Girl on r/okcupid complains about getting 46 messages per day, but none of them from the top 1% of men.

R1fle · 2015-09-08T20:19:59+00:00

Oddly enough, I found TRP through r/OKC. A lot of my dating success had feminazis downvoting every piece of advice I gave as TRP misogyny(even though I had no idea what TRP was at the time).

If not for r/OKC I would have never found you guys. /tear

That being said I can't stand r/OKC. It really is a cesspool of fat retarded feminists, and those who just don't know any better.

LionLaw · 2015-09-08T21:36:55+00:00

This is why you pretend to not give a single fuck about women, soon enough you will actually not give a fuck.
The reason why these women are so entitled in the first place is because there are so many beta ass losers worshipping the ground these hoes walk on, if men were able to regain the respect from society they have lost long ago women would be begging for a chance to date a man instead of the other way around.
Men do NOT NEED women, we just need sex from them. It is women who need men for more than just sex, so realize your power and abuse it like women have been doing since forever

Kill_Your_Ego · 2015-09-08T17:32:04+00:00

This is why you must neg girls constantly. Everything you say to them must come from a place where she needs to qualify herself to you or where you are never qualifying yourself to her. Here's an article on the neg.

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/neghits.htm

Though I disagree that you should only neg girls that think they are HB9+. And you can neg girls in lots of different ways not just their looks. And guys don't discard game because it's "manipulation". Every single interaction you have with everyone around you is manipulation. I'm manipulating you right now.

Neging girls is a moral duty. These foolish girls around us need a strong man who helps align their feelings with actual reality. That's what you're doing with a proper neg. You're actually helping these girls out. Just look at how confused they are. Go out and help these girls. Give them what they want.

jiveraffe · 2015-09-08T18:24:59+00:00

Girls will never be satisfied.

FTFY. You know why all the old fairy tales involve women that are never satisfied? Because they wouldn't ring true otherwise. Pandora's Box, the Forbidden Fruit, The Golden Fish, etc.

I bet Grhonda has been complaining that Thag has a bigger cave since we discovered fire.

cutegirlsthrowaway · 2015-09-08T21:50:47+00:00

Reads a little bit like a humble brag to me.

"I ONLY had 46 guys message me in one day, but I am too hot for them. Please look at my profile and feed me validation."

SadKuntVegeta · 2015-09-08T18:00:18+00:00

There was a similar thread the other day that said a 4 thinks she is a 9. This thread appears to showcase the same female mentality, and it makes the dating world much harder for men. Women think they are higher than they are, and that other men are lower. A female 5 doesn't want to sleep with a male 5 even though they have the same looks/SMV.

A study done a while back on ok cupid exemplifies this, as it showed how men and women rate members of the other sex based on looks. Mens' responses pretty much matched a normal distribution, with the average being like a 5. Women were way off, and rated 80 percent of men as being below average. This is pretty self explanatory, and also quite messed up.

drallcom3 · 2015-09-09T08:46:14+00:00

She looks ok, but take this from her profile:

I moved to Manchester to start a masters degree on creative writing

It means she's from rich Colombian family (otherwise she couldn't study some liberal arts shit in Europe) and daddy pays for everything. Since her family has such a high status in Colombia she's expecting the world from Manchester, a world class shithole. She's living in her own dreamworld.

CashFrags · 2015-09-08T18:08:52+00:00

Someone needs to slap this bitch, 46 messages n she tripping. That's like fishing for trout and being mad and you got all the damn bass.

But i didn't want the bass I wanted the Trout!

SexistFlyingPig · 2015-09-08T21:57:52+00:00

I like watching Netflix, but I often scroll around for a while looking for something that looks really good before I decide I really don't want to watch anything at all.

I think that's how a lot of cute girls treat OKCupid. There are 46 channels on, but nothing really good. Or even if there's 5 good things, she can't decide, and so ends up watching nothing.

Her post is just bragging.

ThrowingMyslfOutther · 2015-09-08T20:26:06+00:00

As they always say, the worst picture in their set is what they look like. She's a 6 at best with bad eyesight. I'm amazed she got 46 messages. Thirsty is as thirsty does.

2015-09-09T00:21:45+00:00

b-but everybody has told me all my life that I'm really smart, sexy and awesome. My bestest friend in the whole wide world billy beta even told me he loves me! Silly him, he's such a good friend!!

OMG Why doesn't that self-made millionaire who works 18 hours a day show me any interest??? :(((

/woman

merkucjo · 2015-09-08T19:51:51+00:00

She look like HB5 based on photos.

1NV0K3R · 2015-09-08T19:59:29+00:00

Hey I even posted in that thread.

Knew one of you guys would get to it eventually.

But yeah. "Boohoo I have a selection, but not from the .5% I want to choose from." Typical shit.

evileddy · 2015-09-08T20:20:42+00:00

You sent them a message yesterday, calm down.

hahaha nice to see some reality slapping in there

LionLaw · 2015-09-08T21:42:17+00:00

Since when did 6's have options?
She's lucky to even get 5 messages looking like that

the_red_scimitar · 2015-09-08T20:49:58+00:00

Okay, so yeah, hypergamy. This is well-covered.

Also, it's definitely a thing for the shorties to want a guy that towers over them. It's a frequent thing I see in online profiles (her: 5'2" or less, wants a guy 6'2" or more).

Domination is what they're really asking for.

RPmatrix · 2015-09-09T02:30:56+00:00

AT least a few people gave her the reply she deserves!

playitagainzak_ 27/M/Boston/doesn't care anymore 9 points 6 hours ago

Yes. How do you think it would look if I complained that all the girls I message never respond and only fatties/girls I'm not interested in message me?

Yeah that's what I thought. Get off your high horse. I know culture might have brainwashed you to believe you deserve nothing short of 'the very best', but having that sort of attitude is actually not all that healthy. The validation you're getting in this thread is only enabling it, I'm sure more than half the men who commented here praising how cool you seem probably would be 'not good enough'... hmm.

TL;DR - suck it up and lower your standards.

haha! spot on!

2015-09-08T20:33:53+00:00

Way too much thought and focus for a woman you're not fucking. Have a laugh, do your own thing. Women like this are as common as grains of sand on a beach.

MoneyStatusLooks · 2015-09-08T21:22:44+00:00

My current GF, who was a 5, now a 7 cos shes lost 30lbs since she started dating me, told me she got 30 messages every day if she logged in to POF. Told me she thought 90% of them were creeps lol.

Be the best or be invisible. But once you get to that point, where you are the prize/catch etc, it's a self fulfilling cycle, I get constant positive feedback more or less now, definitely helps with abundance mindset, knowing that she is totally replaceable at the drop of a hat.

TheBeardedMarxist · 2015-09-09T01:20:43+00:00

Top 1% of men don't use dating sites.

Words-Are-Wind · 2015-09-09T19:16:05+00:00

Every time I read comments from that sub it goes like this:

Hamstering Hamstering Hamstering Hamstering Hamstering Hamstering Hamstering Hamstering Hamstering Hamstering Hamstering Hamstering Truth that is downvoted into oblivion

Although in this case the top post wasn't as hamstery as usual. It was probably the most objective top comment I've seen in that sub, since it just stated a truth of internet dating. Still, it didn't really address any of her concerns like the most downvoted comment did.

I think for now on I'll read that sub from bottom to top.

edit: formatting

HeadingRed · 2015-09-08T22:55:03+00:00

There was also a study where women rated most men as below average or average while men rated most women average or above average.

For all the screaming women do about men only wanting some "supermodel barbie doll" it's them who are the most picky.

2015-09-09T03:59:15+00:00

Is it really feminism, though? We know what types of men women are attracted to. Feminism only gave women the green light.

fit_to_fight · 2015-09-08T21:25:35+00:00

Here's the snip from a woman I just ran across on OKC:

I spend a lot of time thinking about The heart of my Inner Wizdom. I think. A lot. About everything. Logically, emotionally, spiritually, curiously.

I need you to have an anti-oppressive framework because I don't want to hold your hand through an understanding of the sexist, white-supremacist, homophobic, cis-sexist, ableist, shit-capitalist society we live in. Intersectionalism.

She has kids she's home schooling...smh

EMOTIONAL RESPONSIBILITY. You need to want to GROW and be a better person. Openness is the sexiest quality.:

havelbrandybuck · 2015-09-09T03:21:26+00:00

I don't even need to read your entire thread to tell you that girls on OkCupid do not have the prospects of dating men. You cant force relationships or interactions. It's an ego boost first, solution to boredom second and a dating app as a last resort of loneliness.

IronMeltsinmyHands · 2015-09-08T18:57:59+00:00

I used to believe you could win over women. But really, there's no winning women. You can win over men and women will follow. But not women. No man follows any woman. Not even betas, secretly we all hate their entitled attitudes.

Anyway, batman never bends over for catwoman. It's always catwoman bending under batman's pressure. Treat em like brats and keep em in line. Don't listen to the whole treat em mean keep em clean nonsense . That's just getting far too involved, and invested.

ChristopherBurr · 2015-09-08T20:23:44+00:00

I shall now make it my mission to join r/okcupid just to mess with people like this .. thanks for helping out with my new mission statement

frys180 · 2015-09-08T20:25:55+00:00

I'm lazy. The thing is I only take pictures of myself in family events...so

Hmmm...

BlueFreedom420 · 2015-09-08T20:37:42+00:00

Another example of the western female SMV bubble. When the empire falls shes will beg that fat ugly survivalist to bang her.

Purecorrupt · 2015-09-08T21:41:58+00:00

She's not bad looking; although seeing her parents etc. isn't helping in my opinion. 46 different dudes and none worthy? Eh.

Note I didn't read her profile.

BruiseLeet · 2015-09-09T06:27:34+00:00

46 messages? Bitch please, I get 0.

2015-09-09T09:28:50+00:00

This isn't a phenomenon unique to women.

If I had 46 buttergolems hitting on me every day I'd bitch about it too.

Everyone has standards.

The difference is TRP teaches us to improve ourselves rather than blame the system.

ELLEN_POO · 2015-09-09T10:20:37+00:00

But why is this a problem? I mean would you write fat landwhales (ie women you don't want) back on pof or other dating sites? Women are in this sense not any different from men. What do you want, for women to not have selection at all? Imagine if fucking 46 landwhales messaged you. It would be annoying to deal with to say the least.

squirtmasterd · 2015-09-09T12:24:54+00:00

She deleted everything, probably didn't like being called out but it's a good example of the female mind set. She was far from hot, a 6 at best, and looked like she was about 14 years old, so maybe that's why loads of guys liked her and she's got this impression she deserves a 10. Id be weary of any guy who thought she was super hot.

StarDestinyGuy · 2015-09-08T21:45:10+00:00

So how do you guys (especially those that are familiar with that sub) think that topic would go if you made the exact same topic but flipped the gender? Otherwise literally the exact same wording.

NotBlackPhilip · 2015-09-09T00:32:41+00:00

I mostly lurk on this sub, don't really feel the need to post as I'm still learning but I took a look at this bitches profile and she is a 6 in her absolute best pic. The fuck? No tits, mousey face and she says the same shit every other girl does (ie no personality) and she flat out expects to bag Derek Jeter? Like I said, THE FUCK? I love the advice to neg these girls into submission. Use this as extra motivation to rule your women with an iron fist. They desperately need the reality check.

RedSovereign · 2015-09-09T03:38:42+00:00

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2015-09-09T04:08:11+00:00

Yeah.. meanwhile ive been on there for years and only got 3 responses that were just answers to questions that i had about their profile..they also stopd responding right after..keep in mind..these were 4/10s

2015-09-09T05:51:25+00:00

And of course, betas gon' beta.

I don't don't even know if it's social conditional, or it's just that some men are hard-wired to be betas, always taking a woman's side, always trying to be the "best friend", always available, bending over backwards to please women, especially women who are unavailable to him.

I don't know what it is, and then when you try to explain to them that women can be some of the most callous, calculating, selfish beings on the planet, they can't believe it, and go into white-knight mode.

nzgs · 2015-09-09T09:16:39+00:00

Being 5'3 isn't a negative for a woman, a lot of guys like banging petite chicks (myself included). More pertinent would be her looks in general. I am guessing she is your average skinny-fat mediocre western woman.

Myrpl · 2015-09-09T10:16:55+00:00

For what it's worth, he/she deleted the original thread, so take it with a grain of salt.

Ronin11A · 2015-09-09T19:56:36+00:00

My plate was bitching about the same thing last night. I've been encouraging her to get on Match and OKC. She was on for two weeks and is now giving up because it's "exhausting" keeping up with all the messages she receives, but so far none of the guys have struck her fancy.

Honestly, the whole exchange would have probably irritated me if I hadn't been able to fuck her senseless right after.

2015-09-10T01:42:41+00:00

The sad part is that the messages are all from guys that i'm not interested in

I bet nobody had the stones to tell her that the problem was, almost certainly, that she just wasn't attractive enough to get the men she wanted.

ArtistBlock · 2015-09-10T01:51:33+00:00

This is why I stopped online dating. Gaming outside has gotten me more results than that crapfest of OKC. Got catfished twice, never again.

Five_Decades · 2015-09-11T03:31:52+00:00

The real question is when their sense of hypergamy fails to land them a suitable mate (every female 4 on an internet dating site is holding out for an 8+ male, but the 8+ male has better options), and they find themselves in their 40s w/o a mate and little to offer, how do they respond?

foldpak111 · 2015-09-09T01:50:51+00:00

I don't even associate myself with women anymore. Tremendous waste of time. Life has gotten so much better for me, so much more time and virtually zero drama. I'm learning computer science on code academy (will be pulling low six figures in a couple years as a UX/UI Designer, watch me), reading self development, working out 3x a week, got a management position making 26 an hour, new guy friends to shoot the shit with, some of those turned into mentors who have done extremely well for themselves as entrepreneurs. Life is looking pretty good.

Kenny_Twenty · 2015-09-08T21:26:28+00:00

Stop crying about what women want. You're being a pussy. Stop that.

Bradovoxo · 2015-09-09T02:08:20+00:00

If I get on Tinder and nothing but ugly girls hit me up I'm gonna be like "wtf?". I'll probably get down voted for this but you can't get mad at her for wanting the top 1% men when TRP teaches guys to pull the top 1% of women. Come on now.

Stop bitching about how entitled girls are and become entitled yourself.

ZioFascist · 2015-09-08T23:34:44+00:00

I can count on one hand the number of messages ive received on online dating sites since I was 19 from girls that I thought were "okay" (im excluding black girls since im against race mixing)

46 in a day....she'll have a 1000+ in a month. unfuckingbelieable

Title	Girl on r/okcupid complains about getting 46 messages per day, but none of them from the top 1% of men.
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Date	September 8, 2015 5:13 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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