Anyone else depressed about how badly women are destroyed by social media? (srs)

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April 6, 2020
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this reddit is very good because it teaches men how to combat the modern women. But on the other hand, it's still pretty fucking depressing.

For example, i know a girl, welll i dated her for a bit, super down to earth in real life, caring, nice girl...BUT completely HOOKED on social media. Addicted. Can't get off it. Posting selfies all the time. Hell there's a fucking global crisis going on and she is posting her ass and tits on instagram. Jesus christ women? What is wrong with you? She is 26 as well, so it's not like she's young and silly and get's a pass.

But it's a real shame that some women have become so ruined. I know another girl. Scroll through her insta profile and it's just norma pictures of her at the beach, at the forest nothing crazy then all of a sudden 1 picture at the gym then another and over the years full blown ass pictures.

Like what the hell?

I feel sorry for these women . I fuck em but feel sorry for them. Extremely low self esteem, mixed with a bit of narcissism. And they only get ruined themselves because most of these women aren't relationship material so end up getting pumped and dumped , pumped and dumped, pumped and dumped.

Modern women guys :/


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Title Anyone else depressed about how badly women are destroyed by social media? (srs)
Author cruelpain
Upvotes 127
Comments 133
Date 06 April 2020 11:02 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/361059
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[–]The1ndex172 points173 points  (11 children) | Copy

Just wait until you see the next generation that’s been raised by these sluts.

[–]Blue-Raft73 points74 points  (2 children) | Copy

I dread the idea of raising a daughter in today’s society

[–]hoopingblob27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's...scary and dreadful. I see videos of mothers pushing their kids away just so they can take a picture of their ass.

My gf offered her sister to take her nephew (gf's sister's son) from Africa to Germany and I couldn't believe when I heard her say those words: "yes! Please! He is such a nerve! I don't want to take the responsibility anymore."

And everytime they call she asks her about it. Begging her to take him away. I told my gf her nephew would be better in her hands than in the hands of someone like her sister.

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Believe it or not the pendulum is actually sliding back to the right. We're seeing that play out before our very eyes right now with the rise of "ConservaThots".

Suddenly there's a huge flood of women into political conservatism after trailblazers paved the way making things chic and safe, largely because women follow trends. But if you remember when Obama was still in office these women were largely nowhere to be found 5 years ago.

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[–]bitesizechicken-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not what the app is about but that does make up a sizeable portion of it. Mostly memes and shit.

[–]indridcold914 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy fucking shit, it's going to be awful

[–]PrettyBarbiePerson1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol

[–]SalporinRP-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

If the sluts raised in the facebook age are this stupid imagine the sluts raised in the ADD Tik Tok age will be...

Everything consumed in 15 second bites because no one has the attention span to pay attention for longer.

[–]rprookie-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ohh man.

[–]SIR_SKINNYPENIS6967 points68 points  (21 children) | Copy

Nothing screams insecurity like a woman posting tons of selfies every day on IG.

These women are often quite attractive and nice enough, but they've become hooked on attention and seeking validation and can never ever be faithful.

They are doomed to constantly seek new stimulus and never find what would really make them happy: a strong and stable relationship.

[–]IterMercator12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Addictions are a result of getting dopamine from using something to the point that you want to keep using it.

  2. Social Media knows this and makes their apps as addictive as possible.

  3. When you have a source giving you happiness, validation, and attention, you no longer feel the need to pursuit something else that provides that.

  4. Addictions result in a level of tolerance built up to what they provide e.g In order to reach that same high as you initially started with when you started, you now need more of it. This also provides an issue that natural levels of provided thing can't even reach the new threshold since the addiction increased it so much that natural levels are minuscule (e.g most ex party-drug users tend to have depression after their "wild years" since the drugs they took created such a tolerance to dopamine, their natural levels can't even begin to reach the same level as the drugs provided)

So given these four things, you end up with a situation where women will become addicted to social media apps as per (2), because of (1), and because of (3) women no longer feel the requirement to have a strong relationship , instead artificially supplementing it with social media. Another issue with social media is that (4) happens, so even if a relationship is achieved, it has a fair chance that it will fail since the effects it provides would never reach that of what social media could provide them

[–]cruelpain[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

yes they are empty inside.

[–]jaznex7 points8 points  (8 children) | Copy

why would a strong and stable relationship make her happy?

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[–]jaznex-2 points-1 points  (6 children) | Copy

meaningful? what?

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[–]WhatRemainsAfter-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy

Wtf! You're watching too much Disney dude.

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[–]WhatRemainsAfter-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Does your version of reality includes walking into the sunset filled with rainbows as well?

[–]DerpJungler0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Although this got dragged out of the main topic, I agree with the above posters' rationale, up to a point.

Strong and meaningful relationships are essentially what some women need to get over the addiction and validation-seeking in social media.

Tons of girls are up to posting their butts/faces/stories on social media daily and once they enter a LTR they stop, or wear it down a bit. As soon as they are single again, the mass posting begins until they find the next branch to swing.

Hypergamy presented through online platforms.

[–]cruelpain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

doesn't matter they jsut get bored and will post their ass on isnta even in a relationship

[–]JaevonTheDon1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

they don't attract the right guys either. It's an endless cycle.

[–]cruelpain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

yes that too and then they become "man haters" and post memes about how they can't find a nice man lol

[–]cman94elder0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

They are a lower class of woman (human). Not all men are created equal.

[–]theUnBannableHulk1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Well said

[–]cman94elder4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

The fact women find it hard to comprehend that I am a none hookup kind of guy is funny. I grew up and sought out LTR’s with a brith albeit sudden and forced lapse into the hookup culture mind set in early college. I didn’t like it. This was regardless of how good I looked. I know ugly and good looking guys alike not participate. The fact that certain men are truly LTR men is an enigma to many American high-N women is indicative of the nature of these women. I was approached by women and have had women throw themselves at me.

There are two type of women in this world a.) pump-and-dump, low value women b.) LTR high value women. I know many women in the former category - they act as such. I value the latter. It has nothing to do with chad/betabux. I leas chads and they listen to me. The world isn’t that black and white so STFU lol. I for one was sold and forced into the hook-up-culture when it wasn’t really who I am and that caused me to suffer. The fact women can stack up N-counts akin the my chad friends (who also get escorts once in a blue moon and fucked ugly chicks) to me means they aren’t the type of person I am. It also shows a lack of constraint, self respect and value. I know the type of women I look for exist because they are the type of women that are within my family and are the kin of my best friends.

Women have proven themselves to be more like children than ever before in these last few years.

[–]theUnBannableHulk1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

They were ALWAYS children, civilisation just hid that fact from Men for their own sanity

[–]cman94elder2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

True. That’s why chads treat them like retarded baby girls. Never is the inferiority of woman seen so much than in the pump-and-dump-drunk nature Chads use them. There is a reason Chads don’t fully respect women and a reason women don’t fully respect or like the men who are dumb enough to think anything else of their feeble child like behavior and take on life.

I love the hook up culture because it is putting women back into their place. The best part of it all is they did it to themselves. God is not dead.

[–]theUnBannableHulk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Amen

[–]SalporinRP-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I feel similarly to you. I haven't given up hooking up completely (well I have now because of the virus but you know what I mean), but as of late I honestly prefer to at least connect/have a spark with a girl if I'm going to fuck her on the first/second date.

I say this as someone who from 18-23 fucked my fair share of sorority/club thots. Yeah it was fun, but I honestly don't really find much pleasure anymore in getting a vapid thot with an n-count of 50+ to fuck me.

I'm not even saying I'm an LTR guy now... I'm not. I can't see myself getting into one soon. But I definitely have raised my standards as of late.

[–]RedRiver041563 points64 points  (11 children) | Copy

No, I am not depressed because some 24 year old 5.5 on a good day wants to get validation by posting photoshopped pics on social media. Keep pushing forward with your mission, and don't dabble in that shit.

[–]y0ussefhesham0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's the mindset!

[–]pyth0ns-1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy

what 'depresses' me though, is that 5.5... Is making $1k per jug of bath water, she is selling to her validators...

[–]BKLager0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Not actually true though is it?

[–]RedRiver04152 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

For every 5.5 selling bathwater, there are men like us out there that own our own businesses, are shareholders in companies etc that make more money and don't have to prostitute our dignity out for money.

[–]toughenup20160 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Belle Dolphin is the one who started it. Spell check the name.

[–]pyth0ns-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was fucking around... But there are odd cases here/there where validators spend $$$$$$$$$$ on their 'goddesses', for things like that.

[–]wont_tell_i_refuse_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Most women who sell nudes or feet pics don’t have the discipline to keep up with it. Don’t let a few isolated cases cloud your view

[–]arcanepolar-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

exactly this. stop hanging out withow value women. there are lots of women out there that aren't slaves to social media

[–]TehJimmyy-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

haha nice joke

[–]hrm0894-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

If only it worked that way. That woman will become a single mother, which will be a burden on us taxpayers.

[–]IBETITALL42031 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy

i get depressed that you get depressed for feeling sorry about these fucking cunts

insta got to be the way it has by these validation seeking cunts, tf it's not the other way around

[–]Folknust15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Feeling bad for them is a weakness. Those are their actions. They can destroy their lives who gives a fuck.

[–]omega_dawg935 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

knowing women like i do, i'm sure there are more than a few that are mad that men are paying less attention to them in public bc the men are focused on social distancing and not flirting/approaching.

and i'm ABSOLUTELY sure that there are a multitude of women pissed off at the idea of wearing a mask to cover-up their "beauty" that's enhanced by 2-3 hours of war paint duty and hair styling.

last, i'm sure there are women who'd like to get some of the attention the coronavirus is getting over or instead of women's issues, women's shows, talk shows, etc.

female solipsism >>> coronavirus... and it's not even close.

[–]superomar130 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Lol oh yes, I'm kinda hoping this becomes the new norm for a while just to see how dynamics play out. Women are turning so much more to social media for attention, and tinder for validation, much more than ever before. I wonder what happens to a woman when she doesnt get any validation at all for a year straight

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

no validation for a year straight? lol. most would lose their minds after a week.

women almost lost their collective mind(s) when instagram thought about removing the "like" button which gives them their validation numbers; they NEED to know they're desired at all times.

if women are honest and men are direct enough to tell them, most women are boring as fuck if they're not talking about themselves. they can rarely carry a conversation.

what's happening is that social media is KILLING their ability to interact and talk even more. that's why you see them with their phones stuck to their heads on dates.

do NOT tolerate that bullshit. i've told them directly... put the phone down if you want this date to continue.

[–]superomar130 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

If the world continues down this road, and ends up in the worst case scenario where women are just getting instant validation at all times and hypergamy is maxed out, I'm staying a bachelor until I die. I'll have a few kids, but never want to be with a girl longer than 2 months.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

this all resolves when ALL guys realize that their value to women revolves around them giving attention & validation to women.

in woman's world, attention >>>> dick.

[–]JaevonTheDon5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

yeah my last girl was hooked on social media. Couldn't get off if it. I tried giving her some truth saying social media are weapons of mass distractions and what not. She didn't listen to me. She's so addicted and man oh man these high school girls can't stay off that shit. It's like a drug. So ofc that old girl i cheated on her and now she's out the picture. I hate my fucking generation.

[–]hockeyaddict8711 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women don’t have any hobbies or anything like that anymore😂😂. There life is getting validation from men on there phone

[–]DerpJungler1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Preach.

I've met so many girls that have absolute 0 personality irl. It's not even funny.

Posting the same pictures, same stories etc. and when you ask them what do they are passionate about, they freeze.

[–]mgtowthrowawayman20 points21 points  (14 children) | Copy

It’s only going to get worst too . Instagram makes money off destroying women . Ive read online that they have scientists in a lab decoding and breaking down video games and other apps that are popular among women and little girls and using that data to give women a shot of euphoria with every swipe so it becomes even now addictive. People are going to be checking into rehab in 5+ years watch

[–]IterMercator7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I got downvoted before for making a point that fortnite is already an example of games starting to utilise addiction to make their products more popular (was with kids instead of women but still applies).

There's a lot of things that humanity has had Icarus moments with, particularly with war, but once we realised that anything can be an addiction, we have just discovered our destruction.

[–]kingofclubsmorde6 points7 points  (11 children) | Copy

Source?

[–]Quo21018 points19 points  (9 children) | Copy

Source? It's called social engineering and it has a while going on.

If they want to attack women, they focus on social media.

If they want to slave men, they focus on porn and video games.

Both end up creating mindless servants addicted to what they want.

[–]SalporinRP1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't believe it's some massive conspiracy. I just think corporations are acting in their best interest in terms of creating profit.

[–]SalporinRP1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's just common sense. Apps/video games that operate as services need to keep you addicted so they design the game mechanics around stringing you along.

Why do you think fortnite is so cartoonish and the colors are so bright?

Why do you think all of these games have lootboxes that open in a really satisfying way?

Because in the internet age attention is currency.

[–]cruelpain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

WTF

[–]DaftOdyssey3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

All of these girls have no passion. Have no heart. All there could have been is filled with what broke her. They're not worth my time.

[–]BruhMoment458863 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I hate girls my age honestly. 90% of them are narcissistic children.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Before we begin to disavow females and their use of social media, lets remember that those who actually partake in social media posts etc are 10% or less of users. The rest are lurkers and the other majority don't use it frequently.

That said. You will not change female nature. TRP has a lot of info on the anger phase and the nihilism related to females and their hypergamy and solipsism.

[–]absolutelynp0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

TRP has a lot of info on the anger phase

give some examples please

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sidebar. The red pill sub.

[–]absolutelynp-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

bro I read it all already, some things multiple times. I cant reacall anything about info for the anger phase. Its alright, dont bother looking for it if you havent it at hand.

[–]JaevonTheDon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

One quote that i saw before has stuck with me and this is like everything that's free. "If you don't have to pay for the product, it means you are the product"

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[–]BruhMoment458862 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Criticizes women at all "INCEL"

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[–]BruhMoment458860 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I agree it's not healthy. I try to see society from a observational pov and not get emotional about it. I cant really be be happy about Thots though.

[–]Iluvalmonds836 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Glad someone posted this.

[–]cman94elder0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

I am not an incel. I just know it is true.,

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[–]cman94elder4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

So true lol. I am not depressed. I dont have instagram

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[–]cman94elder0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hahaha

[–]tenrag3899-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yup. It's become garbage.

[–]absolutelynp4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

see them for what they are and what the situation is, society is fucked, we allowed that "they" fucked everyones mind. spin plates, so you dont have to take anyone of them seriously or care at all.

I made ths decision very recently after a gilr I got involved with turned out to be a hoe like every other chick. She was from a strong church background and very kind. I told her I have no problem with casual sex and that Im very cool about it, told her about some of my ex'es. An then she told me stories from the cock carousel and that was the last straw for me. AWALT brother, not worth anything.

Also dont feel sorry, when they cant see the reality there is nothing you can do. I wasted years thinking about this and hoping for a better future in terms of this. You are in this game for you and you need to work on making you happy. The sooner you realize that the better.

[–]cman94elder0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

How many guys has she been with?

[–]absolutelynp0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

I didnt ask the exact number, I act unfazed and uninterested in this topic. Its also not relevant actually, its the fact that I was expecting something completely different when getting to know her at first. I know women who have a sexual partners to statisfy her needs when not in a realitionship or have to ocassional one night stand, not a problem for me. But the stories she told and how she told them were text book cock carousel as you would imagine it. And when you see her, you wouldnt excpect it at all, especially not when you hear how she grew up.

Or she lied to just appear like she did some crazy things. In her situation also possible.

Take this from my "mysery": Ill do this with all women from now one: Ill be like caual sex is just sex and its totally fine, tell a few of my stories and with any luck, she'll show her real face. Or she doesn't.

Anyway, since you actually never know anything, spin plates and dont care for them until some miracle happens or something.

[–]seefromabove0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

What were the stories?

[–]absolutelynp1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

why are you people interesetd in this lol. one was she was picked up in a bar, her wording there was so disgusting in german. another was soemthing with fucking on balcony, fucking with this and that guy, hairy, huge, small, skinny, young..."you have to try everthing". but I dont care really or lets say care much much less than I used to. I began to spin plates recently. dont know how many times I wrote that today.

[–]seefromabove0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

why are you people interesetd in this lol.

Not because of morbid curiosity. We want to know how typical our experiences are.

For instance, one woman once told me that she would be aroused by a dirty smelling homeless dude.

[–]absolutelynp0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

just a little update here, she told me the other day she slept with 4 guys in parallel when she was abroad and lied to all of them about it. maybe I should even drop her as a plate, its kinda disappointing...yeah yeah oneitis, i know

[–]seefromabove0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

FB only. Especially if she lies about it. Does she use condoms with you?

[–]caddydz5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

if(depressed) { self::pill = "blue"}

[–]axiscontra1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I actually dgaf, I don't participate. Every adult is held accountable by the same rules of life. They chose their position.

[–]Purplegetraenk1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t want a daughter for this exact reason.

[–]GoshThisIsGay1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree 1000% percent. Women who are obsessed and controlled by social media are just so unattractive. Constantly craving attention, likes, and reassurance from usually complete strangers is so unhealthy. My little sister, although much younger has the same problem and its destroying her mental health.

[–]AuberyBitoni1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haven't met a women yet who isn't addicted to social media in my age range (18-25).

[–]superomar131 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ok, lets just think about this for a minute. Your perception colors your reality. There are 3 billion + women in the world. Somewhere around 1.5 billion women are between 18 and 30. There are 560 million girls with an account on Instagram. Lets say half of them post regularly. 280 million active girls on Instagram. Lets say 75% of those are between 18 and 30. Roughly 200 million 18-30 year old girls post regularly on Instagram out of 1.5 billion women 18-30. That's about 14% of all women in the world between 18 and 30. Obviously rough statistics but yeah.

Let's throw some others out there.

The chance of meeting a girl in a club or high end bar that is hot and active on Instagram is like 80-90%.

The chance of meeting a girl anywhere else during the day that is active on Instagram is about 14%. Obviously this fluctuates depending on location (ie city, country, etc) but NOT by much.

Bigger cities always have more girls hooked on social media than smaller town girls, due to validation being 10x easier.

This is WHY, I have lived by these screening criteria for the past 4 years and will never consider a girl to be anything more than an FB if they don't meet all 4 at the very least:

  1. Not hooked on social media.
  2. Does not party/ never partied hard in her past. I don't mind a girls night out at her friends place, but not going out to bars/clubs. And I know she won't be lying about her friends place because she doesn't party in the first place.
  3. Comes from a smaller town rather than a big city, or just moved from to a big city from a small town and is really new. Suburbs are fine too, just never lived in the city (of 1 million people+).
  4. Never had tinder or bumble. (60 mil users on tinder, 22 mil users on bumble. 30 mil female on tinder, 13 mil female on bumble. 5 mil on bumble also have tinder. Total of 38 mil females around the world on a dating app. Taking out lesbians/ older than 30, lets say 35 mil of (18-30) girls use tinder, 2.5 % of the worlds female population in the same age range) Also girls who use tinder, half of them are guaranteed hooked on social media.

Those four criteria are huge for me, among a few others.

But just including #1 and #4, roughly 84 % of girls between 18-30 in the world ARE NOT HOOKED ON SOCIAL MEDIA OR ON DATING APPS. Lets say 80% to be conservative. Want to change your perception of thinking culture has ruined women? Look in the right places for LTR material women. Day game, coffee shops, libraries, the street. Screen, screen hard.

(I want to add in, I don't mind if a girl has social media. I don't go for girls that post any sort of attention seeking pics/video on social media. Every girl wants attention, but to varying degrees. I go for girls that usually get their attention filled from an SO, their friends, and family, and not much more.)

Since I was 18, I've been LTR-ing women (when I'm not enjoying the single life) that fit these specific criteria at the very least. Because of this, I love women. My relationships have been valuable, lesson teaching, incredible relationships with amazing women. Don't risk your heart for mediocre women, don't get into LTR's simply because she's really hot. Look for depth and screen. My exes were bangin hot, and fit my criteria. And they're not hard to find, trust me. You just gotta look in the right places. And they're certainly NOT "all modern women"

[–]thrwy754791 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

i know a girl, welll i dated her for a bit, super down to earth in real life, caring, nice girl...BUT completely HOOKED on social media. Addicted. Can't get off it. Posting selfies all the time.

I know another girl. Scroll through her insta profile and it's just norma pictures of her at the beach, at the forest nothing crazy then all of a sudden 1 picture at the gym then another and over the years full blown ass pictures.

How would you know these things?

Anyone else depressed about how badly women are destroyed by social media? (srs)

Maybe you'd feel better if you weren't on social media.

[–]momomotorboat1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It is sad af. If you have the capacity to give a shit about people, you'll eventually feel sad for them. I live in Los Angeles, where the city lights and Hollywood vibes take it to ridiculous levels.

I was crushing on this girl - israeli beauty, ass like wow, perky tits, double majored in psych and neurobiology at UC Berkeley. Could do anything she wanted.

Decided she wanted to be a DJ here in LA. Within 18 months her face is unrecognizable from all the procedures she's had done, and her body the same. She wears outfits that make her look like a thot.

She was one of those unique beauties, too. Had a whole look other women coveted, everyone would check her out. Compared her self to the gram, decided she wasn't good enough and wanted to "upgrade". Sucks. No longer crushing on her ass.

[–]RobbyHagan3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

They need guidance. It isn't their fault. Social media is absolutely designed for women to get addicted to it, and with the lack of real men out there today, nobody is teaching them how to navigate their lives.

Masculinity leads, but we live in feminine times. Basically, it's a bunch of ships going in circles and/or crashing into the rocks.

It is our jobs as men to guide these women, but first, most of you need to learn how to be men.

[–]nordicpolarbear0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Yes. I don’t let my kids on social media. I wonder when there will be people that break off from society and demand certain technology rules of their group. Like no posting pictures of yourself online, no instagram, no Snapchat etc. kind of like the Amish I guess.

[–]David-Yonnas1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is the way to do it.

[–]nordicpolarbear0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes the question is how do you get it going without turning into a cult. I like some things the Amish do but not others. I like how they think about the pros/cons of a new technology before they will integrate it into their society. They don’t let it take over their lives and seem fiercely independent of it if necessary.

[–]Quo2102 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can't control what others do.

There's no logic in feeling bad about the bad decisions others take. Just be thankful fewer are humans left because they kill themselves metaphorically or literally and that lets you climb everywhere with more ease.

[–]Unfallen_Bulbitian0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not really, since I'm not a woman...

[–]imtheoneimmortal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nope because i dont give so many fucks

[–]when_its_too_late0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Smash n dash who cares

[–]Andrew543210 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why the fuck does the way you feel depend on an outside circumstance?

Because you’re a BETA that’s why.

[–]laserdicks0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I was, but now I'm more worried about how they're being weaponized.

[–]David-Yonnas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Females have an innate desire for frequent attention/praise/validation and that includes sexual validation. They want to feel beautiful and sexually desired.

In the modern world, the validation that they would formerly have received solely from their husbands is being somewhat replaced. They receive that same dopamine rush x 1000 from posting selfies for hoards of guys on demand who are all too willing to oblige in exchange for a 1/1,000,000 chance of getting lucky.

[–]alphabetasquare0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Focus on yourself. Everything else even random commentary is waste of your time. The idea of red pill is to unplug from the matrix and learn how to game the system for you advantage.

[–]PrettyBarbiePerson0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We need better fathers

[–]Conspera0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's likely because she has no purpose in her life. I've swiped through Tinder and the level of shallowness is everywhere... But the most important thing is to acknowledge it and then move on with your life.

[–]zazzomicron0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think you're right. A lot of men in here project these issues on to the women themselves but some compassion is in order. Nobody chooses to be an addict and this is a very serious issue affecting all of us. As a man who has been dating 25-30yr olds for 15 years I have seen this unfold and it's only really been since that piece of SHIT instagram came out that shit has really hit the proverbial fan.

I don't know what the solution to this problem is but I'm pretty damn sure game isn't it. There are many awesome women out there that aren't addicted to this trash but in order to find them you're going to have to wade through a lot of lost causes. Where we get f-ed up is when shes's too hot to say no to. That's on you, bud. No amount of game is going to change a woman with shitty values..

[–]asskisser0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Can we really blame women though? It’s the armies of simply men making the existence and elevation of these women possible. THIS is what WE like. What men like, women have always responded to that. Its just on steroids, so how does one solve this?

[–]Fusionnn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why do you even care?

[–]StolenSpirit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Gen Z is worse. The Tiktok cancer is horrible, all they do is mindlessly scroll all day long.

[–]Monitorul0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Can you pm me their instas? Let's see some ass

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

  • Denial

  • Anger

  • Bargaining

  • Depression <------- You are here

  • Acceptance

The reality is that both men AND women have become corrupted by social media and the internet. Women are just able to monetize/capitalize on their looks online moreso than men which gets men angry/envious. Do you find yourself getting as upset about how many guys spend 7 hours a day playing video games and watching porn?

[–]hedden930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

With my business, I've done promotional work with some female influencers and the lack of integrity and professionalism is astonishing. They know they can get away with it though so they don't give a fuck.

To be fair, a couple of them were really cool but most were narcissistic, rude and almost always late (if they showed up at all)

[–]Scarytomato20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Global pandemic going on but you're still stalking and obsessing over the ex you Constantly back stab and harrass. How desperate and lonely can you be?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

No I’m to busy fucking them to care. Go lift bro

[–]Sketch1234562 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

people cant have meaningful discussions on a broad range of topics? K.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Shits not meaningful, ur wasting ur time crying over shit we can’t change

[–]Sketch1234561 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

It's not about changing it, it's about having a discussion on the subject. So many of the people on this subreddit have the classic cookie cutter approach to everything. "Go lift bro" because that's supposed to be the 'alpha' thing to say and that's what the sidebar told you.

Gyms are closed dude. Take 2 extra seconds and contribute something to the discussion or see yourself out without adding nonsense to this discussion.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women talk. Men lift. Stfu and go lift bro.

[–]Sketch1234560 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I've been lifting longer than you my friend. says the guy needing constant re-assurance and validation from this subreddit.

[–]FinancialThanks1-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Go to a therapist

[–]hrm0894-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Therapy is for fags and women.

[–]Poobear80 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Must have had a lot of sessions then. Good on ya.

[–]cman94elder-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

It is true. I thought I was the only one who noticed this. Certain women can’t recover imo after serial pump-and-dumping.

[–]brennyflocko-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

You sound like a huge baby bro why do you care so much about some girls posting on Instagram ? If you had a mission of your own you wouldn’t be doing this pathetic whining



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