Anyone else depressed about how badly women are destroyed by social media? (srs)

The1ndex · 2020-04-06T11:33:22+00:00

Just wait until you see the next generation that’s been raised by these sluts.

SIR_SKINNYPENIS69 · 2020-04-06T12:06:29+00:00

Nothing screams insecurity like a woman posting tons of selfies every day on IG.

These women are often quite attractive and nice enough, but they've become hooked on attention and seeking validation and can never ever be faithful.

They are doomed to constantly seek new stimulus and never find what would really make them happy: a strong and stable relationship.

RedRiver0415 · 2020-04-06T13:32:49+00:00

No, I am not depressed because some 24 year old 5.5 on a good day wants to get validation by posting photoshopped pics on social media. Keep pushing forward with your mission, and don't dabble in that shit.

IBETITALL420 · 2020-04-06T12:31:22+00:00

i get depressed that you get depressed for feeling sorry about these fucking cunts

insta got to be the way it has by these validation seeking cunts, tf it's not the other way around

Folknust · 2020-04-06T14:06:17+00:00

Feeling bad for them is a weakness. Those are their actions. They can destroy their lives who gives a fuck.

omega_dawg93 · 2020-04-06T13:52:28+00:00

knowing women like i do, i'm sure there are more than a few that are mad that men are paying less attention to them in public bc the men are focused on social distancing and not flirting/approaching.

and i'm ABSOLUTELY sure that there are a multitude of women pissed off at the idea of wearing a mask to cover-up their "beauty" that's enhanced by 2-3 hours of war paint duty and hair styling.

last, i'm sure there are women who'd like to get some of the attention the coronavirus is getting over or instead of women's issues, women's shows, talk shows, etc.

female solipsism >>> coronavirus... and it's not even close.

JaevonTheDon · 2020-04-06T14:36:40+00:00

yeah my last girl was hooked on social media. Couldn't get off if it. I tried giving her some truth saying social media are weapons of mass distractions and what not. She didn't listen to me. She's so addicted and man oh man these high school girls can't stay off that shit. It's like a drug. So ofc that old girl i cheated on her and now she's out the picture. I hate my fucking generation.

hockeyaddict87 · 2020-04-06T14:18:47+00:00

Women don’t have any hobbies or anything like that anymore😂😂. There life is getting validation from men on there phone

mgtowthrowawayman · 2020-04-06T11:59:13+00:00

It’s only going to get worst too . Instagram makes money off destroying women . Ive read online that they have scientists in a lab decoding and breaking down video games and other apps that are popular among women and little girls and using that data to give women a shot of euphoria with every swipe so it becomes even now addictive. People are going to be checking into rehab in 5+ years watch

DaftOdyssey · 2020-04-06T14:18:59+00:00

All of these girls have no passion. Have no heart. All there could have been is filled with what broke her. They're not worth my time.

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-04-06T15:55:39+00:00

I hate girls my age honestly. 90% of them are narcissistic children.

absolutelynp · 2020-04-06T13:38:09+00:00

Before we begin to disavow females and their use of social media, lets remember that those who actually partake in social media posts etc are 10% or less of users. The rest are lurkers and the other majority don't use it frequently.

That said. You will not change female nature. TRP has a lot of info on the anger phase and the nihilism related to females and their hypergamy and solipsism.

JaevonTheDon · 2020-04-06T14:51:49+00:00

One quote that i saw before has stuck with me and this is like everything that's free. "If you don't have to pay for the product, it means you are the product"

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-04-06T12:33:53+00:00

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absolutelynp · 2020-04-06T12:32:35+00:00

see them for what they are and what the situation is, society is fucked, we allowed that "they" fucked everyones mind. spin plates, so you dont have to take anyone of them seriously or care at all.

I made ths decision very recently after a gilr I got involved with turned out to be a hoe like every other chick. She was from a strong church background and very kind. I told her I have no problem with casual sex and that Im very cool about it, told her about some of my ex'es. An then she told me stories from the cock carousel and that was the last straw for me. AWALT brother, not worth anything.

Also dont feel sorry, when they cant see the reality there is nothing you can do. I wasted years thinking about this and hoping for a better future in terms of this. You are in this game for you and you need to work on making you happy. The sooner you realize that the better.

caddydz · 2020-04-06T13:20:12+00:00

if(depressed) { self::pill = "blue"}

axiscontra · 2020-04-06T13:44:34+00:00

I actually dgaf, I don't participate. Every adult is held accountable by the same rules of life. They chose their position.

Purplegetraenk · 2020-04-06T14:23:35+00:00

I don’t want a daughter for this exact reason.

GoshThisIsGay · 2020-04-06T14:36:12+00:00

I agree 1000% percent. Women who are obsessed and controlled by social media are just so unattractive. Constantly craving attention, likes, and reassurance from usually complete strangers is so unhealthy. My little sister, although much younger has the same problem and its destroying her mental health.

AuberyBitoni · 2020-04-06T15:18:12+00:00

Haven't met a women yet who isn't addicted to social media in my age range (18-25).

superomar13 · 2020-04-06T16:34:32+00:00

Ok, lets just think about this for a minute. Your perception colors your reality. There are 3 billion + women in the world. Somewhere around 1.5 billion women are between 18 and 30. There are 560 million girls with an account on Instagram. Lets say half of them post regularly. 280 million active girls on Instagram. Lets say 75% of those are between 18 and 30. Roughly 200 million 18-30 year old girls post regularly on Instagram out of 1.5 billion women 18-30. That's about 14% of all women in the world between 18 and 30. Obviously rough statistics but yeah.

Let's throw some others out there.

The chance of meeting a girl in a club or high end bar that is hot and active on Instagram is like 80-90%.

The chance of meeting a girl anywhere else during the day that is active on Instagram is about 14%. Obviously this fluctuates depending on location (ie city, country, etc) but NOT by much.

Bigger cities always have more girls hooked on social media than smaller town girls, due to validation being 10x easier.

This is WHY, I have lived by these screening criteria for the past 4 years and will never consider a girl to be anything more than an FB if they don't meet all 4 at the very least:

Not hooked on social media.
Does not party/ never partied hard in her past. I don't mind a girls night out at her friends place, but not going out to bars/clubs. And I know she won't be lying about her friends place because she doesn't party in the first place.
Comes from a smaller town rather than a big city, or just moved from to a big city from a small town and is really new. Suburbs are fine too, just never lived in the city (of 1 million people+).
Never had tinder or bumble. (60 mil users on tinder, 22 mil users on bumble. 30 mil female on tinder, 13 mil female on bumble. 5 mil on bumble also have tinder. Total of 38 mil females around the world on a dating app. Taking out lesbians/ older than 30, lets say 35 mil of (18-30) girls use tinder, 2.5 % of the worlds female population in the same age range) Also girls who use tinder, half of them are guaranteed hooked on social media.

Those four criteria are huge for me, among a few others.

But just including #1 and #4, roughly 84 % of girls between 18-30 in the world ARE NOT HOOKED ON SOCIAL MEDIA OR ON DATING APPS. Lets say 80% to be conservative. Want to change your perception of thinking culture has ruined women? Look in the right places for LTR material women. Day game, coffee shops, libraries, the street. Screen, screen hard.

(I want to add in, I don't mind if a girl has social media. I don't go for girls that post any sort of attention seeking pics/video on social media. Every girl wants attention, but to varying degrees. I go for girls that usually get their attention filled from an SO, their friends, and family, and not much more.)

Since I was 18, I've been LTR-ing women (when I'm not enjoying the single life) that fit these specific criteria at the very least. Because of this, I love women. My relationships have been valuable, lesson teaching, incredible relationships with amazing women. Don't risk your heart for mediocre women, don't get into LTR's simply because she's really hot. Look for depth and screen. My exes were bangin hot, and fit my criteria. And they're not hard to find, trust me. You just gotta look in the right places. And they're certainly NOT "all modern women"

thrwy75479 · 2020-04-06T17:01:58+00:00

i know a girl, welll i dated her for a bit, super down to earth in real life, caring, nice girl...BUT completely HOOKED on social media. Addicted. Can't get off it. Posting selfies all the time.

I know another girl. Scroll through her insta profile and it's just norma pictures of her at the beach, at the forest nothing crazy then all of a sudden 1 picture at the gym then another and over the years full blown ass pictures.

How would you know these things?

Anyone else depressed about how badly women are destroyed by social media? (srs)

Maybe you'd feel better if you weren't on social media.

momomotorboat · 2020-04-06T17:42:46+00:00

It is sad af. If you have the capacity to give a shit about people, you'll eventually feel sad for them. I live in Los Angeles, where the city lights and Hollywood vibes take it to ridiculous levels.

I was crushing on this girl - israeli beauty, ass like wow, perky tits, double majored in psych and neurobiology at UC Berkeley. Could do anything she wanted.

Decided she wanted to be a DJ here in LA. Within 18 months her face is unrecognizable from all the procedures she's had done, and her body the same. She wears outfits that make her look like a thot.

She was one of those unique beauties, too. Had a whole look other women coveted, everyone would check her out. Compared her self to the gram, decided she wasn't good enough and wanted to "upgrade". Sucks. No longer crushing on her ass.

RobbyHagan · 2020-04-06T12:37:13+00:00

They need guidance. It isn't their fault. Social media is absolutely designed for women to get addicted to it, and with the lack of real men out there today, nobody is teaching them how to navigate their lives.

Masculinity leads, but we live in feminine times. Basically, it's a bunch of ships going in circles and/or crashing into the rocks.

It is our jobs as men to guide these women, but first, most of you need to learn how to be men.

Quo210 · 2020-04-06T12:46:31+00:00

You can't control what others do.

There's no logic in feeling bad about the bad decisions others take. Just be thankful fewer are humans left because they kill themselves metaphorically or literally and that lets you climb everywhere with more ease.

Unfallen_Bulbitian · 2020-04-06T13:21:06+00:00

Not really, since I'm not a woman...

imtheoneimmortal · 2020-04-06T13:28:13+00:00

Nope because i dont give so many fucks

when_its_too_late · 2020-04-06T13:55:51+00:00

Smash n dash who cares

Andrew54321 · 2020-04-06T14:48:20+00:00

Why the fuck does the way you feel depend on an outside circumstance?

Because you’re a BETA that’s why.

laserdicks · 2020-04-06T15:45:33+00:00

I was, but now I'm more worried about how they're being weaponized.

David-Yonnas · 2020-04-06T15:58:18+00:00

Females have an innate desire for frequent attention/praise/validation and that includes sexual validation. They want to feel beautiful and sexually desired.

In the modern world, the validation that they would formerly have received solely from their husbands is being somewhat replaced. They receive that same dopamine rush x 1000 from posting selfies for hoards of guys on demand who are all too willing to oblige in exchange for a 1/1,000,000 chance of getting lucky.

alphabetasquare · 2020-04-06T16:06:28+00:00

Focus on yourself. Everything else even random commentary is waste of your time. The idea of red pill is to unplug from the matrix and learn how to game the system for you advantage.

PrettyBarbiePerson · 2020-04-06T16:30:49+00:00

We need better fathers

Conspera · 2020-04-06T16:33:01+00:00

It's likely because she has no purpose in her life. I've swiped through Tinder and the level of shallowness is everywhere... But the most important thing is to acknowledge it and then move on with your life.

zazzomicron · 2020-04-06T16:37:14+00:00

I think you're right. A lot of men in here project these issues on to the women themselves but some compassion is in order. Nobody chooses to be an addict and this is a very serious issue affecting all of us. As a man who has been dating 25-30yr olds for 15 years I have seen this unfold and it's only really been since that piece of SHIT instagram came out that shit has really hit the proverbial fan.

I don't know what the solution to this problem is but I'm pretty damn sure game isn't it. There are many awesome women out there that aren't addicted to this trash but in order to find them you're going to have to wade through a lot of lost causes. Where we get f-ed up is when shes's too hot to say no to. That's on you, bud. No amount of game is going to change a woman with shitty values..

asskisser · 2020-04-06T16:40:35+00:00

Can we really blame women though? It’s the armies of simply men making the existence and elevation of these women possible. THIS is what WE like. What men like, women have always responded to that. Its just on steroids, so how does one solve this?

Fusionnn · 2020-04-06T16:58:08+00:00

Why do you even care?

StolenSpirit · 2020-04-06T17:16:21+00:00

Gen Z is worse. The Tiktok cancer is horrible, all they do is mindlessly scroll all day long.

Monitorul · 2020-04-06T17:29:32+00:00

Can you pm me their instas? Let's see some ass

SalporinRP · 2020-04-06T18:01:36+00:00

Denial
Anger
Bargaining
Depression <------- You are here
Acceptance

The reality is that both men AND women have become corrupted by social media and the internet. Women are just able to monetize/capitalize on their looks online moreso than men which gets men angry/envious. Do you find yourself getting as upset about how many guys spend 7 hours a day playing video games and watching porn?

hedden93 · 2020-04-06T18:16:04+00:00

With my business, I've done promotional work with some female influencers and the lack of integrity and professionalism is astonishing. They know they can get away with it though so they don't give a fuck.

To be fair, a couple of them were really cool but most were narcissistic, rude and almost always late (if they showed up at all)

Scarytomato2 · 2020-04-06T23:50:09+00:00

Global pandemic going on but you're still stalking and obsessing over the ex you Constantly back stab and harrass. How desperate and lonely can you be?

Sketch123456 · 2020-04-06T14:14:56+00:00

No I’m to busy fucking them to care. Go lift bro

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-04-06T11:53:55+00:00

Go to a therapist

cman94elder · 2020-04-06T13:05:51+00:00

It is true. I thought I was the only one who noticed this. Certain women can’t recover imo after serial pump-and-dumping.

brennyflocko · 2020-04-06T14:41:57+00:00

You sound like a huge baby bro why do you care so much about some girls posting on Instagram ? If you had a mission of your own you wouldn’t be doing this pathetic whining

Title	Anyone else depressed about how badly women are destroyed by social media? (srs)
Author	cruelpain
Upvotes	127
Comments	133
Date	06 April 2020 11:02 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	askTRP
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