Summary: Guy in relationships subreddit has an alpha buddy who gets girls effortlessly. Instead of being happy in his friend's success and maybe learning a thing or two from it, he wants to put a stop to it. Of course, he claims it's out of concern for the women involved. It's totally not jealousy. Totally.
Body: https://archive.is/uoiry
So I have been best friends with Mike for 12 years. We have been through everything together and I truly could not live without him. He is a kind, generous and an all around great guy except for one glaring problem. He treats girls terribly. He cheats on his girlfriends, and when he's single, he has no boundaries with girls and is creepy.
Of course, in this case "creepy" and "has no boundaries" probably translates to "he's got boatloads of confidence, he openly shows sexual interest in women, and he escalates physically." Guys like Chad really should learn that the proper way to court a woman is to become friends with her first and hope that it gradually evolves into a relationship. /s
He is currently in a relationship now and this does not stop him from acting as though he's single. It is so frustrating because he's been getting away with it with no repercussions. He's good looking and charming and he can talk his way out of any situation.
The sentence I bolded is what convinces me that the guy who submitted the thread is driven by jealousy rather than concerns over the treatment by women. It must be driving him crazy that his buddy is spinning plates and getting tons of female attention when he gets so little.
And, of course, the comments section is full of people telling OP he needs to stop being friends with his alpha buddy. Because the relationships subreddit has always hated guys who are successful at getting women into bed and have no desire to settle down for just one.
Lesson Learned: Be careful if you've got friends who are bluepillers/white knights. If you're successful at seducing women, they may become resentful of you and seek to cockblock you.
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