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Anyone ever told a plate that you’re sexually possessive? Or that you don’t like the idea of them fucking other guys?

by scissor_me_timbers00 | March 26, 2020 | askTRP


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Tinder hookup girl, HB 7-8. We have really good sexual chemistry. She really loves my dick and body. We fucked 3 times, each time for about 2.5 hours. I make her squirt more than she ever has before, just soak the sheets. Make her cum, sometimes multiple times. We go raw dog, I cum inside her, it’s like a porno. Anyway I haven’t heard from her in last 10 days or so. I told her last time we fucked while I was balls deep in her that I was sexually possessive and didn’t like the idea of her fucking other guys. Told her I wouldn’t try to tie her down or make any “rules” but I didn’t like it. I’m thinking that may have turned her distant. Probably fucked up here. Not a huge loss but she was a good lay with a perfect athletic ass. And again we had great sexual chemistry. She responded promptly to a few texts the next day after that fuck. So she isn’t ghosting. But I thought I would get fellow red pillers perspective on it. I didn’t think it was needy to say, but maybe female calibration to male missteps or the slightest hints of premature attachment are so delicate that you can turn them off without thinking it was a big deal.

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Title Anyone ever told a plate that you’re sexually possessive? Or that you don’t like the idea of them fucking other guys?
Author scissor_me_timbers00
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Comments 18
Date 26 March 2020 05:52 AM UTC (3 months ago)
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[–]wanker71715 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Told her I wouldn’t try to tie her down or make any “rules” but I didn’t like it.

mate guarding is inherently needy, she should be the one mate guarding YOU

[–]scissor_me_timbers00[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I understand but that’s why I included when I told her that I wasn’t gonna tie her down or make any rules for her

[–]wanker71716 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

The mere mention that you don't like her fucking other guys is a form of mate guarding. It's similar if a guy gets reactive to someone who's trying to pickup the girl he's been flirting with at a bar, that act of wanting to directly control/influence who she sleeps with is the issue.

[–]scissor_me_timbers00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah you’re right. Chalk it to the game I guess. I still bet I see her again but she probably wanted to go sample other dick after I said that.

[–]PaulBreddit7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ahh..Tinder chick letting you bust nuts deep inside... I guarantee you this girl is banging other dudes. You’re just one of the dudes she’s banging. Clearly, you felt the sex was amazing. There’s nothing wrong with that. As a result, you caught these unwanted feelings and then said/did some shit that you wouldn’t under normal circumstances . It happens. Typically does when you’re real attracted to the chick. You fucked up there though. Nobody is perfect. She probably riding the CC full time right now and got scared off by what you said. I suggest you charge it to the game and avoid doing this again in the future. She is not the last girl on earth that you can have sexual chemistry with. Barely plate material anyway. Good luck with everything

[–]mikkeldaman2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Well maybe there could be many reasons but you went completely against the primary evolutionary instinct of a woman. You basically told her "I want you to spend your entire life fantasizing only about me, but I'm not going to commit". And you fucked her raw so she could get pregnant. Basically if she sticks with you, she will have to raise your child by herself while not even being allowed to find a beta provider. Maybe that's not happening at a conscious level, but definitely her subconscious would make her wary of you.

[–]scissor_me_timbers00[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

She’s on birth control. She never expressed any concern about me blowing inside of her, she liked it. I think this has more to do about women getting skittish at the first sign of being tied down, even tho I told her I wasn’t gonna do that. Her hindbrain may have picked up the subcommunication that way. Im betting I do see her again, our sex was too good. But this is the longest streak she hasn’t initiated texting to me. The virus could have something to do with it too, with everyone’s lives being thrown into questionable circumstances. Like I said, it’s not a huge loss, I’m mostly trying to get a learning experience out of it and get input from guys. But I would like to keep her as a plate. She was quite sexy and loved letting me pound her.

[–]mikkeldaman0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

No need to explain yourself. I don't judge. I offered you my perspective and I hope after the whole crisis is over, things will get back to normal between you guys.

Also to answer your initial question, I don't tell plates that I am possessive, although I am very much just like you. Even if I know a plate is in a relationship or married, if she brings up her boyfriend or husband, I feel a sudden urge to strangle her. But I calm down and act charming, while I move the conversation away.

Finally, there used to be this study (not sure if it's been debunked or it still stands solid) that said that the subconscious does not perceive the word "no", so her brain might have only perceived "fuck other guys", "tie you down" and "rules" and subconsciously she did not only perceive you as mateguarding, but as a cuck too.

[–]scissor_me_timbers00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Interesting theory at the end, I’ve heard that too.

[–]theUnBannableHulk1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


Plates inherently know this.

A plate is a bitch that has oneitis for me

[–]alittletoosmooth1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

What's with the cumming inside of random tinder girl? Do you hate yourself? Oh, let me guess, she said she was on the pill?

[–]scissor_me_timbers00[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

She’s on the pill and I’m running gear so my balls aren’t making swimmers

[–]alittletoosmooth0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Why not cum in her mouth? I just don't understand the added risk.

[–]scissor_me_timbers00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We both like it too much when I cum in her to do a pullout as “standard”. But I have been wanting to cum her mouth so I will probably do that if I see her again. But not out of carefulness, just cuz it’s hot. It’s less than 1% odds that birth control fails. And then it’s also very slim odds that my balls are producing any swimmers after 18 months on testosterone. So multiply tiny odds by tiny odds.

[–]MisterRoid-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because it feels great for the pee-pee? When I have sex I always cum inside. Babytrapping is not as common as guys on TRP like to think. Unless you are a prince or otherwise wealthy, it's not like women want to babytrap you as an unwilling father for scraps in child support since being a single mother decreases their relationship value significantly.

[–]fuddubandha1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women's also feel powered by fucking multiple guys. Don't think that she is your plate in online apps. Maybe you are her plate too. They like sex too as much as you like. Keep your options open.

[–]alphakari0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You asked her for exclusivity.

You can dress it up in "sexual possessive" or whatever, but what you actually did was inform her that what she does with her body matters to you. You're talking about female calibration, but I think it's you who's calibrating. Idk if you think that shit's kinky or something, but it makes zero sense to me why you'd deign to tell her that.

That said, who the fuck knows if the plate broke, or if she just took it as random dirty talk. Maybe she forgot by now.

[–]scissor_me_timbers00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah not exactly “kinky” but it was a heat of the moment during penetration sex talk. Told her point blank I’m sexually possessive. Thought it might be hot. It was actually during a goodbye “kiss” by which I mean a goodbye pump. As she was leaving I folded her in half on one of the sofa chairs in my front living room and pulled her pants halfway down her thighs and started pumping her again right there, which she liked. And there I told her I wouldn’t make any rules or anything but I only liked her fucking me. She still wanted me to cum again inside her after I said that. But you’re right, it was a form of asking for exclusivity and seems to have backfired.

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