Long Read.

I was reading /u/CementedToFailure post on his internal conflict with TRP and how swallowing the pill has caused him cognitive dissonance or mental stress to two conflicting ideas/ology. Naturally the mind tends to want to pick a side and avoid internal conflict, whatever the side might be. When this happens, the result is an adjustment of attitude and behavior to resolve this internal conflict.

Now, one thing that we all need to understand is that TRP needs to be a tool like a wrench that you use to adapt into your life to improve and help better yourself. I feel that many guys do not understand the message that TRP tries to impact. The feminist rhetoric insta-labels TRP as hate speech by proxy. The betas reject it by choice and prefer to dream about Sugar Candy mountain rather than make an effort to see if they can climb it. The Vanguard TRP members totally understand it and its Swiss army knife-like uses. The new TRP members are still in this limbo of understanding it.

When you are new to TRP, there is a flood gates of realities checks and emotions that flood in. Most of all, there always is a looming uncertainty that keeps saying to you that "maybe, you are wrong about this.."

I need to share a story.

In my early college years, i met this girl who i will call Matilda. Matilda was from Belgium and she was really a red nosed bumpkin. When she came on campus, she was shy and very conservative. Matilda used to wear dresses such as this one. She was a an average 5.

Matilda joined the International Student's Association on campus (US). Now i met her through an Economic Association. She was sweet and very innocent. I decided to help her out and show her the ropes to say. How/where to get a drivers license, how to register for this, where to get this done, apartment hunting rather than live on campus due to cost, etc. She became a pet project of some sorts to me. I was in a committed relationship and the whole deal was completely non sexual in nature. I had gone through the exact same thing without anyone to guide me and had helped out a couple of people before. She had opened up to me alot.

Fast forward, she had greatly improved. I had helped her a great deal. I was happy to see that she was focused on her future as the stats for female International students success is significantly lower than guys. Good grades and all. Now she moved and got a roommate. A girl who was currently riding the cock carousel with a beta cuckold boyfriend that "watched her make out and get fingered by her best guy friend" because they were drunk and crazy..whoo hoo..! But that was all that happened, she would never cheat on me

In less than 2 months, she has stopped answering my calls, missing a class we took together, ditched many of the Economic Association events and had completely vanished. I was genuinely concerned for her. Getting into trouble as an International Student could get your Visa revoked and removal from the country. It is a thin line and Int. Students cannot afford to behave like American students. Repercussions are exponentially greater.

I kinda put her in the back burner while I focused on my STEM classes. So, one weekend a good buddy invites me to a popular college bar for his birthday midweek. I go there and as we are sitting, who the fuck do I see, fucking Matilda. She was there with her roommate and two other disgustingly drunk, mini skirt wearing, loud and obnoxious girls. And they were white girl wasted!. Surrounding them was a gaggle of Orbiters that were financing the drunkscapade. Matilda was glassy eyed and looked like a festival slut. She had discovered makeup, high heels and slutty dresses. She was loud and kissing the Orbiters who in turn made sure her she had an endless supply of martinis. Even when she went to the bathroom, she flirted with every guy from the bar to the pisser, rubbing up on everyone. She was dressed similar to this NSFW with no underwear.

I will be honest, I did not know TRP then. I was more focused in my school. I definitely was Beta. I decided to intercept her from the bathroom. She looked at me like I was there to repo her kidney. In less than two months, a girl i had known and helped for a year walked away from me with no explanation whatsoever. She would not have shit without my help. I could not understand the way she brushed me off. When i tried to appeal to her reasoning, she just walked into the circle of her plethora of Beta SJW's who were like "Bro, is there a problem?" to "The girl dun't wanna talk to you!" She later left the club with some other Italian looking sweaty dude.

/u/Rollo-Tomassi befitted us with that word- Solipsism :female-specific obliviousness to any concern – or lesser prioritized concern – of anything outside their immediate existential needs.

I ws angry at her for a while. The next day she sent me some weird facebook message telling me to delete all messages that she had ever sent me because there were hackers that could steal that information and reveal it to the world. Slut version of spring cleaning. i did not respond and she deleted me. Apparently her friend had her convinced that girls need to stick together. I could not understand how she would choose irrational, unpredictable and risky behavior. This country bumpkin who came from a country where traditional culture is emphasized to a US college where you virtually find culture-less willing betas every 10 feet, had realized the power of her pussy. And they are willing to do anything to hover around.

But it taught me some lessons

  • Never be Captain Save-A-Hoe. As soon as a girl moves up, inevitable narcissism will take over and they will no lose a moment's sleep over hypergamy. Their mind will rationalize it to where you actually will be the villain that is trying to prevent her true happiness. Once a girl believes that she has reached the zenith of a relationship with you, she will move on to the next guy who will give her new tingles. And they will not give a fuck about you, however nice you have been to them

  • Unless you are plating, minimize or eliminate friendship with girls. It never ends well. You do not benefit in any way. You are not in the same dimension of thinking. If you want to confide in someone, go to your bro's. steve harvey said this and angered a lot of women.

  • Stay away from SJW's. Do not engage them. They are an anathema to male social progress. They have reached a point ot enacting "SJW Integrity" where they perform SJW actions even if no female will ever get to know about it..for the cause. Their imaginary SJW points adding up to balloon their egos. Like this guy

  • Most importantly, when i swallowed that red pill, i finally understood how it was. TRP is a very good servant but a bad master.

True mastery involves understanding the true concept behind TRP. If you do not, it will consume you an you will live a life of anger and insularity. Following the tenets such as lifting and self improvement need to be prioritized to banging chics. The latter comes later. I am not even there yet, not by a long shot. But i am working to get there. I have made a self conscious life decision to improve myself. No more drinking, exercise more, focus on my life goals, new hobbies, remove negative people and aspects from my life, never put pussy on a pedestal, stop masturbating, porn and never ever again be Captain Save-A-Hoe, among other things.

Some useful resources here on reddit that complement swallowing TRP. To help you exercise,make better financial decisions, assist with legal suggestions, stop drinking and stop with porn addiction and masturbation.

Some apps such as stronglifts and myfitnesspal are good free apps that help you exercise and eat right.

There are many more. Take time to meditate and understand the true meaning of TRP. Delete all those porn subreddits that you spend time like a man in a strip club dishing out sexually suggestive comments and imaginary internet points to a girl who is sitting spreading her vage that you will never get, unless, remember SugarCandy mountain, do something about it and try to conquer.

EDIT: i really thought i had put Of Nice and Men in the title..baah humbug!