasing after her like most guys do, but you have some balls. I’d ignore like others have said.

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[–]georeddit20181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shes probably searching for attention. Keep ignoring her.

[–]IBETITALL4201 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

ignore the cunt what the fuck

it sounds like a giant shit test, but the cunt always has options with so many fucking orbiters in this day and age

move on, NEXT THE CUNT AND LIVE YOUR LIFE, FIND NEW PUSSY TF

[–]nightdecoder2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Old story same shit, sidebar is fucking useless..

[–]vintageBiscuit7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

True, and sometimes shit like this helps to reassure and works as a good reminder to more people.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ignore till she imitates contact again

[–]AuberyBitoni0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What do you mean, what should you do here? Ignore and move on with your life, this bitch is wasting your time.

[–]Phontomz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don’t

[–]huey7640 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ignore

[–]Protocol_Apollo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That was good.

Textbook even.

Reward good behaviour. Punish bad behaviour.

Most men would have sopped it through (on their own bday nonetheless!) and then soft nexted her.

You did the right thing: you realised you weren’t having fun and left right then and there.

[–]SoulRedemption0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ignore

[–]bandraboyz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Stop blocking people. Have a strong frame and control. She will contact you again soon. You'll have the choice to fuck or not.

[–]when_its_too_late0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you ignore then ignore for real not to get something out of her

[–]omega050 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"Wow youre ignoring me now alright stay safe out there"

Fuck you bitch.

Ignore the bitch. She thinks she's taking the high road by sending you that message

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Text back “cum over”

She’ll either say yes and come fuck you, or she’ll say anything else besides yes, and then you can block her for good.

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[–]RaufRumi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I personally don't like to cut people off completely unless they are a net negative to my life. But what you did is ok as well. Either reply "thanks, you too" and end it there, or keep ignoring her. Ignoring her and forgetting about her is more preferable. What ever you do, don't give her the attention she is looking for.

[–]Cvevea30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

who fucking cares bro stop asking ur lame ass questions

[–]wanker7171-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yikes, the oneitis here is strong. If a homeless person sent you this message would you be asking yourself “WHAT DO I DO?!”



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