Summary: Girls talk about cheating on their boyfriends/husbands and keeping it a secret. Thread contains rock-hard RedPill truths about hypergamy, branch swinging and shit testing.
Thread here.
Some people say that sharks are the most deadly animal in the world - but I think it's the hamster. The hamster will cheat with impunity and then try to shift the responsibility to someone - anyone - but itself. The hamster is especially dangerous when it runs around in the mind of a woman.
Case in point, another AskWomen thread about cheating. See if you can spot the RedPill truths yourself in these posts:
I've been married to my husband for 5 years and together 4 before that. I've also been having an affair for the last 18 months. I have a dead bedroom at home. This isn't an excuse it's just for context. I craved attention and feeling like I'm sexy. I posted to gone wild and got lots of messages and comments. One message stood out and we struck up a conversation and it was purely about sharing photos at the beginning. We are very far away geographically (UK to US) but over the first few months we became more friendly and realised how similar we were. We both had dead bedrooms and other similar marital issues. Long story short we text/face timed all day everyday and slowly fell for each other.
During this time it actually improved my relationship with my husband as my confidence grew. I won't lie there were times I compared the two of them but I'm not silly enough to believe Mr Affair would be as perfect in real life. I loved my husband through all of this that didn't and won't change. I didn't even realise it was possible to love two people before then. My affair was over a couple of months ago after being discovered by his wife. My husband doesn't know about it. Our relationship is better now than it was before the affair started but there is also a lot of other factors that could be behind this.
Process that for a second through a red-tinted lens. Bet you anything her husband had become a complete beta - fat, lazy, supplicating. So what does the wife do? "Till death do us part"... nah, she hops on the cyber cock carousel and sends boobies across the internet to random strangers. One of whom she starts to have an affair with. After her physical appetite is sated, she goes back to her provisionary beta husband. never telling him about what happened.
This man is going to die eventually and be buried by his lying cheating wife, without ever knowing what had actually happened. This man's entire family life will be a story of deceit, and the poor schmuck doesn't even know about it. This could be you, it could be any of us if we're not careful.
I have cheated but it wasn't really an affair. It was a guy I turned to whenever my relationship sucked, yet we weren't in love. I did it because he gave me the attention and affection my former SO didn't give me in those moments. He had a girlfriend as well and we never intended to be together, it was just for fun times. I did love my SO, but obviously I didn't respect him enough to stay faithful. He has never known and probably because of that I've never really felt guilty, since technically I didn't hurt him. Horrible I know, yet the truth.
Remember, even if she cheated, it still wasn't an affair! How does that make sense, you ask? Why, because it was just sex, nothing more. No emotions were involved. Therefore it doesn't count. Welcome to the mind of a woman.
He [my boyfriend] is awesome. Was then, is now. (He's next to me, playing Destiny.) The cheating wasn't about him. It was about me. He has always rocked. I didn't love the other guy. He had a big penis, liked sex and didn't ask me about my kid ever. My husband was(is) a great dad and I was an asshole with self esteem issues and an existential crisis to work out.
Alpha fux, beta bux. It literally cannot get clearer than this. Her side-man has a huge penis and is an alpha to the core. Her husband is a video game playing, child-raising beta male who quietly accepts his lot in life. Going by the tone of her comment, he probably has no idea his wife goes out and gets railed by Brett ThunderDude on the weekends.
He's an absolutely wonderful person who I loved and respected. He was also several thousand miles away, never had time to speak to me, and I was lonely and depressed to the point where I was spending at least a few hours out of every day crying and going for months without speaking to anyone in person. When I started meeting up with my old friend, I intended to keep saying no to his romantic advances, but in the end I stopped saying it. I fucked up. It's not my partner's fault.
Typical case of "I didn't mean to!!! It was just a one-time mistake!! You don't understand, I was so lonely!" She had the option of breaking up with her boyfriend but she didn't; most likely the guy was working towards some high-status education or work goal far away, and she didn't want to lose that meal ticket just yet. So she maintained a long-distance relationship with him while spreading her legs for another man at home who was persistent enough. This is why you don't do long-distance, kids.
Read the whole thread. Quality material there. Don't get married.
TL;DR: When women cheat, it's always "something that just happened". They rely on alphas for physical validation, betas for emotional validation.
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