Summary:

The masculine facade is gender-based consumerism. These facades hold hardly any masculine merit yet fools women effortlessly. Women are more visual with their sexual selection not to be confused with how they are sexual on a psychological level.

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This post is targeted to the young TRPers (15-25) who, including myself, have had many fits of wonder as to why some women go for the cliche bad boy look. I know countless women in this age group who happily have ONS with young men who have tattoos, big cars, wild piercings, go to the heaviest metal shows, have the newest gadgets, and etc. Besides the price-tag that comes with these things, why do women never seem to fail to hook up with Ray, the skinny vaping tatt'd scruff-beard who, after he gets sex, loses frame and drops down from RP to BP? Or Bobby, after shagging in his mustang and dropping off Haley, he texts her day and night until she loses interest.

They say men are visual. I think this is far from the truth. Men are sexually stimulated visually but men do a lot more analyzing than women do. I can recall many times in my BP days when a woman couldn't see past the tats, the beard, or the car and see a boy charading as a man. At the time I thought they were clueless and now I understand that women cannot see past the surface just as they are bound to live in the moment. They can't see anything more than what is placed before them. Unlike men who have red flags that help us determine in the long run if a woman is worth our investment, women rely solely on their fee-fees in the moment. Once you lose her fee-fees, it's hard to bring them back, she's seen you the last way she'll feel about you (for your LTR RPers, which is why maintaining stoicism in a break-up is a big deal).

PUAs use the term pea-cocking to explain a psychological method of standing out of the crowd but let's consider the average consumer. Tattoos are still considered taboo in many professional environments. The average consumer won't design their own tattoo. They'll select a design from a scrap book that Zack the Tattoo Artist through together in his off time. In fact, most of the best pieces are a Tattoo Artist's original. The consumer will have had little input besides a few references and an idea. The average metal head didn't write those licks at the shows he goes to. He buys the CDs, the merchandise, wears the shirt, and recites the lyrics because he's heard them a million times. The newest mustang that Scott drives was Daddy's money. I'm not speaking for the Auto Enthusiasts who actually know how to swap parts and install them or make custom modifications. That takes real effort and time. But even then, I know young men who have dedicated their life to learning the ins and outs of 350 Zs and women aren't dropping their panties for them, but they're fucking the brains out of Aron who just dropped thousands on his new 2015 Chevy Silverado. Regardless that Aron worked construction, he's getting the ladies through his example of consumerism. When Aron was out slaving away in a hot sun, he wasn't turning heads, he was just a sweaty pleb making a living.

The masculine facade is consumerism. "You're not a man if you drive a Ford and you probably suck dicks too." Women will hop on a tat'd bad boy than they will a responsible young man working his as off and remaining stoic. This is why approaching is a big deal for youngRPers. You are aware of consumerism but you're not into the in crowd but you can definitely show them how a man is supposed to behave and not drop your fee-fees on a woman post-sex like Ray because after the condom comes off, he was actually a little boy disguised as a man.

Lessons Learned:

  • PUAs pea-cocking works on a consumer level as well
  • Young "men" dress and play pretend man, pull in women, but can't seem to make good decisions or keep the women
  • Women can only ever see skin-deep and nothing more
  • Women will never understand if he acts differently than he looks
  • Get out there, dress the part, and approach